Prayfortheworld:
You can take someone out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the person

thatsleepboy1:
The truth

ModsStopBanning:
Women are hypergamous in nature, that is, they desire a partner with a higher status than themselves. So, When a woman has an OLOSHO-ic past, with numerous body count, and turned a saint because the hoe phase is over, seeks for a serious relationship or maybe marriage, then you get to know her, forgives her of her past and get serious with her, you just succeeded in displaying your worthlessness.


Women can only go after nice guys when the hoe phase is over because only Nice guys can forgive them. But regardless of their desperation to be wifed, they are not sexually attracted to, or even respect the "Nice guy" although she may seem to do otherwise. They desire a better partner because of their hypergamous nature, so a "Nice guy" that forgives them come across as;

-Weak
-Lacks self esteem
-Lacks confidence
-Desperate
-Is willing to settle for less
-Has no other option
-undesirable by other girls
-below their status
-Does not deserve better.


So settling with a former Olosho and forgiving them does seem to be a display of strength to the "Nice guy" and SIMPs alike, but to the Olosho, her friends and families, he's a weak and undesirable man.

FreeSpirited:
That's why they end up disrespecting the nice guy, cheat on him easily, and probably give him bastard to raise

tobechi74:
By watching ladies make their choice. We can attempt to answer the question. Out of about ten ladies I personally know of who proposed to their  partner, nine of them had partners who are Non-Alpha. While I admit that ten is too small a number to be used in any study, it is a starting point. I have  observed  a shift in the  taste of a lady. Ladies no longer crave for Alpha guys as most literature suggest.  When asked to choose a potential life partner, they tend to shy away from the powerful, dominant, muscular physique guy. Could there be any reason for this
https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/06/do-ladies-slut-shame-each-other-more/

Prayfortheworld:
You can take someone out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the person

cooooooks:
Meet someone with whom there is mutual love, respect and attraction.

Don't leave someone that is perfect with you for someone you can barely laugh with in the name of "I must not 'forgive' her past"

pcguru1:
My hands are too dirty to point finger at another. maybe only a saint can judge

Zzor:
what do you mean by this

pcguru1:


If you can't understand this Statement then I can't help you. It requires some IQ

Zzor:
I know but i hate assumptions and you might end up saying that's not what you meant, you are a promiscuous man ain't you?

pcguru1:

Maybe you're not as smart as I thought