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What would you do were you to be in Jide or Anita's shoe?

Can two work together without agreeing?


Marriage no be by force!

The guy is just being selfish and with a low self esteem, he’s feeling intimidated already and wants to prove he’s in charge when there is no reason to feel that way .

Or they can live in both cities if the guy already has a house or side investment in his location , but I won’t advice she resigns from her current job , no matter the pressure from her spouse, it’s either the guy with a lesser salary get a transfer to her location since he can apply for it or she quits the relationship , her job should be her major priority now , not marriage . We all know it will be very difficult for her to get a new job at his location, but we all will agree that the guy can easily apply for a relocation and get transferred

This story is old and has been recycled over and over again.

Every couple should do what suits them.

Palema007:
Can two work together without agreeing?


Marriage no be by force!

Exactly

One has to compromise for the other. In essence, there will be a leader and a follower.
That is why there can never be a 50-50 relationship.

Kalatium:
Exactly

One has to compromise for the other. In essence, there will be a leader and a follower.
That is why there can never be a 50-50 relationship.

When the compromise becomes insensible and draining, it's best to split.

Palema007:
When the compromise becomes insensible and draining, it's best to split.

Gbam...

All I see is a selfish, low self-esteem egoistic creature. Who can't bear the shame of a woman earning more than him.

If that lady loves herself she should call of that wedding. That silly creature doesn't deserve her.

I mean who asks a woman earning 42m per annum to resign?