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Ehhh! good for you ma keep it up cos is working for you ....
thanks

This is a REAL WOMAN. This is what real women do.

humilitypays:
This is what ladies fail to understand. When a man focuses on making money without bothering about family chores and wife naggings and whatnot, he will definitely excel, which will make the family a success.

But most ladies today want a romantic husband who washes their undies, fry water for them and do this and that for them, which reduces his energy and divides his money making attention and hence the family continues to struggle and she will be calling village people.


Only foolish ladies take feminism to marriage. The wise ones only talk about it for fun among friends but when they go back home they submit to their man cheerfully and they in turn enjoy good life and love from their man

1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

I agree entirely with this. however, men please take note of her number 9, the bolded.

9. My husband hardly notices the details, he’s busy. He only remembers that I’m the best.

Appreciation! appreciation!! appreciation!!!

baby124:
The husband makes them millions and there is nothing he won’t do for his family. A lot of people will miss that one o

The way the woman treats the man triggers the millions, I guess you also missed that one.

She should continue ooo , but we don't want to hear stories of how he has being humiliating her tomorrow .
That was exactly how Tonto Dike and co kept us in the moon for so long how they have been living a perfect life until she could not take it any more .
One thing I hate in life is pretences . Some women out there will be jealous of this one naw thinking that everything is perfect for her.
No marriage is perfect jhooooor ! .

Angelawhite:


She loves her man.

She loves n worship d money.

bukatyne:


1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

odiegwu

on point

bukatyne:


1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

Only high quality men deserves this doormat that is claiming submissive.

So because I want to be submissive, I should lose my sense of self? Or because he makes us millions, I should be his slave?
Am I not human? Are there not times I won't want to do it? If its money, I'll make it myself. Let both of us be sharing wifely duties together. Rubbish!

Las las, marriage no be by force

Exodora:
She should continue ooo , but we don't want to hear stories of how he has being humiliating her tomorrow .
That was exactly how Tonto Dike and co kept us in the moon for so long how they have been living a perfect life until she could not take it any more .
One thing I hate in life is pretences . Some women out there will be jealous of this one naw thinking that everything is perfect for her.
No marriage is perfect jhooooor ! .

Everything is perfect for her how?

The wife spent 95% of the post telling us what she does for her husband.

How did she paint perfection?

Aileexa1:
Only high quality men deserves this doormat that is claiming submissive.

So because I want to be submissive, I should lose my sense of self? Or because he makes us millions, I should be his slave?
Am I not human? Are there not times I won't want to do it? If its money, I'll make it myself. Let both of us be sharing wifely duties together. Rubbish!

Las las, marriage no be by force

How has this wife lost her sense of self or become a doormat?

You ain't serious

Olarewaju89:


A scientist wanted to develop a bra
that stops women's breast from
bouncing while running and also another
bra that doesn't show nipples when wet.
but we guys don't panic... We killed the
idiot immediately

arukwe123:
Feminists right now

That photo description was too perfect...

bukatyne:


How has this wife lost her sense of self or become a doormat?

Help me ask o!

bukatyne:

1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

Buka let's summarize the issue and not dilly-dally...

The truth is that women these days (of a certain generation and below) want it ALL.

They want a man who will provide the millions while making out time to massage their bodies & legs, cook for them, buy them whatever they want, take them out to fancy places, all without demanding anything too much from them in return.

As far as they are concerned, their wombs and vaginas which holds and bears the man's children, is enough.

crackhaus:

Buka let's summarize the issue and not dilly-dally...

The truth is that women these days (of a certain generation and below) want it ALL.

They want a man who will provide the millions while making out time to massage their bodies & legs, cook for them, buy them whatever they want, take them out to fancy places, all without demanding anything too much from them in return.

As far as they are concerned, their wombs and vaginas which holds and bears the man's children, is enough.

It is human nature to want it all with little in return

Husbands also want wives who co-provide, look sexy at 60, cook gournment meals four times a day, handles all the chores, care for the kids, maintain the spiritual temperature of the home etc. All they would do is provide the balance.

It is wisdom for one to know no one is perfect, be content and grow to be a better fit for our spouse.

If that wisdom is common is another matter.

wisdomiskey:


At least she get husband to wipe yansh of
Shey you get?

whether i have or don't is none of your business. not everyone likes broadcasting their relationship status on NL, but best believe this is me all day err day, man or no man: rebel from day one. real bad gyal, so no boy can try program me. listen to Shenseea and educate ya sistas in Nigeria who turn themselves to slaves for men and depend on men for money they should be making themselves.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Od4QdGa7I20

you can talk like this when there is money nau.

crackhaus:

Buka let's summarize the issue and not dilly-dally...

