Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' - Politics (7)

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Tillatalk: 12:30pm On Dec 13, 2020

You mean your son should keep you away from his marriage also

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Liposure: 12:32pm On Dec 13, 2020

Nonexistent:
Very nonsense advice. My mother will be a high priced consultant in my marriage if at all there will be any. Why will I get married to a coded olosho and not involve a woman that married my father as virgin?

hmmmm

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Adeoyelee: 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2020

[quote author=deeway200 post=97022361][/quote]Oya snap ur ATM card front & back, send am to let me show u love.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Fuckingmallam45(m): 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2020

fuckdemrepented:
Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever

She didn’t say you should neglect your mother nau? Why is comprehension so hard for some people these days?

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Liposure: 12:38pm On Dec 13, 2020

Adakintroy:
All women say that until their son start to keep them off their own marriage.. and they be like ..pikin I carry for nine months and suffer for no de gree listern to me blah blah..

flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. Spot on

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Francieuche: 12:40pm On Dec 13, 2020

jaymejate:
Of course, for you to choose to get married, you already believe you are mature to handle things. So why involve MOTHER all the time? If you keep telling them about the mistakes of your spouse, I wonder what you are putting their minds about your spouse.

Stop it

She has a point for real. A good point

Na sooo

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Fuckingmallam45(m): 12:42pm On Dec 13, 2020

lomprico:
so if your mom asks you 'how far' concerning your home, you will tell her to fuckoff?

No, you will simply tell her that everything is going smoothly, even when something is not okay, but you’re the head of the family, your mother will not be there for you for ever, try to take responsibility on your own, involving your mother?

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Phaneroo: 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020

fuckdemrepented:
Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever

Thanks
This morning, I saw a woman begging for money for her child's treatment at the gate of a hospital. There are few good wives but a mothers love is sure.

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by g4gerald: 12:51pm On Dec 13, 2020

[quote author=ILoveDemMANNA post=97018878]Only a foolish nonentity that grew up in a household full of hate, backbiting, beatings, jealousy and bitterness will ever say such rubbish against her mom.
It is obvious she is not raised in a family full of love and happiness.
No wonder she go dey strong face, dey shout everywhere like one she-devil.
Bastard pikin.

Try getting ur mother involved in every issue u have wit ur spouse nd see how ur marriage will look like.

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Mummymahdi(f): 12:56pm On Dec 13, 2020

Onyeasi:
Well said. Mothers, generally women.

For the first time in about 11 years ago I joined nairaland. Today is the first day I made first to comment.

Make Una show me love

Welcome back

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Liposure: 1:02pm On Dec 13, 2020

It all boils down to knowing your boundaries as spouses and in laws. Everybody on his lane no trespassing

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by angelfallz(m): 1:06pm On Dec 13, 2020

i am very glad, that i am not the type of man that can be pressured by SM or peers or whatever. On a daily basis people come online and start dishing out advice, both wrong and correct advice.

As a man you should know your mother and your wife very well. But most importantly as a man you should know yourself. There would be times you would need advice from someone you trust. An advice that can only come from someone with experience.

As for me. My mother is too wise for me to keep out of my marriage entirely.

I don't agree with Aisha.

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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by annyz: 1:16pm On Dec 13, 2020

Aisha! Have u abandoned END SARS victims.

I prefer hearing u talk on human right abuses.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by ochiosa(m): 1:19pm On Dec 13, 2020

My is working because our mothers are involve,........ See how dey do it, when things go wrong my mother blame me and praise and encourage my wife my mother in-law blame her daughter for not trying enough and encourage me to try as the head of the house.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by annyz: 1:21pm On Dec 13, 2020

Aisha! Have u abandoned ur calling huh

Have the govt unfreeze ur colleagues accounts??

I prefer hearing u talk on human right abuses.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by thundafire: 1:24pm On Dec 13, 2020

post=97018860:
Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerian mothers,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

True that!

Thank you Mr John M.
You've said it all.
You are also one of the very reasonable and sensible member we have on this forum.

Words from a wise lady.
Na ur mama born u.
God bless your mother for giving us a Queen like you!

have u been paid ur 30k due deadmeatgrill

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by femi4: 1:33pm On Dec 13, 2020

When it comes to marriage, no universal formula. What works for A might not work for B.

I have seen family members helped in reviving a sinking marriage

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by abpotato: 1:36pm On Dec 13, 2020

Poshriel:
And your ex's too

More reason you should monitor your spouse's phones before saying I do. What I found out when I monitored my man's WhatsApp still shocks me till date.

