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Don't Blame Men by mezico96(op):
I feel really sad for single Nigerian men who are constantly reminded by the society not to attempt to approach women if they aren't rich or financially stable

We are so poverty-stricken and materialistic to the extreme!

But guess what?

The hurt and rejection inspires some men to strive so hard,very hard and when they make it,they are emotionally unavailable and that prompt them to see women as object of sexual gravitation


You can't kill a man's ego and ask for his love when he's sorted.

Copied!!
Re: Don't Blame Men by RedPanthar: 10:05pm On Dec 11, 2020
I pity you. Zzor is coming for you
Re: Don't Blame Men by mezico96(op): 10:16pm On Dec 11, 2020
RedPanthar:
I pity you. Zzor is coming for you
Lolzz funnycheesy
Re: Don't Blame Men by Emzenoz(m): 10:16pm On Dec 11, 2020
this is true
Re: Don't Blame Men by tobechi74: 10:44pm On Dec 11, 2020
Made some sence sha
Re: Don't Blame Men by JaneYave(f): 2:47am On Dec 12, 2020
This should be in family section too First things first, the person that killed your ego will never disrespect you when you get even with them . Some strangers you don't know well but can pretend will disrespect you, your money, class and even career all in the name of commitment and there is nothing you can do about it
Re: Don't Blame Men by hashtagged(m): 8:03am On Dec 12, 2020
Men are seen as banks

And women are seen as sex tools

End of story
Re: Don't Blame Men by Bluezy13(m): 8:06am On Dec 12, 2020
RedPanthar:
I pity you. Zzor is coming for you
I'm ashamed of you.
Re: Don't Blame Men by RedPanthar: 8:07am On Dec 12, 2020
Bluezy13:
I'm ashamed of you.
.. Get lost. That's why the education minister days many students can't write or read. I'm too sure you don't understand euphemisms or idioms. Fullish soul
Re: Don't Blame Men by Bluezy13(m): 8:28am On Dec 12, 2020
RedPanthar:
.. Get lost. That's why the education minister days many students can't write or read. I'm too sure you don't understand euphemisms or idioms. Fullish soul
You must have skipped English Language classes in your primary school and that omission is affecting your language construction with blunders littered all over your post.

I am really ashamed of you.
Re: Don't Blame Men by Shortyy(f): 8:29am On Dec 12, 2020
So you'll work hard, get rich, just to impress a woman? cheesy you Nairaland men don't cease to amaze me o.

Your parents are there, your siblings are there, even you as a human, you need to develop yourself, but no, you'll do it just to impress someone that will still chop your money and run.

You people should be calming down o cheesy women are not your problem, but your self esteem is.

I know some broke boys that are in serious relationships, some are even fvck boys o. Even though they're broke.

It's all about your esteem and mentality. You can have anything you want in life, if you place yourself high first.
Re: Don't Blame Men by SILENTandSMART2: 8:37am On Dec 12, 2020
OP if we look ay your post from one side you're 100% correct, if we look at it from another side you're 100% wrong , wink smiley



Anyway all is well smiley
Re: Don't Blame Men by Dpsychologist: 8:39am On Dec 12, 2020
Shortyy:
So you'll work hard, get rich, just to impress a woman? cheesy you Nairaland men don't cease to amaze me o.

Your parents are there, your siblings are there, even you as a human, you need to develop yourself, but no, you'll do it just to impress someone that will still chop your money and run.

You people should be calming down o cheesy women are not your problem, but your self esteem is.

I know some broke boys that are in serious relationships, some are even fvck boys o. Even though they're broke.

It's all about your esteem and mentality. You can have anything you want in life, if you place yourself high first.
This comment made my day.

Very apt.
Re: Don't Blame Men by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 12, 2020
Shortyy:
So you'll work hard, get rich, just to impress a woman? cheesy you Nairaland men don't cease to amaze me o.

Your parents are there, your siblings are there, even you as a human, you need to develop yourself, but no, you'll do it just to impress someone that will still chop your money and run.

You people should be calming down o cheesy women are not your problem, but your self esteem is.

I know some broke boys that are in serious relationships, some are even fvck boys o. Even though they're broke.

[/b]It's all about your esteem and mentality. You can have anything you want in life, if you place yourself high first[b].
I pray o! undecided
Re: Don't Blame Men by RedPanthar: 8:45am On Dec 12, 2020
Bluezy13:
You must have skipped English Language classes in your primary school and that omission is affecting your language construction with blunders littered all over your post.

