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Nice Story except for the sex before marriage part.
Love just happens, when you least expect.
It turns you into a fool from the perspective of others, but you on your right senses than ever before.
My friend fall in love with girl, na so I tire for am, but he would always say to me you won't understand until you fall in love. I still de try to understand sha..

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Lovethaa:
Love is a beautiful thing, I still remember the first time I fell in love, I was 28 years old. I have been dating but have not really experienced Love ..

It was a Tuesday and I saw that babe walking by with her friend. My eyes were locked onto her and my senses flown away.

I was admiring God's beauty in a human. Like a man under a spell I immediately left what I was doing and started pursuing this babe like a lion after a prey..

I don't know where the courage came from but I walked up to them and started vibing with both friends without letting them know who I was into.

She got near her house and told me to go back, so I collected the numbers of both of them. Deleted the friends own immediately and saved my crush. Her name was Bukola.

Then my mumu started .. First I bought mtn card 400 to load so I can call her .. at first she gave me tough time , I'll call in the morning she won't pick , call on the afternoon same thing. Then in the night she would pick and then tell me "sorry I did not see your calls "..

Infact when I knew I was in love was the day she flashed me by mistake, I was hungry as hell that day, and me and my friend was already drawing map on how we are going to spend the last 200naira with me.. i'mmediately I saw that call. Hunger flew away . And because I don't have credit to call her back I quickly used the last 200 to buy card so I can talk to her ...
Only for her to pick and tell me "Pls I'm very sorry you're not who I wanted to call "..
I was disappointed but still want to talk to her then she told me "I'm busy right now , maybe later "...

Omo I received insult from my friend tire that day.. infact that momth was hell .. my friend was so angry with me that he called me woman wrapper..

But still yet I love her the same .
One day I texted her that it's mu birthday and that even if she won't call she should at least text me happy birthday..

After about 2 hours she called me for the first time , wished me happy birthday and ask if I'm celebrating it . I told her m not celebrating but I would be happy if she would follow me to a fancy restaurant..

She agreed..

And it started from there. From tastee fried chicken I took her to ShopRite and we did small shopping..

After that day she started picking my calls and I never stopped showing her how much I love her .. I make sure I always send her Good morning and good night text .. I also make sure every time I buy airtime I buy her own too..

But with everything she told me she's not interested in a relationship..

One day I stopped.. no more calls no more text .. o forced myself to stop talking to her .
After about a week I woke up to a text from her that says "I miss seeing your text messages and missed calls "...

I was happy so I called her back and like a miracle she came to my house that day and we kissed .. the whole skyrocketed from there .. after a while she allowed me into her paradise and I realized she's tear rubber .. long story short we are married now with 2 beautiful kids ...

MODIFIED

Marriage with her was heavenly.. I remember I was working at GTBank when we got married, while she works with a private firm...there was no kids involved yet
.
We were so close that you would mistake us for siblings,,we do have our fight sometimes but anytime it happens. She knows my mumu button And I know hers too.

We eat and bath together... There was this time I traveled for a week.. Before I came back she fell sick cos she's not used to staying without me .
Life is so easy with her .My car is her car .most times I go to work with Uber while she drives ..
When I'm broke we eat what we have no pressure...
..

Pls dear youth Love still exists

Human Love is a Scam. Only GOD's love towards man is real.

Don't be carried away. Love all the same but get a grip of yourself. Just prepare your mind for the unexpected and work towards a better union.

All the best

Congratulations bra

Martinez39s:
When is the part 2 coming out?

Are you praying for the marriage to crash?

Jodha:
I'm not really looking for who to mingle with... I'm looking for true undiluted love in it's real self... someone that'll love me unconditionally...not just for how I look...or for my body ...or what I say or do ...but just to love me for me...


As for the expectations and standard....i don't think I can go below my standard.... it's personally what I want....

I am sorry to break your heart...there is nothing like unconditional love between humans.

You must be loved for something...Maybe your outward look or your character but there is nothing like unconditional love between humans..it only exists from GOD towards humans.

Preshieben:
Congrats dear...ya damn lucky

Me I'm still here waiting for the day someone's son will genuinely love me
I pray i don't grow old waiting

You have probably met one but the problem is that most ladies usually ignore men who are ready to genuinely love them.

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Chaii

emmaodet:


Are you praying for the marriage to crash?

I was simply saying the op is lying or at least being economical with the truth. OP is giving us a spurious impression.

Martinez39s:
I was simply saying the op is lying or at least being economical with the truth. OP is giving us a spurious impression.

Okay ooo.
How is your side bro

emmaodet:
Okay ooo.
How is your side bro

My side is fine. How is yours?

Martinez39s:
My side is fine. How is yours?

