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Mynd44:
This man is me, I an this man.

House husband is the way to go. My wife should go and work, focus on Her career and let me be chopping life and watching TV.

Cooking and cleaning? We can employ domestic staff or I can just use it as my workout routine.

I want the joys of driving my kids to school and picking them, attending their extra-curricular activities and being their supporters. Make their mama go work abeg. I cannot work until my old age.

UndauntedYOCA:
Kikikikikikikikikikikk, you'll be responsible for taking care of the kids from childhood, won't you? This entails washing their cloths, bathing them, cooking and feeding them, making sure the house is clean, ensuring their safety, grocery shopping, going to docto'a appointments with them etc, also you might be required to also have a job even if it doesn't pay that much or at least, have a business and contribute as well. Abi?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Do you know if you don't take care of your family you will be ask on the last day? People see marriage as a thing to flex, they don't know it is a task entrust to you both.

Family building is very important than anything in a man's life. If a man can control and take care of his family, forget it he has done an awesome task.

For this man, focusing on his wife ambition shouldn't be his priority, but his family entirly inclusive - thier kids also.

I wish him best of luck !!!

MiVida:
If you look at him sef, you'll know he's that soft type you can order around.

OlawaleBammie:
God pls in this my life, i mean this life of mine that am enjoying curently(cus am not sure if i wil agree to come to this world the second tym, am not Jesus)

Father pls dont let me be mumu, Baba jowo maje ki n ya didirin. God forbid i become a dundil.

ogbiwa:
No. The reason I see it as risky is because THE ONLY WISE GOD ordains that a man should provide for his own family. Yes the woman should support him in this but it is the primary responsibility of the man. This is the order that nature recognises. When you go against the order of nature in any context it's only a matter of time chaos steps in

Magnoliaa:
Goan attain the status he's attained first naa.

Magnoliaa:
Just like we like 'em.

Martinez39s:
Don't mind him. He is making the same mistake blue pill men make: thinking women and men are mentally wired the same way. He will not realise his mistake until his wife starts disrespecting him, cheating openly and keeping late nights, telling everyone how she is "suffering" and providing, and reminding him of who provides and feeds him when they quarrel and she gets emotional (it wouldn't matter even if she later apologizes and falsely claim that she didn't mean it). It is then he will the hard truth that you don't make sacrifices for women and you should leave a woman at the same level you met her, never elevate her status. He will be pained realizing that his sacrifices were in vain when his wife gets to a higher level than his and meets other richer men.