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Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Realismailakabir(m): 7:36am On Nov 27, 2020
Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World, His peace and blessings upon his noble Prophet (SAW)

Firstly we have to know that doing house chores is waajib (necessity) for a wife and helping one's wife is Sunnah that our beloved prophect practiced. If we are to follow his example we have to follow this beautiful Sunnah no matter how busy we are! Many scholars depend on the hadith below declare it a necessity on wives.

Al-Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy upon them narrated that: 'Faatimah, may Allah be pleased with her (the daughter of the Prophet Muhammad)(SAW) came to the Prophet, complaining of what she suffered from the hand mill and from grinding, when she got the news that some slave girls of the booty had been brought to the messenger of Allah. She went to him to ask for a maid-servant, but she did not find him and she told Aaisha, may Allah be pleased with her, of her need. When the Prophet(SAW) came, Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, informed him (SAW) of Faatimah's request. Then Prophet, may Allah be pleased with him came to our house when we had gone to our beds. (On seeing the Prophet SAW) , we were going to get up, but he said keep at your places,' I felt the coolness of the feet of the Prophet (SAW) on my chest. Then he said: shall I tell you a thing which is better than what you asked me for? When you go to your beds, say: Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest) 34 times, Al-Hamdulillaah (all perfect praise be to Allah) 33 times, and Subhaanallaah (Glorified is Allah) 33 times. This is better for you than what you have requested.'

From this Sahih Hadith we can see that it is compulsory for house wives to do their
daily tasks at home and not neglect it. She have to put into consideration that her man strives daily to meet ends for the family, even if she works, she must try her best to be equal to this task!

Hadith:
Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was asked, “What did the Prophet ( ﷺ ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “ He used to keep himself busy serving his family ( ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥُ ﻓِﻲ ﻣِﻬْﻨَﺔِ ﺃَﻫْﻠِﻪِ ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it .” (Bukhari)

In another report Aisha is reported to have said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed .” (Adab Al-
Mufrad graded sahih by Al-Albani)

Hence, he did not find such things too ‘womanish’ for him, to do. No wonder that he said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives .” (Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah)
Scholars view:
Scholars like Abu Bakr ibn Abi Shaybah, Abu Ishaaq al-Jawzjaani and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on them) said that it is the womans duty to serve her husband within the bounds of what is reasonable.

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by ibsaq(m): 7:56am On Nov 27, 2020
Alhamdulillah I am proud to be a Muslim

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by AntiChristian: 8:04am On Nov 27, 2020
May Allah Grant us steadfastness. I'm now lazy with house chores unlike before.

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by motayoayinde: 2:30pm On Nov 30, 2020
JAZAAKALLAH BROTHER FOR YOUR MANY GOOD TOPICS.

MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU.

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Realismailakabir(m): 11:48pm On Dec 02, 2020
motayoayinde:
JAZAAKALLAH BROTHER FOR YOUR MANY GOOD TOPICS.

MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU.
Ameen wa iyakum Thank you sir

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by chillychill(f): 9:46pm On Dec 05, 2020
Jazakumllahu kayran.. May Allah reward you on earth and on d day of qiyamah.. I hope our brothers are reading this too

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by MrStylish(m): 10:43am On Dec 11, 2020
Abobi
Next please

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by BoboKush(m): 10:43am On Dec 11, 2020
Una don start again

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Ezenwa12345: 10:47am On Dec 11, 2020
Boko Haram now , una no go talk ..


Spit

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by yungrylex00(m): 10:54am On Dec 11, 2020
BoboKush:
Una don start again
lmao � � grin

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by inoki247: 10:57am On Dec 11, 2020
Wahala...

Helping your wife get ruling also...


Person wey u dey du anyhow for Bed wey u no use any ruling to give her Mortal Combat style to come help her now u dey du ruling....

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by womenareapes: 10:57am On Dec 11, 2020
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself undecided

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Techreliance(m): 10:59am On Dec 11, 2020
[quote author=Realismailakabir post=96488087]Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the World, His peace and blessings upon his noble Prophet (SAW)

Firstly we have to know that doing house chores is waajib (necessity) for a wife and helping one's wife is Sunnah that our beloved prophect practiced. If we are to follow his example we have to follow this beautiful Sunnah no matter how busy we are! Many scholars depend on the hadith below declare it a necessity on wives.

Al-Bukhari and Muslim may Allah have mercy upon them narrated that: 'Faatimah, may Allah be pleased with her (the daughter of the Prophet Muhammad)(SAW) came to the Prophet, complaining of what she suffered from the hand mill and from grinding, when she got the news that some slave girls of the booty had been brought to the messenger of Allah. She went to him to ask for a maid-servant, but she did not find him and she told Aaisha, may Allah be pleased with her, of her need. When the Prophet(SAW) came, Aishah, may Allah be pleased with her, informed him (SAW) of Faatimah's request. Then Prophet, may Allah be pleased with him came to our house when we had gone to our beds. (On seeing the Prophet SAW) , we were going to get up, but he said keep at your places,' I felt the coolness of the feet of the Prophet (SAW) on my chest. Then he said: shall I tell you a thing which is better than what you asked me for? When you go to your beds, say: Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest) 34 times, Al-Hamdulillaah (all perfect praise be to Allah) 33 times, and Subhaanallaah (Glorified is Allah) 33 times. This is better for you than what you have requested.'