All thanks to the guy who helped me hack his WhatsApp.

Pls guys make sure to know what he or she does on the media

.

If you are looking for money then beg stop been misleading people baraoo

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by enemyofprogress: 1:37pm On Dec 13, 2020

This babe go sweet die for bed. Her ringtones go loud

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by showafrica(m): 1:45pm On Dec 13, 2020

Angelfrost:
Just read what most of them are posting all over the thread, even the ones who claim to be smart and exposed... The bias against the woman is so evident in their pointlessly vicious posts.

Education is dying in this nation!!! Seems we are no longer raising smart youths!!! I am deeply ashamed!!!

Nigerian fresh graduates are already obsolete.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Amarisa(f): 1:47pm On Dec 13, 2020

sonsomegrigbo:
Especially Igbos and Afonja mothers...

Only Hausa and fulanis are the best in this regard

Hmmmmmmm

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by kennyflames(m): 1:48pm On Dec 13, 2020

Triangles1:
Truth but if it go sour you return back to that your mother

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by iamjavadem(m): 1:51pm On Dec 13, 2020

As we can all see she said mother, not parents. Fathers are the best. Next.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by chrizzyace: 1:52pm On Dec 13, 2020

nwekeugochukwu:
Aisha Yesufu Advises Married Couples: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It'

Activist, Aisha yesufu has taken to her Twitter handle to advise married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage if they want their marriage to work, IgbereTV reports.

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will begin to interfere in your marriage which will cause you trouble.

Read her tweets below.

https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1337444817903742979?s=19[/quote]She’s absolutely correct... mothers always causing issues for their son’s marriage is mainly because the son gave the mother the opportunity to interfere and meddle into their marriage affairs. Men must truly understand the saying in the Bible, that a man must leave his father and mother, to find his better half. It says a lot but because most men feel they don’t wanna hurt their mom they tend to share virtually everything that happens. Like she says find what works for you, and that actually works for me. It’s no disrespect to help your parents understand these things.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Digitalwitch: 1:57pm On Dec 13, 2020

Onyeasi:
Well said. Mothers, generally women.

For the first time in about 11 years ago I joined nairaland. Today is the first day I made first to comment.

Make Una show me love

I love you brotherly

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Digitalwitch: 1:58pm On Dec 13, 2020

chrizzyace:
She’s absolutely correct... mothers always causing issues for their son’s marriage is mainly because the son gave the mother the opportunity to interfere and meddle into their marriage affairs. Men must truly understand the saying in the Bible, that a man must leave his father and mother, to find his better half. It says a lot but because most men feel they don’t wanna hurt their mom they tend to share virtually everything that happens. Like she says find what works for you, and that actually works for me. It’s no disrespect to help your parents understand these things.

When will Nigerians stop using scriptures to drive a point?

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by michoim(m): 2:18pm On Dec 13, 2020

Look at who is talking! Tout woman...

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Mummymahdi(f): 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2020

[quote author=Tillatalk post=97022602]You mean your son should keep you away from his marriage also[/quote

Anything marital affairs, leave mother's out of it, is the beginning of peaceful home ]

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by toprealman: 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2020

Hanty, keep your wise counsel to yourself.
Is that her dad or something that she is hugging?

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by jaxxy(m): 2:29pm On Dec 13, 2020

post=97018860:
Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerian mothers,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

True that!

Thank you Mr John M.
You've said it all.
You are also one of the very reasonable and sensible member we have on this forum.

Words from a wise lady.
Na ur mama born u.
God bless your mother for giving us a Queen like you!

Mothers are very useful to her children’s family no matter what and they can’t be ignored bt there is a level of interference they can/must have or it will/may cause clashes. This is generally speaking.

Now mothers are also different some good, some bad and difficult so in such cases ur home and wife comes 1st as usual anyways while the difficult highly emotional mothers are managed.

In is some cases the mother is good bt the wife is tyrant or a difficult humanbeing lol, in this case most men please their stubborn wives for peace sake and ask their moms for understanding unless the wife fvcksup then she will be relegated.

Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Teymanhenry(f): 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2020

For a marriage to work, keep third parties out of it. Seek counsel from the wise. There are many good mothers. But be smart enough to know if your mother's love is so jealous that she wouldn't tell you the truth when you have a matrimonial challenge. Well, for such mothers, they are a no no for me.

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