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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by NSK4U(m): 2:35pm On Dec 10, 2020
I know we did some crazy stuffz then, can't call it sxual abuse cos it was mutual stuff among mates and mostly very secret as if everyone was into some kinda cult, also porn was common amongst the senior students and nobody indulged d juniors, since junior ones weren't allowed to use phone in school.

Truth remains nobody forced anyone into anything, consent was d key thing.

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Oesophagus99(m): 2:39pm On Dec 10, 2020
Around year 2006, My senior don nearly give me Anal straff!

Buh as i no gree for am despite him protection and gifts promises and i was very firm about sayn NO! him leta let me be..

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by grandstar(m): 2:41pm On Dec 10, 2020
deleyi20:
BBC and other western media outlets are desperately promoting the victimisation mentality and identity across Nigeria and Africa at large and this trend should be checked.

There is no perfect society. We have all had bad experiences at certain times in our lives but We cannot become products of those experiences.

God bless Nigeria

Don't the NBC or CNN show negative things about their own societies? They do!

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by princeSammyz: 2:46pm On Dec 10, 2020
NSK4U:
I know we did some crazy stuffz then, can't call it sxual abuse cos it was mutual stuff among mates and mostly very secret as if everyone was into some kinda cult, also porn was common amongst the senior students and nobody indulged d juniors, since junior ones weren't allowed to use phone in school.

Truth remains nobody forced anyone into anything, consent was d key thing.
Wow. Would you mind your son or daughter attending a boarding school or your experience has built some kind of hesitation?

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by princeSammyz: 2:48pm On Dec 10, 2020
Oesophagus99:
Around year 2006, My senior don nearly give me Anal straff!

Buh as i no gree for am despite him protection and gifts promises and i was very firm about sayn NO! him leta let me be..
thank God you were firm. He could have gotten from timid or curious students though. Reason why it's a worrisome aspect of the boarding system

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by grandstar(m): 2:49pm On Dec 10, 2020
Nightstalker:
Yeah as a little boy

Severally for years by some uncle's staying with us

Till today parent didn't know

Still have flash backs of that

Hate gay men with a passion



Why didn't you speak out?

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by bepositive11: 2:51pm On Dec 10, 2020
deleyi20:
BBC and other western media outlets are desperately promoting the victimisation mentality and identity across Nigeria and Africa at large and this trend should be checked.

There is no perfect society. We have all had bad experiences at certain times in our lives but We cannot become products of those experiences.

God bless Nigeria

I disagree. It seems like they just wanted people to share their experiences, which raises awareness. Reading these comments have been eye opening for me. I'm pretty sure that some parents don't know that these things happen. Now that they do, they will take measures to inform and protect their kids.

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 10, 2020

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by grandstar(m): 2:58pm On Dec 10, 2020
Nightstalker:


A kid ?

Getting raped by men in the eighties to nineties ?

What was the word for a grown man putting his penis in a child's anus back then?

There was no concept of rape so

Anyways now I just look back and say well

Hope those uncle's died of something terrible

The fault lies with your parents. They should have educated you about pedophiles and admonished you to report the pervert to them.

Your parent should have told you to feel free to tell them your problems. If you were free with them, you'd have told your parents your uncle hurt you.
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by NSK4U(m): 3:03pm On Dec 10, 2020
princeSammyz:
Wow. Would you mind your son or daughter attending a boarding school or your experience has built some kind of hesitation?

I will allow ma children attend boarding school but only when they r done with junior class.

Just like ma parents did, my children must attend day school so far they are still in any class as 'JSS....'

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by mdchikezie(m): 3:04pm On Dec 10, 2020
Karlifate:
Exposure to pornography is more common than the outright sexual intercourse in boarding schools.

yes i can totally relate to that. my first knowledge of ponographic material was in my boarding school

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Jergobright1025: 3:05pm On Dec 10, 2020
grandstar:


The fault lies with your parents. They should have educated you about pedophiles and admonished you to report the pervert to them.

Your parent should have told you to feel free to tell them your problems. If you were free with them, you'd have told your parents your uncle hurt you.

Why are you blaming his parents??
You are not realistic at all

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by chinecherem97974: 3:11pm On Dec 10, 2020
Around year 2006, My senior don nearly give me Anal straff!Buh as i no gree for am despite him protection and gifts promises and i was very firm about sayn NO! him leta let me be..
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by PinkHealthGroup: 3:11pm On Dec 10, 2020
Nightstalker:


A kid ?

Getting raped by men in the eighties to nineties ?

What was the word for a grown man putting his penis in a child's anus back then?

There was no concept of rape so

Anyways now I just look back and say well

Hope those uncle's died of something terrible

Terrible that happened to you. Does it affect your sexuality in any manner or form ? And if you have kids, what will you teach them?

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by TerrorSquad147: 3:12pm On Dec 10, 2020
phelonrays:
shocked

Yup...

Had my anal drilled by one unfortunate bloke back then in class 1..

But I returned the favour, cool make some reservation with cult guys {as I was so afraid to be one then} , had my name scribbled (using burnt screwdriver) on his back; dude was shouting, there after his index finger [just the upper part with nail] got chopped off....

Damnn..

Technical School ehnnn...

