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Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World, His peace and blessings upon his noble Prophet (SAW)

Firstly we have to know that doing house chores is waajib (necessity) for a wife and helping one's wife is Sunnah that our beloved prophect practiced. If we are to follow his example we have to follow this beautiful Sunnah no matter how busy we are! Many scholars depend on the hadith below declare it a necessity on wives.

Al-Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy upon them narrated that: 'Faatimah, may Allah be pleased with her (the daughter of the Prophet Muhammad)(SAW) came to the Prophet, complaining of what she suffered from the hand mill and from grinding, when she got the news that some slave girls of the booty had been brought to the messenger of Allah. She went to him to ask for a maid-servant, but she did not find him and she told Aaisha, may Allah be pleased with her, of her need. When the Prophet(SAW) came, Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, informed him (SAW) of Faatimah's request. Then Prophet, may Allah be pleased with him came to our house when we had gone to our beds. (On seeing the Prophet SAW) , we were going to get up, but he said keep at your places,' I felt the coolness of the feet of the Prophet (SAW) on my chest. Then he said: shall I tell you a thing which is better than what you asked me for? When you go to your beds, say: Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest) 34 times, Al-Hamdulillaah (all perfect praise be to Allah) 33 times, and Subhaanallaah (Glorified is Allah) 33 times. This is better for you than what you have requested.'

From this Sahih Hadith we can see that it is compulsory for house wives to do their
daily tasks at home and not neglect it. She have to put into consideration that her man strives daily to meet ends for the family, even if she works, she must try her best to be equal to this task!

Hadith:
Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was asked, “What did the Prophet ( ﷺ ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “ He used to keep himself busy serving his family ( ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥُ ﻓِﻲ ﻣِﻬْﻨَﺔِ ﺃَﻫْﻠِﻪِ ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it .” (Bukhari)

In another report Aisha is reported to have said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed .” (Adab Al-
Mufrad graded sahih by Al-Albani)

Hence, he did not find such things too ‘womanish’ for him, to do. No wonder that he said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives .” (Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah)
Scholars view:
Scholars like Abu Bakr ibn Abi Shaybah, Abu Ishaaq al-Jawzjaani and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on them) said that it is the womans duty to serve her husband within the bounds of what is reasonable.

Alhamdulillah I am proud to be a Muslim

May Allah Grant us steadfastness. I'm now lazy with house chores unlike before.

JAZAAKALLAH BROTHER FOR YOUR MANY GOOD TOPICS.

MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU.

motayoayinde:
JAZAAKALLAH BROTHER FOR YOUR MANY GOOD TOPICS.

MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU.

Ameen wa iyakum Thank you sir

Jazakumllahu kayran.. May Allah reward you on earth and on d day of qiyamah.. I hope our brothers are reading this too

Abobi
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Boko Haram now , una no go talk ..


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BoboKush:
Una don start again

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Wahala...

Helping your wife get ruling also...


Person wey u dey du anyhow for Bed wey u no use any ruling to give her Mortal Combat style to come help her now u dey du ruling....

helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus

[quote author=Realismailakabir post=96488087]Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World, His peace and blessings upon his noble Prophet (SAW)

Firstly we have to know that doing house chores is waajib (necessity) for a wife and helping one's wife is Sunnah that our beloved prophect practiced. If we are to follow his example we have to follow this beautiful Sunnah no matter how busy we are! Many scholars depend on the hadith below declare it a necessity on wives.

Al-Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy upon them narrated that: 'Faatimah, may Allah be pleased with her (the daughter of the Prophet Muhammad)(SAW) came to the Prophet, complaining of what she suffered from the hand mill and from grinding, when she got the news that some slave girls of the booty had been brought to the messenger of Allah. She went to him to ask for a maid-servant, but she did not find him and she told Aaisha, may Allah be pleased with her, of her need. When the Prophet(SAW) came, Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, informed him (SAW) of Faatimah's request. Then Prophet, may Allah be pleased with him came to our house when we had gone to our beds. (On seeing the Prophet SAW) , we were going to get up, but he said keep at your places,' I felt the coolness of the feet of the Prophet (SAW) on my chest. Then he said: shall I tell you a thing which is better than what you asked me for? When you go to your beds, say: Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest) 34 times, Al-Hamdulillaah (all perfect praise be to Allah) 33 times, and Subhaanallaah (Glorified is Allah) 33 times. This is better for you than what you have requested.'

From this Sahih Hadith we can see that it is compulsory for house wives to do their
daily tasks at home and not neglect it. She have to put into consideration that her man strives daily to meet ends for the family, even if she works, she must try her best to be equal to this task!

Hadith:
Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was asked, “What did the Prophet ( ﷺ ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “ He used to keep himself busy serving his family ( ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥُ ﻓِﻲ ﻣِﻬْﻨَﺔِ ﺃَﻫْﻠِﻪِ ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it .” (Bukhari)

In another report Aisha is reported to have said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed .” (Adab Al-
Mufrad graded sahih by Al-Albani)

Hence, he did not find such things too ‘womanish’ for him, to do. No wonder that he said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives .” (Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah)
Scholars view:
Scholars like Abu Bakr ibn Abi Shaybah, Abu Ishaaq al-Jawzjaani and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on them) said that it is the womans duty to serve her husband within the bounds of what is reasonable.




Jazaakallau kair

womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus

Examples always come from the north ,u dey craze ?

This one still get ruling too..
Not bad sha

isn't women meant to be slaves according to Islam

Aliamdulilahi... I did my Nikkai last week Saturday. Let the gift starts rolling in

Some people are just obsessed with Islam, it's as if they can't live without talking about Islam negatively.
[b]you can preach Christianity without insulting Islam and Muslims[b]
You don't have to show your hatred for someone else's religion before you propagate yours.
Anyway, it's your choice.

Whyem15:
Some people are just obsessed with Islam, it's as if they can't live without talking about Islam negatively.
[b]you can preach Christianity without insulting Islam and Muslims[b]
You don't have to show your hatred for someone else's religion before you propagate yours.
Anyway, it's your choice.

Just few people know this

It's good to help your wife whether you are the family breadwinner or not if you love her

ibsaq:
Alhamdulillah I am proud to be a Muslim

You’re idiot

Alhamdulilahi.

Help your wife when you can and when needed, she is not a slave... but it's not compulsory.

womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus

Word!! Better oyel dey ya head.
Op you talk about how to take care of your wives and do family planning instead of encouraging laziness which is already prevalent in the Muslim North

fatymore:
Aliamdulilahi... I did my Nikkai last week Saturday. Let the gift starts rolling in

Congratulations. May your home be fruitful

womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus

1+1+1=1 Get a life this is 2020.

I dont know why you people always refer to North to arrive at a baseless conclusion...

ggood:
Your proud to be a terrorist too

If your lecturer explain sth to you in school and u didnt get it u will draw his attention and ask question, so apply same logic to Islam, if you didnt get something about Islam dont be afraid to ask knowledgeable people around you to satisfy your curiosity instead of drawing unnecessary pattern on ur head...

Akinbahm:
1+1+1=1 Get a life this is 2020.

I dont know why you people always refer to North to arrive at a baseless conclusion...

go to Kano and the other North yourself!

Before you open your mouth and say waaaaaaaàa! I have been to most of these northern states! And this is the plain truths of what I have witnessed

womenareapes:
go to Kano and the other North yourself!

Before you open your mouth and say waaaaaaaàa! I have been to most of these northern states! And this is the plain truths of what I have witnessed

How about south East.
Hypocrite dey like the old lantern wey d brighten everywhere except under the lantern itself.
Ipob sef
Spits on their flat head.