₦airaland Forum

Wise231:
She will be carried away

In which country?

If a MARRIED woman comes on this Nairaland to ask how she can migrate, are we saying she would get encouragement from you all?

You won’t call her a feminist and ask who she is leaving HER kids for?

You won’t say she is going to collect foreign prick, even though we all know the husband will most likely collect local toto?

This is Nigeria where a woman isn’t allowed/encouraged to work in a different state. If you are not in an organization with a nationwide presence, you are expected to resign and go join your husband. MARRIAGE OVER CAREER.

-We marry early and stay home to groom our kids? We are LIABILITIES.

-We decide to work in our youths and marry later, we are DESPERATE OLOSHOS disguised as career women.

-We don’t have jobs, we are nothing but SEX OBJECTS.

-We have jobs, we should be avoided because we can’t be CONTROLLED.

Esseite:
Seeing thread on FP and numerous stories of men migrating and bringing their wives over, is it forbidden for women to migrate while trying to relocate their husbands over?...

Even with women that have the neccessary PR documents, it's still same scenerio for majority, which is waiting on the husband to figure it all out.

I know it sure exists but the ratio is not even close.

You see a lot of women with the sole aim of waiting for him to bring her over, cant you work your way out to cross over?..

It just goes to show a lot of women are plain liabilities and nothing else.

crackhaus:
LOL...

Are we going to pretend like we don't know that for most Nigerian women, their life ambition always begins and ends with a man appearing in the picture who will improve their economic/social status?

No need for any long story bro, we already know these things and e nor pass the reason in my previous paragraph.
Any other explanation is simply needless posturing and tactical diversions.

babakb:
These women are not forcing you to marry them, you are the ones proposing marriage to them if you're tired with them just leave them.

The few women that listened to such advice and pursued her career and be successful you still bash her and call her evening newspaper. A woman is dammed if she do and dammed if she don't.

crackhaus:
Please keep shut and focus on the topic.

Whomever is forcing who for marriage, or whomever is tired, has absolutely no correlation with my comment above.

Esseite:
[s][/s]Seeing thread on FP and numerous stories of men migrating and bringing their wives over, is it forbidden for women to migrate while trying to relocate their husbands over?...

Even with women that have the neccessary PR documents, it's still same scenerio for majority, which is waiting on the husband to figure it all out.

I know it sure exists but the ratio is not even close.

You see a lot of women with the sole aim of waiting for him to bring her over, cant you work your way out to cross over?..

It just goes to show a lot of women are plain liabilities and nothing else[s][/s].

Alexaonfleek:
This is a country where a woman is bashed and called names for choosing career over family and marriage life,yet you want that same woman to do suffer head of relocating to a new country

These end time guys are getting too relaxed ooo.
They want woman that will do suffer head for them.

babakb:
No mind them, these sissy guys just want to exploit women.
They want financially independent women.
They want her to pay 50% of the house bills or more.
They want her to remain super slim and sexy even after giving birth to 3 kids.
They want her to buy her house and her car in their name.
They want her to keep quiet and endure when she catches them cheating.
They want her to keep quiet and endure domestic violence.
They want her to quietly clean them up when they come back home drunk and intoxicated.
They want her to always thank them for marrying her where as they are the ones that make the marriage proposal.

Damn, it's not easy being a Nigerian woman right now.

babakb:
No mind them, these sissy guys just want to exploit women.
They want financially independent women.
They want her to pay 50% of the house bills or more.
They want her to remain super slim and sexy even after giving birth to 3 kids.
They want her to buy her house and her car in their name.
They want her to keep quiet and endure when she catches them cheating.
They want her to keep quiet and endure domestic violence.
They want her to quietly clean them up when they come back home drunk and intoxicated.
They want her to always thank them for marrying her where as they are the ones that made the marriage proposal.

Damn, it's not easy being a Nigerian woman right now.

Denique:
Don't you (men) wanna be The Head Of The Family no more

We're just being submissive

How it all started:

We were in the background and you lot said we were a liability
We tried to be the 21st century women and you lot said we were placing our career above the home. You said our career was in the kitchen...then, we said, okay...we will let you take charge as of the old times, in order not to turn evening newspapers, thereby ending up in every SHILOH.

Now you complaining we letting you be THE MAN?!

We earn more than you, we become haughty;
We let you earn more, we are leeches...

OP, either you tell us the colour of (most) you guys problem or you allow us stay in the background o.

Go to The Abroad and coman carry us; we are your liability. E dakun.

Denique:
Don't you (men) wanna be The Head Of The Family no more

We're just being submissive

How it all started:

We were in the background and you lot said we were a liability
We tried to be the 21st century women and you lot said we were placing our career above the home. You said our career was in the kitchen...then, we said, okay...we will let you take charge as of the old times, in order not to turn evening newspapers, thereby ending up in every SHILOH.

Now you complaining we letting you be THE MAN?!

We earn more than you, we become haughty;
We let you earn more, we are leeches...

OP, either you tell us the colour of (most) you guys problem or you allow us stay in the background o.

Go to The Abroad and coman carry us; we are your liability. E dakun.

Fahdiga1:
Hardly will a woman go over there and remember her husband. don't you know that they are unstable creatures. once they taste a new dick they will forget their past but men is the opposite except in a few cases

Clicked:
You've said it all. Nigerian men nowadays want to eat their cake and have it.

They want you to do school runs, go to work, contribute 50% of all expenses, take care of the kids, take care of them, wash, cook, clean, and then at night open your legs and happily satisfy their sexual urges. Haba!

babakb:
The truth is so bitter, Nigerian many are chronic hypocrites.

They come online and bash Nigerian women and go behind and beg the same women for Dating and Marriage.

Hahaha

babakb:
No mind them, these sissy guys just want to exploit women.
They want financially independent women.
They want her to pay 50% of the house bills or more.
They want her to remain super slim and sexy even after giving birth to 3 kids.
They want her to buy her house and her car in their name.
They want her to keep quiet and endure when she catches them cheating.
They want her to keep quiet and endure domestic violence.
They want her to quietly clean them up when they come back home drunk and intoxicated.
They want her to always thank them for marrying her where as they are the ones that made the marriage proposal.

Damn, it's not easy being a Nigerian woman right now.

Goodman247:
sex is mutual, are you not enjoying it

Cousin9999:
The job market is sexist. It's easier for a guy to earn.

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Cousin9999:
The job market is sexist. It's easier for a guy to earn.

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