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Vyolet:
Op, divorce your wife and go marry the other bitch, all your life problem will be solved.

Confused soul, you want a virgin at the same time you want a pornster, How?

Ahswear, his confusion is confusioning me gan.

thebosstrevor1:
Too much porn is bad.

You want your wife to act like IndecentStar, because she didnt agree, you cheated on her.

Aren't you a selfish man who cares about his own sexual needs.

You allow your sexual desires to take over you to the extend it almost broke your home. You don't care about your home but about sex...

Instead of subtly trying to make your wife like what you want, you decided to break your oath all because a cheap woman seduced you. You lack self control and you will be destroyed by sex..

What type of man are you?

A sex addict.

Magnoliaa:
But, ermm, I thought virgins are prized possessions any man can want, ni. What am I now reading on this thread bayi.

Why are the alfas here overlooking the fact that this is a virtuous woman untainted by the world's pollution, huh?

Snaagg:
This your "alfa" lines are beginning to get stale

Okayyy. I have replied you now -obviously meaning I noticed you, and you gained my attention.

Satisfied? Goan nurse that till whenever... or never, if I chose to not engage you again.

Magnoliaa:
Okayyy. I have replied you now -obviously meaning I noticed you, and you gained my attention.

Satisfied? Goan nurse that till whenever... or never, if I chose to not engage you again.

Ardar:
Mails are such selfish creatures.

Reading this nonsense really gave me a headache and reading most of the comments made it worse.

How do you expect a religious virgin wife to all of sudden know all the latest sex styles? You want her puzzy to be tear rubber and at the same time expect her to know how to bang like a IndecentStar.
Now at the end of the day you mails will still cheat on your "virgin wives" with those girls you freely call sluts, oloshos and the rest.

I won't be surprised if the op leaves his "virgin wife" and marries the "olosho" that scattered his brain.

Very selfish and greedy creatures.

Dreyton36:
Hmmm listen OP

Marrying a virgin is a big blessing that's number one, men's virginity don't count o
If you see the rate of promiscuity in women nowadays then you wouldn't bother about your wife not giving you super sex positions
Hey man you think it's her fault? No it's not
Can you just for once sit down and ask yourself where you're also getting it all wrong ?

Nigga tf you disvirgined her , she's supposed to be so much into exploring new things , maybe you just don't have the right flow that turns her on

I disvirgined my own girl and she doesn't like anal , she'll just lay on the bed like a log of wood
But you know what?

As her man I know my woman's mumu button , I give her the right vibes which is irresistible
Bro you don't give her the right vibes
You got a virgin wtf u cheating for
What's wrong with these amateur men of these days

I turned my woman to who she is today , from being a log of wood to being all I ever wanted
She even initiates most of our sex and romance , we make love in crazy places , even a quickie in public toilets lol
Guy there is more to life than just a ring on her finger
You cheated on ur woman with no remorse but if she was the one that also cheated I'm sure by now you would've divorced her , you think she doesn't have feelings abi

Imagine you trying to sleep with someone who always sees you as a fornicator , and you still lay on her and expect her to make love to you happily
In case you don't know , the love your woman has for you died the day she knew about your promiscuity
That's why she finds it hard to talk to you , her silence means anger you fool

Ok let's see things this way niggha
As a man who deflowered a lady , and all of a sudden she becomes so good at sex in different styles , won't you think she must be prolly cheating or learning them from somewhere?

It's ur responsibility to teach her, and if she refused to learn it means you don't know how to make your woman fall for you , it's still ur problem not hers

Una go just wan they fvck Toto but una no know how to make the babe fall with sweet words

Most virgins don't marry the men they love , most of them just want to know how marriage life feels like so it'll take a long time adjust into that kinda lifestyle they weren't brought up with

Guy go and take your wife on a vacation in somewhere around Africa if your money no long
Or somewhere around Nigeria sef
Be romantic and treat her like a queen
Make her understand that you're very wrong by sleeping with another and you take all the blames with ur one knee on the ground in a quiet location where it's just the two of you

Maybe a quiet garden or anywhere romantic

Remind her of the good times and how far you guys have gone , if you're a sweet talker just watch how she'll drop a tear, that tear is all you need bro
If that tear hasn't dropped then you've not even started being sweet

Once you've achieved that teardrop then you're almost there , don't stop talking ensure your hand is holding hers while you're on one knee sweet talking (and say them from ur heart not ur preeq)

Bro you'll see her burst into more tears, that's A YES
offer her your shoulders to cry on , don't tell her to stop crying , let her cry till she's cool
She'll cry that thought of your promiscuity off her head and she'll begin to generate some love for you , don't expect her to forgive you completely , it'll still take time so you have to continue being a good husband

As time goes you'll see the changes yourself, if you see the kind of women outside even DOGGY go tire you
If you fvck kpekus wey carry sickness doggy go tire u

