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Daniiel:
guy abeg ur book u are selling is it educational or fictional books you write

BrokenWingz:
Bro can i ask you something on KDP?

COURVOISier:
Go ahead.

BrokenWingz:
It's about the amazon book stuffs. I'll like to chat u up about it. This is my number, please send me a WA msg.
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iLegendd:
This message you wrote is not for me, but let me tell you something about life and humans.

When you're looking for help, don't tell someone to send you a message — it's considered an insult; even if you use please or kindly.

Even if you want to buy something from that person, it's still considered an insult. If you're a man and the person is a woman, then there is no problem, but when it's man to man, it's an insult.

You, the person requesting to be contacted, sounds arrogant and the person not obliging by contacting you as you wanted will seem rude and arrogant to you.

With this message, you've made yourself and the person to appear arrogant.

Successful people in their chosen careers hate being told to send them a message when in the end, you're the one to benefit more from the message. They are after more successes, not after distractions.

This is not ego or pride — it's just instint. They feel devalued and insulted when you order them to send you a message.

If someone who isn't my friend or a family member orders me to send him or her a message, the outcome of that interaction better be to my benefit.

When it's to your benefit, you're the one to do the sending and wait to see if you'll get a reply. If you don't, swallow your pride and move on.

Lots of people on Nairaland here posted: [/b]iLegend, send me a message on WhatsApp I want to buy your book."[/b] I read and ignored 99% of them.

It's not pride, it's disrespect. Because you want to buy a book of 10k you want to control me? Na wa oh! Even people who are willing to pay 200k
as they beg to learn book publishing get declined, let alone an arrogant person who wants to pay 10k for a book that will help his life.

So, you guys should learn how to approach others to avoid appearing rude and arrogant. Helpers hate that.

In one way or the other, we all have pride. Only an idiot doesn't. It all boils down to how you manage it without being too arrogant or becoming too weak while trying to act humble.

Solution to My Rant Above

The right thing to do is to request for the person's email or number to send him a message. If he refuses, but requested for yours instead, then you can post your email for him to initiate the interaction.

Dropping details and requesting your helper to contact you is TOO much of an insult. It's only cool when the interaction is between a man and a woman and the man is trying to show dominance, else, it's terrible.

That's all.

BrokenWingz:
You're misunderstanding me.
I don't have a means to contact him. That's why i dropped my number. How's that arrogance?

iLegendd:
In this 21st century and you're online? Hmm. I'm learning everyday. All the best.

BrokenWingz:

iLegendd:
This message you wrote is not for me, but let me tell you something about life and humans.

When you're looking for help, don't tell someone to send you a message — it's considered an insult; even if you use please or kindly.

Even if you want to buy something from that person, it's still considered an insult. If you're a man and the person is a woman, then there is no problem, but when it's man to man, it's an insult.

You, the person requesting to be contacted, sounds arrogant and the person not obliging by contacting you as you wanted will seem rude and arrogant to you.

With this message, you've made yourself and the person to appear arrogant.

Successful people in their chosen careers hate being told to send them a message when in the end, you're the one to benefit more from the message. They are after more successes, not after distractions.

This is not ego or pride — it's just instint. They feel devalued and insulted when you order them to send you a message.

If someone who isn't my friend or a family member orders me to send him or her a message, the outcome of that interaction better be to my benefit.

When it's to your benefit, you're the one to do the sending and wait to see if you'll get a reply. If you don't, swallow your pride and move on.

Lots of people on Nairaland here posted: [/b]iLegend, send me a message on WhatsApp I want to buy your book."[/b] I read and ignored 99% of them.

It's not pride, it's disrespect. Because you want to buy a book of 10k you want to control me? Na wa oh! Even people who are willing to pay 200k
as they beg to learn book publishing get declined, let alone an arrogant person who wants to pay 10k for a book that will help his life.

So, you guys should learn how to approach others to avoid appearing rude and arrogant. Helpers hate that.

In one way or the other, we all have pride. Only an idiot doesn't. It all boils down to how you manage it without being too arrogant or becoming too weak while trying to act humble.

Solution to My Rant Above

The right thing to do is to request for the person's email or number to send him a message. If he refuses, but requested for yours instead, then you can post your email for him to initiate the interaction.

Dropping details and requesting your helper to contact you is TOO much of an insult. It's only cool when the interaction is between a man and a woman and the man is trying to show dominance, else, it's terrible.

That's all.

Dathypebruv:
Go to his profile and send an email manny

COURVOISier:
Thank you

ambitiouschap17:
I no see the picture, but I know say no something big. Shey you don buy the car wey dey your profile.

And no forget to bring your tithes come

BrokenWingz:
It's about the amazon book stuffs. I'll like to chat u up about it. This is my number, please send me a WA msg.

COURVOISier:
Can you ask the stuff here?

COURVOISier:
Na companies I won buy . Sure, when time reach for tithe e go reach your side.

BrokenWingz:
Please edit my number from your post.
It's about setting up amazon kdp account and keyword research.

COURVOISier:
Bros you lazy o. Wey google and YouTube dey? I sure say na my screenshot make you consider to do kdp. Something dey behind the success o, no be beans.

promo4:
Yes boss

EVILFOREST:
I barb myself.
My Wife also barbs me, since she's better.
So, ur effort is nothing to someone like me
U don't have to be poor to achieve such.
In my District, HAIRCUT costs about $30, meanwhile a New Clipper costs about $25.
So, since that's the case I resolved to be cutting my hair myself and my wife does it better.
And we agreed to WILL that weekly $30 to my EX in Naija.
People fix things themselves in diaspora.
Most White Guys cut their hairs themselves.
No one PHOTOCOPIES MATERIALS for you.
You do it yourself.
The System compels u to become a MACHINA.