₦airaland Forum

To be a feminist is not to deny hallotry exist! If you call excessive exposure dressing nicely, why dont you wear it to court, embassy, to see your in laws. Misandry under the guise of feminism wants to destroy the world!

AuntRose:
Out the the abundance of the heart your actions reveal itself. You can't resist what you love. You have the right to think whatever you like if I decide to dress nice, I have no control over your thoughts because you are solely responsible to take charge of it and your 'pervert-like' attitude.

You're a disgrace to womanhood! I pointed out your ignorance, rather than accept you misunderstood her post, you're here taking excessive pride in your ignorance!

JovialJune:
What is it with nl males and lack of cognitive dissonance? What is it about my previous comment that you cannot understand? Are you slow or you just simple comprehensive skills? Or you, just like to argue baselessly for the fun of it

DMerciful:
To be a feminist is not to deny hallotry exist! If you call excessive exposure dressing nicely, why dont you wear it to court, embassy, to see your in laws. Misandrists under the guise of feminism wants to destroy the world!

Common sense would reveal to you women dress appropriately when the need arises. No matter how crazy lady Gaga is she dresses nice when it's time to see the president, no matter how crazy Ini Edo is she dresses nice when she gets an official invitation by anyone deserving. Your points are making me to lose interest

AuntRose:
Out the the abundance of the heart your actions reveal itself. You can't resist what you love. You have the right to think whatever you like if I decide to dress nice, I have no control over your thoughts because you are solely responsible to take charge of it and your 'pervert-like' attitude.

So you want to blame men for the way you women of today almost dress nakked

Accept the truth. Women objectify themselves..because all they work in this life is to get attention from men..hence the immoral dressing,attitudes they display on daily basis.

AuntRose:
Common sense would reveal to you women dress appropriately when the need arises. No matter how crazy lady Gaga is she dresses nice when it's time to see the president, no matter how crazy Ini Edo is she dresses nice when she gets an official invitation by anyone deserving. Your points are making me to lose interest

OK, when the need arises, they dress well. But when its time to objectify themselves and get attention from opposite sex. They dress indecently ..

Lool

What kind of women have you been rolling with? Girl, have you been living under a rock?
In my neighbourhood, women have been sharing financial responsibility since God knows when, so where did you get your info from?

I'm assuming you grew with a mum and a dad, and I'm assuming your mum didn't just sit down and watch your dad foot all the bills....

Let's get our facts right, long gone are those days when women sit down idle as housewives. Nowaday, women work to take care of their homes, I see heavily pregnant women struggle to provide food for their families and it irks me when folks like you undermine the efforts of these women.

Get your facts right next time.

Hmmm, anyways I'm not interested

AuntRose:
Common sense would reveal to you women dress appropriately when the need arises. No matter how crazy lady Gaga is she dresses nice when it's time to see the president, no matter how crazy Ini Edo is she dresses nice when she gets an official invitation by anyone deserving. Your points are making me to lose interest

DMerciful:
You're a disgrace to womanhood! I pointed out your ignorance, rather than accept you misunderstood her post, you're here taking excessive pride in your ignorance!

You are a disgrace to manhood, o pointed out your lack of comprehension and cognitive dissonance, rather than accept that you are slow, you are here taking pride in being slow!!!

southniyikaye:
cc debbydams

yes yes dear

JovialJune:
You must buy her a phone? I hate when I see this b.s from a guy, are you a weakling that you can't outrightly tell her a big NO? All the things you mentioned, give her if you want to, nobody put a gun to your head if you don't give her, no one forced you to date a materialistic lady, move the fvck on if you feel she's too demanding for you and stop generalising all female behaviour as one.

I hear.u knw hw many I have said no nd have move the Bleep on.mtsw.is not generalisation but base on reality.though I blame big Bois who think they can puchase love.I UNDASTAND U WILL ALWAYS BE DEFENSIVE/SENTIMENTAL because U ARE A LADY BUT BE SENTIMENTAL ABOUT LADIES BAD BEHAVIOUR IS BECOMING ANNOYING because HAVE NOTICE THAT SOME LADIES NWADAYS DO SILLY THINGS DT WAS NOT IN OUR SOCIETY 15YRS AGO because THEY SEE THERE FELLOW LADIES DNT FROWN AT SUCH BEHAVIOUR ND BLAME MEN FOR IT.IS NOW SO BAD DT MARRIED LADY WILL BE BLEACHING SKIN OF THEIR KIDS,DOING ATTACHMENT OF YOUNG DAUGHTER.

Kuns84:
Uh oh, looks like this struck a nerve

Although I didn't expect any less from your ilks. Once a fellow woman refuses to tow your destructive lane of toxic feminism, embittered souls like you will come out spewing hate and misery.