And if you fvck kpekus wey no get grace then you are on your own o, better keep your home together and most importantly respect your wife if you want her to also respect you

If a virgin woman love you deeply , even when you say "babe i wanna Bleep u like a bitch , she go they turned on immediately cuz their body easily react to romantic words
So I'm wondering if you're even romantic at all , work ok yourself o

Go my son and never sin no more , na correct man sabi put home together without other people knowing what's up

Lights up my kpoli in peace

igbosoupkitchen:
Most reasonable, thought provoking post i have read on this thread..I like how you started off letting the op know that u know whats up, how he messed up, where he messed up and and most importantly how you he can fix it...I do hope for his sake that he listens else his loss would be much more than his "illusion of enjoyment "'

Thanks man!!

crackhaus:
Lol... Why was this personal to you?

mariahAngel:
If I'd have to answer that, I'd have to kill you afterwards. Still interested?

Ishilove:
What a selfish asshole. I hope you end up with really itchy and painful genital warts.

NoToPile:
Loool the matter vex you gan

Righteousness89:
When time to pay the price for Cheating comes, you will tell GOD that your wife cannot give you Doggy!!

Let no one Deceive you!
What you are doing is Adultery! It is Dangerous! It is Evil!
You are opening up your Home to Disaster!

I Advice you to cut off from that and face your wife! When what will hit you, hits you! This your Sin Partner will be no where near you! She will abandon you!

If you Have Ears to Hear! You can Hear!

thebosstrevor1:
Too much porn is bad.

You want your wife to act like IndecentStar, because she didnt agree, you cheated on her.

Aren't you a selfish man who cares about his own sexual needs.

You allow your sexual desires to take over you to the extend it almost broke your home. You don't care about your home but about sex...

Instead of subtly trying to make your wife like what you want, you decided to break your oath all because a cheap woman seduced you. You lack self control and you will be destroyed by sex..

What type of man are you?

A sex addict.

Ochason:
A friend needs your advise.
My wife and I are having issues for over six months now. We live in the same house but she does not sleep with me or barely speak with me. And that is because she found out my indiscretion in March. I have been married for four years now. We were both virgins when we married. So, she is my first and I hers. Along the line, I got tired of having s*x the missionary style and wanted to try new things to spice up our life.
That was when my wife shocked me and refused to try other s*x styles like doggy or oral s*x. I was very disappointed but I love my wife, so I did not bother her. She say doggy style is painful for her and oral is against her beliefs. But,as a man, I desire these kind of exciting ways of making love and I watch films and I really get aroused seeing other people do it. One day, I gave two ladies from my office lift after work. I noticed one of them was trying to be close to me…I used to give both of them lift.
Then, one day, only one of them waited for me cos she could not find transport. We closed late that day and on the way, we got talking and it was getting interesting. I asked her if she was in a relationship, she said she just broke up with her guy. She wanted to know why I asked her and I said nothing just curios. However, she went further to say that she likes me and she wish I was not married. I smiled but then she also went ahead and said she miss her s*x with her boyfriend. All these, I know she was telling me because she wanted me. I told her lets hangout. She agreed. I took her to a hotel, paid the bill. That night …it was wild. All the imaginations I had wanted with my wife..I had with her…she was wild and gave me all the styles. For the first time,I felt I made a mistake marrying my wife.
That was how my affair with this lady started…until my wife noticed I was not bothering her again for s*x. She checked my phone and saw messages between me and this lady. She went crazy but I told her she pushed me to it. That her refusing doggy or oral pushed me to cheat. This almost broke us up but after much counselling, we agreed to work things out. My wife agreed for the doggy but not oral. She maintained its still a sin. Even the doggy,she just make me loose interest cos she will be behaving uncomfortable…not enjoying it.
I decided not to bother her again. When she noticed I am quiet… she will start making trouble…saying I am selfish and all I want is s*x and I don’t care what she feels. I don’t know what is so strange about a man wanting doggy or oral from his wife.
This is one reason a lot of men cheat on their wives. Side chicks are ready to give what the married ones don’t want to give. I feel so bad but since the situation is not getting better, I been thinking maybe its time to end the marriage.

There’s nothing I have not tried. I gave her books to reach, videos to watch…even paid for an online coaching class for her to watch but she still maintain her stance. I really do not want to divorce…I cannot bear to see my children go through this but if you were in my shoes, what will you do?
This has drawn me and that lady close. I am getting tempted to continue the affair with her…I really do not wish to…but my wife is being inconsiderate and I really feel she does not care about me as much as I care about her.

Please advise me…its almost end of year…I cannot continue in a marriage where we hardly speak to each other or enjoy s*x with each other…if she cannot compromise…I will continue cheating cos divorce is not an option…

What else can he do?