The truth is that women these days (of a certain generation and below) want it ALL.

They want a man who will provide the millions while making out time to massage their bodies & legs, cook for them, buy them whatever they want, take them out to fancy places, all without demanding anything too much from them in return.

As far as they are concerned, their wombs and vaginas which holds and bears the man's children, is enough.

I disagree
I come in peace o
I no fit type but make I vent small.
My big boy smashed my living room tv, only him knew what he was doing there.
For this xmas period

I will bundle that boy to u cos I can't even scream here.
Yaaaa!.
Once he says sorry, he think all is well. Was even telling me to replace it tomorrow.
I miss naija honestly. E no give im papa mouth

bukatyne:


How has this wife lost her sense of self or become a doormat?

I'm loving your contributions on this thread ma'am

descarado:

I disagree
I come in peace o
I no fit type but make I vent small.

You're allowed to disagree jor, I just talk wetin I don notice and I won't come here to make shït up.
Highest, just say that there are exceptions...

My big boy smashed my living room tv, only him knew what he was doing there.
For this xmas period

I will bundle that boy to u cos I can't even scream here.
Yaaaa!.
Once he says sorry, he think all is well. Was even telling me to replace it tomorrow.
I miss naija honestly. E no give im papa mouth

I don't even know what to type to calm you down.
I can totally understand how your entire body wants to pounce on him, but e dey quick you remember say you nor dey naija again...

humilitypays:
He pays the house rent.



He provides money for family feeding.

He takes care of health bills.


He provides the family a car for easy movement.

He bought all the home and kitchen appliances.


He works hard to ensure you and the kids have a good life.

You are working and he doesn't even care about your salary, your salary has never been what the family rely on. He doesn't complain.

All he is asking from you is loyalty, respect, submissiveness and happiness, but you said no because you heard one nonsense practice called gender equality, he must be helping you to fry water as you cook tea.....the thunder that will fire you is still rehearsing in Kankara forest

@bold what if it is the woman doing all this.Should the man then give her the conditions you stated above?

Chimeluv:
Fairytale

Tale of lies

50000000000 likes for this lovely post

bukatyne:


1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

Aileexa1:
Only high quality men deserves this doormat that is claiming submissive.

So because I want to be submissive, I should lose my sense of self? Or because he makes us millions, I should be his slave?
Am I not human? Are there not times I won't want to do it? If its money, I'll make it myself. Let both of us be sharing wifely duties together. Rubbish!

Las las, marriage no be by force

Abi oo.
The OP just wrote lies na tales by moonlight be this.

Openbusiness:
My kind of woman , May you continue to enjoy your happily ever after with your husband in peace.

Watch how those bitter, frustrated, pained, toxic, low IQ, low-budget misandristic ugly girls on Nairaland who call themselves expired evening newspapers because they just can't get or keep a man will start attacking her. Continue your foolhardy foolishness until your ovaries can no longer produce eggs, u wee no wassup by den
[img]https://media1./images/70fc5c9b5478d9a646981ec171d500dc/tenor.gif?itemid=19445802[/img]

Coming from someone that can’t afford to spend money on advert for his business. Using signature to advertise You “is” broke

Also The above isn’t a test of true love between a couple.
Better do you and stop comparing women to her, you aren’t like her husband

You are still BROKE!

Money commands respect, show me a rich man that doesn’t get respect from people talk more of his wife!

Nuyokoi:
i'm surprised she doesn't wipe his ass for him too. dummy.

She prolly does but is too embarrassed to admit it.

Openbusiness:
My kind of woman , May you continue to enjoy your happily ever after with your husband in peace.

Watch how those bitter, frustrated, pained, toxic, low IQ, low-budget misandristic ugly girls on Nairaland who call themselves expired evening newspapers because they just can't get or keep a man will start attacking her. Continue your foolhardy foolishness until your ovaries can no longer produce eggs, u wee no wassup by den
[img]https://media1./images/70fc5c9b5478d9a646981ec171d500dc/tenor.gif?itemid=19445802[/img]

A little advice-

You're advertising your business and this place is filled with potential clients, both male and female. Mind the things you post

:Fairytale Tale of lies