From this Sahih Hadith we can see that it is compulsory for house wives to do their
daily tasks at home and not neglect it. She have to put into consideration that her man strives daily to meet ends for the family, even if she works, she must try her best to be equal to this task!

Hadith:
Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was asked, “What did the Prophet ( ﷺ ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “ He used to keep himself busy serving his family ( ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥُ ﻓِﻲ ﻣِﻬْﻨَﺔِ ﺃَﻫْﻠِﻪِ ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it .” (Bukhari)

In another report Aisha is reported to have said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed .” (Adab Al-
Mufrad graded sahih by Al-Albani)

Hence, he did not find such things too ‘womanish’ for him, to do. No wonder that he said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives .” (Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah)
Scholars view:
Scholars like Abu Bakr ibn Abi Shaybah, Abu Ishaaq al-Jawzjaani and Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on them) said that it is the womans duty to serve her husband within the bounds of what is reasonable.




Jazaakallau kair
Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Akhirastriver(m): 11:00am On Dec 11, 2020
womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself undecided

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus
Examples always come from the north ,u dey craze ?

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by marvin906(m): 11:10am On Dec 11, 2020
This one still get ruling too..
Not bad sha

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by osuofia2(m): 11:18am On Dec 11, 2020
isn't women meant to be slaves according to Islam

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by fatymore(f): 11:38am On Dec 11, 2020
Aliamdulilahi... I did my Nikkai last week Saturday. Let the gift starts rolling in

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Whyem15: 11:40am On Dec 11, 2020
Some people are just obsessed with Islam, it's as if they can't live without talking about Islam negatively.
[b]you can preach Christianity without insulting Islam and Muslims[b]
You don't have to show your hatred for someone else's religion before you propagate yours.
Anyway, it's your choice.

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by kingmurainah(m): 11:51am On Dec 11, 2020
Whyem15:
Some people are just obsessed with Islam, it's as if they can't live without talking about Islam negatively.
[b]you can preach Christianity without insulting Islam and Muslims[b]
You don't have to show your hatred for someone else's religion before you propagate yours.
Anyway, it's your choice.

Just few people know this
Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:52am On Dec 11, 2020
It's good to help your wife whether you are the family breadwinner or not if you love her

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Bennysam: 11:53am On Dec 11, 2020
ibsaq:
Alhamdulillah I am proud to be a Muslim
You’re idiot

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by asaajuomo1(m): 11:55am On Dec 11, 2020
Alhamdulilahi.
Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by King44(m): 12:30pm On Dec 11, 2020
Help your wife when you can and when needed, she is not a slave... but it's not compulsory.
Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Agbegbaorogboye: 1:03pm On Dec 11, 2020
womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself undecided

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus
Word!! Better oyel dey ya head.
Op you talk about how to take care of your wives and do family planning instead of encouraging laziness which is already prevalent in the Muslim North

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Agbegbaorogboye: 1:06pm On Dec 11, 2020
fatymore:
Aliamdulilahi... I did my Nikkai last week Saturday. Let the gift starts rolling in
Congratulations. May your home be fruitful

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Akinbahm(m): 1:12pm On Dec 11, 2020
womenareapes:
helping your wives whereby you people will give your wives 50 naira to cook soup while you go out to buy suya and fish for yourself undecided

go to the north and see how these people behave!


Jesus Christ is the only way and truth and life!

give your life to Christ Jesus


1+1+1=1 Get a life this is 2020.

I dont know why you people always refer to North to arrive at a baseless conclusion...

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by Akinbahm(m): 1:18pm On Dec 11, 2020
ggood:



Your proud to be a terrorist too

If your lecturer explain sth to you in school and u didnt get it u will draw his attention and ask question, so apply same logic to Islam, if you didnt get something about Islam dont be afraid to ask knowledgeable people around you to satisfy your curiosity instead of drawing unnecessary pattern on ur head...

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by womenareapes: 2:12pm On Dec 11, 2020
Akinbahm:



1+1+1=1 Get a life this is 2020.

I dont know why you people always refer to North to arrive at a baseless conclusion...
go to Kano and the other North yourself!

Before you open your mouth and say waaaaaaaàa! I have been to most of these northern states! And this is the plain truths of what I have witnessed
Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by sissoko22(m): 3:07pm On Dec 11, 2020
womenareapes:
go to Kano and the other North yourself!

Before you open your mouth and say waaaaaaaàa! I have been to most of these northern states! And this is the plain truths of what I have witnessed
How about south East.
Hypocrite dey like the old lantern wey d brighten everywhere except under the lantern itself.
Ipob sef
Spits on their flat head.

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Re: Islamic View On Husband Helping His Wife With House Chores by sissoko22(m): 3:08pm On Dec 11, 2020
osuofia2:
isn't women meant to be slaves according to Islam

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