Cool bro. Just pushing

Congrats bro. All the best

Preshieben:
Congrats dear...ya damn lucky

Me I'm still here waiting for the day someone's son will genuinely love me
I pray i don't grow old waiting

Start by loving your image and yourself. Then others.
Soon, you will see people loving you

Tajbol4splend:
Marriage is sweet when you marry the right person even if you don't have children yet but hopelessness and bitterness is going to make some people start badmouthing marriage, just wait and see

Infact ehn, if you marry the right woman, even to eat outside will look like adultery

FIRSTLY, a woman wrote this story.


SECONDLY, to buttress the fact that a woman wrote the story - realize how everything (EVERYTHING) in the story points to male self-sacrifice, excessive provision of resource, unrestrained attention (even unreciprocated) to the woman.

THIRDLY, what special thing attracted this ficitious man to this real woman (the post wall OP) - NOTHING. He just saw her, and her friend - women will always see their fellow women as competition - took both their numbers, but deleted the friends number. (No man will delete a TG's friend's number)

NEXT, see she said, she flashed him by mistake. MEANING - Men are not worthy of receiving emotion/consideration/attention from women except she perceives him of high value. (provision of resource). We can infer that initially, she thought of him as unmanly and undeserving of her tOtO.

After he spends all the money (which he could have used to start a business/get an MSc./Travel abroad for a better life/SEND TO HIS MOTHER/Build a house/improve his life) she then 'settled' for him - because a). she could be nearing the wall b). broke up with an alpha ex - needs beta orbiter attention and resource c). already in the healing phase and needs a beta provider 'quickly' - no time for her eggs.


LASTLY - A woman loves on the premise that her 'needs and pre-qualifying attributes are met' that is - you are both a meal ticket and a xmas present. And then that love is purely transactional, since she could have chosen to date a bricklayer, a welder or 300,000 other guys who must have seen her on the road for the past 10 years of her reproductive adult life.

Men - swallow TRP. Hypergamy, female sollipsism, their carousel riding, callously wicked nature to low value men and their extreme frugality with their tOtO are all reasons they deserve less.

This story is fake, written by a woman and is intended to brainwash SIMPS. Do not be a SIMP - Swallow TRP.

Preshieben:
Congrats dear...ya damn lucky
Me I'm still here waiting for the day someone's son will genuinely love me I pray i don't grow old waiting

I'm ready, are you in?

Interesting story and Love is a beautiful thing don't mind people shouting Simp up and down. Your the real man

Bro love still exit.. So let love lead

Toks2008:
You have probably met one but the problem is that most ladies usually ignore men who are ready to genuinely love them.

True talk

I am not comfortable with how you got the girl. You literally begged and bribed her to consider you. However, all that doesn't matter as long as you are happy. Congratulations.

Infatuation turn love..
All those things you did at first was due to infatuation not love. With time, you both grew in love and your marriage sealed the deal.

That's why I keep telling people, there's no love at first sight.

Jodha:
I'm not really looking for who to mingle with... I'm looking for true undiluted love in it's real self... someone that'll love me unconditionally...not just for how I look...or for my body ...or what I say or do ...but just to love me for me...


As for the expectations and standard....i don't think I can go below my standard.... it's personally what I want....

You are not seeking love you are seeking validation

When you love yourself to fullness, people would love you for you, it's automatic

Poloyanabo2:
DON'T MIND HER, LET HER BE LIVING IN DENIAL,
IF WHAT SHE SAID IS TRUE THEN I CAN LOVE A MANNEQUIN AND CALL IT TRUE LOVE

You are a clown.

Lovethaa:
Love is a beautiful thing, I still remember the first time I fell in love, I was 28 years old. I have been dating but have not really experienced Love ..

It was a Tuesday and I saw that babe walking by with her friend. My eyes were locked onto her and my senses flown away.

I was admiring God's beauty in a human. Like a man under a spell I immediately left what I was doing and started pursuing this babe like a lion after a prey..

I don't know where the courage came from but I walked up to them and started vibing with both friends without letting them know who I was into.

She got near her house and told me to go back, so I collected the numbers of both of them. Deleted the friends own immediately and saved my crush. Her name was Bukola.

Then my mumu started .. First I bought mtn card 400 to load so I can call her .. at first she gave me tough time , I'll call in the morning she won't pick , call on the afternoon same thing. Then in the night she would pick and then tell me "sorry I did not see your calls "..

Infact when I knew I was in love was the day she flashed me by mistake, I was hungry as hell that day, and me and my friend was already drawing map on how we are going to spend the last 200naira with me.. i'mmediately I saw that call. Hunger flew away . And because I don't have credit to call her back I quickly used the last 200 to buy card so I can talk to her ...
Only for her to pick and tell me "Pls I'm very sorry you're not who I wanted to call "..
I was disappointed but still want to talk to her then she told me "I'm busy right now , maybe later "...

