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BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by princeSammyz: 11:36am On Dec 10, 2020 |
BBCpidgin is asking this question on facebook and I observed a lot of people are shying away from the question of sexual abuse and focusing more on physical abuse and maltreatments. I understand their reservations considering identity is open on facebook. So thought I should bring it here. Did you ever experience sexual abuse or know someone who was abused as a boarding school student? It's one myth a lot of people carry, so can we have this talk here? Please share your experience. I did attend a boarding school. I was not abused per se. But had a senior who masturbated in front of some three or four of us just to show us what sperm looks like. By the way, I've been to education, crime, and family sections before I decided to place this here. I do hope my judgement was OK. Lol 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by money121(m): 1:32pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
No |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by obicoolnino: 1:32pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
A |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Thattallgirl(f): 1:33pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Nahhh...was a day student all through except in Uni. My roommates would be gisting me about what and what happened in their boarding schools. So many things went on in boarding schools that parents aren't aware of till now. Here to read comments. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Professorcplus(m): 1:33pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Some girls are willing to indulge in sex but never had the opportunity. I remembered when I came back from uni for summer holiday and we decided to go visit our family friend. I met 3 girls of ss2, jss3 and pry 3. I can see the Senior girl was extremely shy. After the introduction and familiarity I got to know that she is currently in all girls boarding school. I made her feel comfortable with me as a sharp uni boy, tissing her and steering up adult conversation. Just two days staying she told me how boarding life how is. Making out is common with girls... It's is secret things the more you know the more it hurts. I pity parents that are not closer to their children. Imagine ss2 girl willing to have sex with uni boy under her parent roof. I was proud I didn't dig the well that day. I was just too confused. But she respected me very very well. 58 Likes |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by classicfrank4u(m): 1:33pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
I attended day school... Make I jejely wait for boarders to cm share their experience |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by slawormiir: 1:33pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by BigSarah(f): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Boarding school? No! My parents enjoyed having me around. A roommate in final year , did share a story of a certain prefect that specialized in grabbing ladies by the p*0sy, ti0ts and etc 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by femi4: 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Day school n proud |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Mowsid(m): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Boarding school was fun, if you didn't go to boarding school, you never really enjoyed secondary school. Sexual abuse was more common in all girls college, heard they rape one aboki like that years back in one government boarding sch in Abuja. Same girls college the male teachers are always at the receiving end from those sex-starved girls 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Favemmzar200(m): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Nobody wan answer ...one person dey beg ....the other dey advertise ....the other is hear to read comment SEE DEM HEAD 43 Likes 1 Share
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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Karlifate: 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Exposure to pornography is more common than the outright sexual intercourse in boarding schools. 8 Likes |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Mandyoluchi(m): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Wahala be like mosquito coil. Boarding schools na the devil's camps. Do not take anyone there 2 Likes |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by bunnae(f): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Never really knew why seniors used to create tents on their bunks when I was in jss1. Lots of seniors had this habit of joining each other on their beds and the only thing the rest of us would hear was lots of giggling. One senior came to my bed once to try rough play on my small growing boobs. Told her I was going to tell my mom on visiting day. I didn't though but she apologized with almost all that she had. She left the hostel after that term. I didn't really understand a lot that went on in that place till after I left. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Strongbest(m): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Hmm 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Kevinsamba: 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by okoIYAyin(m): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
k |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Maxikenna: 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
A pedophile is considered a monster by people.because he takes advantage of minors, and some as young as 6 months. Calling it rape lightens the degree of the abuse. I feel pedophile carries a bigger sting |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by phelonrays: 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Yup... Had my anal drilled by one unfortunate bloke back then in class 1.. But I returned the favour, make some reservation with cult guys {as I was so afraid to be one then} , had my name scribbled (using burnt screwdriver) on his back; dude was shouting, there after his index finger [just the upper part with nail] got chopped off.... Damnn.. Technical School ehnnn... Hmmmm ...... 11 Likes
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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Tobloc(m): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
No. |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Epe Grammar School... Over 15 years ago... Not sexual abuse though, but psychological and physical abuse. I was like a broom stick just within one term. It was like a prison yard, seniors were physically abusive and the housemaster would ignore their atrocities. Mosquitoes would feast on us in the so-called reading room. The food was nasty. My money was stolen overnight... Thank God I was quickly withdrawn and taken to a regular day school. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by BOOKWORMLUX(m): 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Mine was an all-boys school. There were cases of homosexuality being reported. The term used then was 'buggling'. I stil remember how many students were expelled for being involved in it(2016). It is usually senior students who do it with junior ones(their school sons). They always protect those junior students and do nt allow them to do labour and other work with their mates. 15 Likes |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
nope MEANWHILE, ARE YOU AN ARTIST? CHECK MY SIGNATURE |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Grandmeister(m): 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
The bloody gaytard tried but I gave him a stern warning and threat and he backed off. |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by FOREX4free(m): 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
No |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by ManTiger(m): 1:36pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
No |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by luminouz(m): 1:37pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Following |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
BBC and other western media outlets are desperately promoting the victimisation mentality and identity across Nigeria and Africa at large and this trend should be checked. There is no perfect society. We have all had bad experiences at certain times in our lives but We cannot become products of those experiences. God bless Nigeria 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by DrKlever(m): 1:38pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Yes. I had a senior who was my bunk mate but he stayed on the lower bunk. He bullied me so much i felt uncomfortable staying in the hostel. If by chance i stepped on his bed while climbing up, he beats me up. I was wandering why he hated me so much then one night i was fast asleep and felt some movements around me. Only for me to wake up to see my boxers pulled down and dude trying to stick his penis in my butthole. It was disgusting, i pushed him down and threatened to report him the following morning. He begged till i gave him some conditions after paying with his provisions and money. Since that day i became his senior, cause he washed my clothes dressed my bed. Fear of being reported to the principal 31 Likes 3 Shares |
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