Hmmmm ......
what technical school did you attend?
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by etibaba(m): 3:14pm On Dec 10, 2020
princeSammyz:
Wow. Would you mind your son or daughter attending a boarding school or your experience has built some kind of hesitation?
If after reading what he posted and you couldn't deduce he was likely an abuser during his boarding days then i have nothing else to tell you.

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Adonis86(m): 3:15pm On Dec 10, 2020
I can't just stop fantasising my boarding school experience. I started working for seniors thirty minutes later I entered the boarding school through the five years before becoming my own boss prior to the sixth year in school, no senior molested me. One was the only one that would want me in his bed, he cuddles me like a baby, but no sexual harassment or strings attached.

Ironically, I was abused severally by my classmates and age mates. No penetrations all through, but deep Romance, wanking and cumming good for them, as for me, I was scared of infection and very allergic to seminal fluids. Hence, I only touch and stimulate, but once I noticed semen, I withdraw and avoid the person.

Then, I never had a wet dream.

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by TerrorSquad147: 3:18pm On Dec 10, 2020
yvelchstores:
you are a liar. There was no such thing happening in boarding schools. With the bunks so close together and others on your right and left, he tried to rape you? Pls stop lying Mr man
shut up please....goto all those federal government colleges and hear stories. Abeg I'm not in the mood to talk

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by TerrorSquad147: 3:23pm On Dec 10, 2020
etibaba:
If after reading what he posted and you couldn't deduce he was likely an abuser during his boarding days then i have nothing else to tell you.
exactly....that's what he was then
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by phelonrays: 3:31pm On Dec 10, 2020
TerrorSquad147:
what technical school did you attend?

One in the south, privately owned..!!

Couldn't graduate there, opted out in Class 2 due to some irregularities that didn't align with my kindda person...


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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 10, 2020

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by engrkaz(m): 3:42pm On Dec 10, 2020
Up School!!

98/99 Set
xProfx:
Epe Grammar School... Over 15 years ago...

Not sexual abuse though, but psychological and physical abuse. I was like a broom stick just within one term. It was like a prison yard, seniors were physically abusive and the housemaster would ignore their atrocities. Mosquitoes would feast on us in the so-called reading room. The food was nasty. My money was stolen overnight...

Thank God I was quickly withdrawn and taken to a regular day school.
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Dollanaira: 3:51pm On Dec 10, 2020
oh
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by emmy512: 3:57pm On Dec 10, 2020
If I talk Tory no go finish.
There's rarely a case of sexual assault, but mostly social and sexual experiment.
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by HonourableUche(m): 4:04pm On Dec 10, 2020
DrKlever:
Yes. I had a senior who was my bunk mate but he stayed on the lower bunk. He bullied me so much i felt uncomfortable staying in the hostel. If by chance i stepped on his bed while climbing up, he beats me up. I was wandering why he hated me so much then one night i was fast asleep and felt some movements around me. Only for me to wake up to see my boxers pulled down and dude trying to stick his penis in my butthole. It was disgusting, i pushed him down and threatened to report him the following morning. He begged till i gave him some conditions after paying with his provisions and money. Since that day i became his senior, cause he washed my clothes dressed my bed. Fear of being reported to the principal grin
I like your comment. But seems you added some spices

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by donnie(m): 4:07pm On Dec 10, 2020
deleyi20:
BBC and other western media outlets are desperately promoting the victimisation mentality and identity across Nigeria and Africa at large and this trend should be checked.

There is no perfect society. We have all had bad experiences at certain times in our lives but We cannot become products of those experiences.

God bless Nigeria

Yet common #EndSARS, were yet to hear of sanctions. angry
Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 10, 2020
engrkaz:
Up School!!

98/99 Set

Epe grams is marching on... cheesy grin
I leave una school for una ooo grin

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by GodWrites: 4:09pm On Dec 10, 2020
Adonis86:
I can't just stop fantasising my boarding school experience. I started working for seniors thirty minutes later I entered the boarding school through the five years before becoming my own boss prior to the sixth year in school, no senior molested me. One was the only one that would want me in his bed, he cuddles me like a baby, but no sexual harassment or strings attached.

Ironically, I was abused severally by my classmates and age mates. No penetrations all through, but deep Romance, wanking and cumming good for them, as for me, I was scared of infection and very allergic to seminal fluids. Hence, I only touch and stimulate, but once I noticed semen, I withdraw and avoid the person.

Then, I never had a wet dream.

You indeed enjoyed it

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Ayula911: 4:18pm On Dec 10, 2020
phelonrays:
shocked

Yup...

Had my anal drilled by one unfortunate bloke back then in class 1..

But I returned the favour, cool make some reservation with cult guys {as I was so afraid to be one then} , had my name scribbled (using burnt screwdriver) on his back; dude was shouting, there after his index finger [just the upper part with nail] got chopped off....

Damnn..

Technical School ehnnn...

Hmmmm ......

Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 10, 2020
things are really happening

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Re: BBC Pidgin: Did You Ever Experience Sexual Abuse In Boarding School? by princeSammyz: 4:30pm On Dec 10, 2020
emmy512:
If I talk Tory no go finish.
There's rarely a case of sexual assault, but mostly social and sexual experiment.
yea. I agree with this. Starts with experiments, mostly fueled by teenage curiosity. After that, experience, and then abuse can easily set in. Please talk the tory. We wanna hear

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