Omo I received insult from my friend tire that day.. infact that momth was hell .. my friend was so angry with me that he called me woman wrapper..

But still yet I love her the same .
One day I texted her that it's mu birthday and that even if she won't call she should at least text me happy birthday..

After about 2 hours she called me for the first time , wished me happy birthday and ask if I'm celebrating it . I told her m not celebrating but I would be happy if she would follow me to a fancy restaurant..

She agreed..

And it started from there. From tastee fried chicken I took her to ShopRite and we did small shopping..

After that day she started picking my calls and I never stopped showing her how much I love her .. I make sure I always send her Good morning and good night text .. I also make sure every time I buy airtime I buy her own too..

But with everything she told me she's not interested in a relationship..

One day I stopped.. no more calls no more text .. o forced myself to stop talking to her .
After about a week I woke up to a text from her that says "I miss seeing your text messages and missed calls "...

I was happy so I called her back and like a miracle she came to my house that day and we kissed .. the whole skyrocketed from there .. after a while she allowed me into her paradise and I realized she's tear rubber .. long story short we are married now with 2 beautiful kids ...

MODIFIED

Marriage with her was heavenly.. I remember I was working at GTBank when we got married, while she works with a private firm...there was no kids involved yet
.
We were so close that you would mistake us for siblings,,we do have our fight sometimes but anytime it happens. She knows my mumu button And I know hers too.

We eat and bath together... There was this time I traveled for a week.. Before I came back she fell sick cos she's not used to staying without me .
Life is so easy with her .My car is her car .most times I go to work with Uber while she drives ..
When I'm broke we eat what we have no pressure...
..

Pls dear youth Love still exists

simp

Another simp is trapped. Love is not only when you meet a mate. Show love to people around and people you meet, the poor, needy, orphans, widows, elderly and little kids. Don't be a simp

NICE COMMENTARY

NOTE: A woman loves on the premise that her 'needs and pre-qualifying attributes are met' that is - you are both a meal ticket and a xmas present. And then that love is purely transactiona

TarOrfeeek:
FIRSTLY, a woman wrote this story.


SECONDLY, to buttress the fact that a woman wrote the story - realize how everything (EVERYTHING) in the story points to male self-sacrifice, excessive provision of resource, unrestrained attention (even unreciprocated) to the woman.

THIRDLY, what special thing attracted this ficitious man to this real woman (the post wall OP) - NOTHING. He just saw her, and her friend - women will always see their fellow women as competition - took both their numbers, but deleted the friends number. (No man will delete a TG's friend's number)

NEXT, see she said, she flashed him by mistake. MEANING - Men are not worthy of receiving emotion/consideration/attention from women except she perceives him of high value. (provision of resource). We can infer that initially, she thought of him as unmanly and undeserving of her tOtO.

After he spends all the money (which he could have used to start a business/get an MSc./Travel abroad for a better life/SEND TO HIS MOTHER/Build a house/improve his life) she then 'settled' for him - because a). she could be nearing the wall b). broke up with an alpha ex - needs beta orbiter attention and resource c). already in the healing phase and needs a beta provider 'quickly' - no time for her eggs.


LASTLY - A woman loves on the premise that her 'needs and pre-qualifying attributes are met' that is - you are both a meal ticket and a xmas present. And then that love is purely transactional, since she could have chosen to date a bricklayer, a welder or 300,000 other guys who must have seen her on the road for the past 10 years of her reproductive adult life.

Men - swallow TRP. Hypergamy, female sollipsism, their carousel riding, callously wicked nature to low value men and their extreme frugality with their tOtO are all reasons they deserve less.

This story is fake, written by a woman and is intended to brainwash SIMPS. Do not be a SIMP - Swallow TRP.

Unfortunately, their is no part 2.
After marriage and child birth comes the real deal.

All these stories about love will be put to test.

Beautiful fictional story, cos if you made your first million at 26 and you went so broke that you can't afford 200 naira recharge at 28 then something is fishing. Anyway you try with the story though. A good liar must have excellent memory.

https://www.nairaland.com/6323405/how-made-first-million-naira

yes of course true love dey if the 2people are genuine, marriage is Sweet when both are determined to make it work �����

Tajbol4splend:
You forgot to put online, I might even tell you I'm an owner of two estates, two acres of land in Banana Island and another in Lekki but maybe in reality, I'm squatting at a friend's place, it's a faceless forum, even the boring ones will appear exuberant, this one SIMP, that one SIMP, a lot of them can't even manage to walk up to a girl let alone wooing her

That's where the wahala is. They dont have the balls to walk up to a woman or are not man enough to be in a relationship.

Daniiel:
mad oi being a SIMP pays in the long run.

Is that what being a SIMP is?. SMH