I am really ashamed of you.
Delinquent and miserable soul. As a worker I don't have the time to dedicate to educating the need for time management and using spare time during work for social interactions


Get lost low life attention seeking urchin
Re: Don't Blame Men by Shortyy(f): 8:50am On Dec 12, 2020
Warmth:
You can't place your self high, if you can't meet up with required standards aunty, Don't say what u don't know, you are a lady, not a guy! You must hustle, make and settle for what you can as a man.
You're the one who's trying to meet up with other people's standards. How about you follow your own standard huh? Yeah. Your own standard is what makes you stand out from others.

It's not about being a man or a woman. As a woman I myself I'm hustling. And I don't get sidetracked by whatever I see happening around me. I focus, while I keep my head straight. Even as I no get like that, you'd never know because of the level I placed myself.

It's an advice that will help you in life, if you like take it, if u no like don't.
Re: Don't Blame Men by Frustrated007: 8:53am On Dec 12, 2020
When a man's resentment for women exceeds his lust, he then becomes wise sad
Re: Don't Blame Men by olorunyomi25149: 8:59am On Dec 12, 2020
I pity you. Zzor is coming for you
Re: Don't Blame Men by faithugo64(f): 9:04am On Dec 12, 2020
You copied this
Why not acknowledge the original author?
Re: Don't Blame Men by Newguyhere: 9:13am On Dec 12, 2020
loud it.. grin
Frustrated007:
When a man's resentment for women exceeds his lust, he then becomes wise sad
Re: Don't Blame Men by CrazyCrane: 9:14am On Dec 12, 2020
Kindly acknowledge the real writer undecided
Re: Don't Blame Men by Frustrated007: 9:18am On Dec 12, 2020
cool cool cool

Re: Don't Blame Men by Bluezy13(m): 9:43am On Dec 12, 2020
RedPanthar:
Delinquent and miserable soul. As a worker I don't have the time to dedicate to educating the need for time management and using spare time during work for social interactions


Get lost low life attention seeking urchin
Not having time is a typical excuse that a dolt... who dwindled the precious time, money and energy that his family must have invested in him through his education, thinking he will turn out useful in life... Would give.
Sadly, he turned out to be an avoidable disappoinment to his family and a nuisance to the society.
Well, as an employer, I would have done the society a favour by employing you to work for me, but nay...I will not; because you will be useless to me just as you are useless to the society.
Re: Don't Blame Men by Nobody: 10:28am On Dec 12, 2020
grin e
Shortyy:
You're the one who's trying to meet up with other people's standards. How about you follow your own standard huh? Yeah. Your own standard is what makes you stand out from others.

It's not about being a man or a woman. As a woman I myself I'm hustling. And I don't get sidetracked by whatever I see happening around me. I focus, while I keep my head straight. Even as I no get like that, you'd never know because of the level I placed myself.

It's an advice that will help you in life, if you like take it, if u no like don't.
grin okay oh, lemme take it na.
Re: Don't Blame Men by mezico96(op): 10:32am On Dec 12, 2020
faithugo64:
You copied this Why not acknowledge the original author?
True dear... But I don't know the original author
Can you help me out and I'll do just that grin
Re: Don't Blame Men by idahme(m): 10:59am On Dec 12, 2020
RedPanthar:
.. Get lost. That's why the education minister days many students can't write or read. I'm too sure you don't understand euphemisms or idioms. Fullish soul
Haha, take it easy not everyone is on same pedestal......
Re: Don't Blame Men by mezico96(op): 11:04am On Dec 12, 2020
undecided Where una learn to abuse like this na?
gringringringrin
Re: Don't Blame Men by RedPanthar: 11:20am On Dec 12, 2020
idahme:
Haha, take it easy not everyone is on same pedestal......
Don't mind me jare. His lacking comprehensive skills was/is extremely irritating
Re: Don't Blame Men by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 14, 2020
mezico96:
I feel really sad for single Nigerian men who are constantly reminded by the society not to attempt to approach women if they aren't rich or financially stable

We are so poverty-stricken and materialistic to the extreme!

But guess what?

The hurt and rejection inspires some men to strive so hard,very hard and when they make it,they are emotionally unavailable and that prompt them to see women as object of sexual gravitation


You can't kill a man's ego and ask for his love when he's sorted.

Copied!!
Op, U Really Av Something Upstairs.
Re: Don't Blame Men by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 14, 2020
RedPanthar:
I pity you. Zzor is coming for you
U Are A Coward.
Re: Don't Blame Men by RedPanthar: 5:09pm On Dec 14, 2020
Truvel:
U Are A Coward.
Get lost

Another delinquent that doesn't know how to read write and understand idioms and deep writings. Full


Woe betide ur fada
Re: Don't Blame Men by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 14, 2020
RedPanthar:
Get lost

Another delinquent that doesn't know how to read write and understand idioms and deep writings. Full


Woe betide ur fada
U Are Very Stupid.
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