Karashika

They hate the truth like kilode... In fact most times i purposely refuses to tell them any truth just to swim my own and run away.

JovialJune:
Pls crawl out from whatever cave you live, women supports their men financially, and it will continue to be so till the end of time.

for Nigeria of 2020.ok financially support me am a man.xmas is around the corner.there few who does that.form broke and many will show their true colour.ONLY A FEW.

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

God in heaven first alpha sensible female I come across in nairaland

LadySarah:
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.

Men should share in house chores and women should also take up financial responsibilities as many are already doing. This is just simple sense

JovialJune:
So I should come and tell you all the things I've bought for my husband, because you are who exactly?

see eh nt saying is all women but most ladies have privileged mentality .see d attitude of ladies always blaming men for women bad behaviour is pathetic.because like me I knowledge we men bad behaviour we have pride,ego DT kills us even my tribe is an issue with our men but I no go vex Nd start attacking.women who will point such out about my tribe men will my governor pay me for doing that or my king go give me chieftaincy title e no go add value to me .even me I critize men who spend money to buy love frm a woman.even womanzing get e knw effect for guys Nd there are advice I give guys to be wise.i no be like you DT will be acting denial of ladies bad behaviour.in reality in Nigeria.you knw why is good to. knowledge because it helps one to observe Ur weak side or bad behaviour Nd correct them shikena.dt hw life works.

AuntRose:
Why should it be disregarded? Because it is the truth?

There's no truth in your disorientation and part of confusion and destruction you preach. In the entire universe, only one race practice such.

God bless you

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

if foolishness could be measured you would be used as its SI unit

As in ehn! That is just apt.

Cutehector:
We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.


Cute

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

truly u right in most of wat u mention except sharing d financial responsibility of our husband ,is even nw most ladies share responsibilities n r willing to support dere men financially compare to our mother time when is only faming DAT d wife n children use to support dere husband n father..
Talking abt women saying shit abt men is true ,every woman needs a man one wey or d oda but dues to d in responsibility of most men women choose to be on dere own instead to be in a toxic relationship or marriage..
D feeling is also mutual wt men,men talk shitting things abt women still dey can't do wt out dem..dey want to be alone but not by dere self ,wat scare men mostly in marriage is responsibilities n dey don't wanna end up eating only egusi soup all dere life but still need a woman around dem..so I will say both men n women av this gender issues DAT can never be resolve ,I rest my case

The thread is true but not general..... Next time is best to use "some" .....
And on the other side of you are not affected you don't need to insult the post..
My warning to guys don't take this post to be heart it may affect how you see ladies, just have sense and be wise.

Beverlyjean:
U are mentally unstable...u are sick and need help... u are a damaged human being and dangerous to the society.... calling make love nothing but fake...u really need help ASAP...women are free already, I guess u are mentally imprisoned

Smh... I guess you're a lost cause, you've really eaten a lot of sh*t to get your brain formatted into seeing foes as friends and friends as foes. You've got it all mixed up, I'll advice you realign your stance and balance your IQ dearly beloved.

ojun50:
The world is not ending soon..... Stop deceiving urself...

you couldn't get...

addictiv:
Truly women display more crab mentality than men....

I tell you bro

BadBitch:
First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

this write up made more sense than the op

Blyzz:
Feminine in the house won't comment. They're bitter already. Seeing the truth from their fellow woman, they'll go gaga and call her names (even in their heart, cos many won't comment). Men are scum, men are scum, yet they keep marrying every Saturday. Let them keep deceiving the gullible

lol, calm down bro, same way we shout women are bitches and hoes everyday but these women don't get married to stones weekly na

CHoccolaTE:
[s]Op, if you are a man pretending to be a woman and you started this thread to make women objects of ridicule you will die before the end of next year, slow and painful death.

If you are actually a stupid and attention seeking female then I have no words for you.

Make I mention you so that you will see the post
@leshurr[/s]

Cry a river

I don’t even know why o

Beverlyjean:
Really...did u just say that @ bolded ?? ...so he doesn't satisfy u or What?? I don't get ...isnt it enjoyed by both ??..or u see it as a favour or what?? Its confusing

Quality sex comes from a relaxed mind. The woman who has been busy with house chores after work will not give you quality sex and will not also enjoy it cos her body is yelling 'rest'.while the man has taken time to relax and is looking forward to the final enjoyment.

Our fathers who you compare to us had several wives. In case of sickness or childbirth or whatever, another wife filled the gap.

My husband isn't insensitive to these. Most he's home before me and already does some while I do the rest. It gives me ample time to relax and increase our bonding.

Unless your mum isn't truthful, ask her how she feels those times.I doubt if you are a mother. You will understand later