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Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by tegafej(m): 1:52pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
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Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Chudivictor(m): 1:55pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
the mistake most parents do is selling their daughters whilst thinking they are giving her hands in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by lekki1444: 1:56pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
IamD18:in the SW people have pride. they dont use their daughter as poverty alleviation scheme lol 5 Likes |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Sampozy: 1:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Cost of bride price can't stop anybody from getting married Bride price in the east is too much but still poor people dey marry Here in the East bride price may be a problem if the father of the girl is no more and maybe she doesn't have a brother who can stand as her father, that's when her wicked kinsmen can spoil everything for her But if her Father is alive he is the one to decide what to take as bride price. He even decide to take ₦2000. And moreover no man because of bride price refuse to give her daughter out in marriage 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Really it's not about the price, but a question if it's really worth it...that said, am of the opinion that marrying outside one's tribe should be highly discouraged, in fact if I had my way I'd ban those kinds of marriages, cultural values are lost as generations marry outside their tribes... Even God was against this practice. |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by WaterTheMonk(m): 2:09pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lekki1444:really |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by udemzyudex(m): 2:11pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
There is always room for negotiation |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by waleademolaa: 2:12pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lekki1444:The gal I plan to marry used to argue with me and I did leave her to argue not until I started paying money to her people in the name of list to marry her, so anytime she just tries to talk I shut her up.. I can't marry u with my money and u come argue with me, who born u? I bought u 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by waleademolaa: 2:12pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Chudivictor:The gal I plan to marry used to argue with me and I did leave her to argue not until I started paying money to her people in the name of list to marry her, so anytime she just tries to talk I shut her up.. I can't marry u with my money and u come argue with me, who born u? I bought u 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by waleademolaa: 2:13pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
udemzyudex:Be like u never marry, even if you have the money is too painful seeing yourself getting scammed of your hard earned money bc u want to marry 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by waleademolaa: 2:15pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You won't need to blame men that treat their wives the way they like. Bc they fuckinggg bought themselves a hoe |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Truthissupreme: 2:18pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
paulolee:A man that pays 10M for bride price won't respect the bride let alone her family. He would see them as hungry urchins and would start looking at his wife as an investment that should yield the amount worth. Na so so beating dey end such marriage This is not even about the man been rich or poor. I can't personally pay for a bride price or list of items that runs into ₦1million even if i am bill gates 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Khahidmorgan24(m): 2:20pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Good marketing strategy for the Western ladies but a lady Dat loves you won't allow u pay high bride price IamD18: 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Chudivictor(m): 2:22pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
waleademolaa:exactly!! but then, you shouldn't shut her up always nau.... funnily enough, that so called list/bridal list can be tweaked in a way whereby the groom won't feel he paid excess or in a way whereby it won't severely affect the groom financially but then, some parents are hell bent on selling their female daughters, the afterwards result is not always pleasant |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Charly68: 2:22pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Answer to this is subjective depending on your family and tribal tradition...that is why it is advisable to stick to your tribe when you want to marry 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
IamD18: Please how much does it cost to marry a yoruba women *traditionally* ?? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
InvertedHammer: Yoruba list or hausa list? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lekki1444: Is that how yorubas do it? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Truthissupreme: 2:28pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
ichidodo:so you go hustle legitimately and pay a bride price of ₦5M? Even senators won't do this, it is about the level of foolishness the bride people think about the groom that warrants such amount. Parents like this end up been so much possessive to continue the milking 4 Likes |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Chudivictor: Which parents are u talking about? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lekki1444: How much does it cost to marry a yoruba woman? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Chudivictor(m): 2:33pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Logan23:bride's parent |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
lekki1444: https://www.weddingfeferity.com/yoruba-wedding-engagement-list/ Is this true?
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Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Chudivictor: In yoruba or hausa land? |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Chudivictor(m): 2:40pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Logan23:the eastern part of the country |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
waleademolaa: Is this true?? https://www.weddingfeferity.com/yoruba-wedding-engagement-list/ |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Chudivictor: Seems u grew up in the western part of the country. Check this https://www.weddingfeferity.com/yoruba-wedding-engagement-list/ |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Sampozy: U speak with inexperience. Bride price in igbo land is not expensive. Bride price is fixed in igbo land, even if a girls father is dead, her suitors will pay what is agreed as a rule for the village, no relative or so called village uncles can increase it. |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by WowSweetGuy(m): 2:48pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Which price? Most have lost their virginity which is d price... It's suppose to be free or the woman to pay the man groom price for accepting the pvssy like that 2 Likes |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by SweetCunt97(f): 2:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
waleademolaa:And a lady agreed to marry you? Nawa |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by freeborn02: 3:00pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
IamD18: That's why girls in South East will reach menopause and still be single. Last time I checked, imo ladies were begging men to come and marry them. 1 Like |
Re: What Do We Consider As Expensive Bride Price? by udemzyudex(m): 3:02pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
waleademolaa: Dem dey negotiate bride price ooo |
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