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I have until 31st Dec to make a marriage decision. Should I marry the woman I love or my baby mama just cuz of the child?

Marry who you love

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Don't marry any. Don't even marry at all. Marriage is a scam.

Marriage is just you offering a woman your commitment forever. You shouldn't even offer your commitment to a woman temporarily, let alone forever. It's not beneficial to you in anyway.

Firstly, when you offer your commitment to a woman, she loses attraction for you, period. That's how women are wired. They want what they can't have and hate what they can easily get. Let her work hard for your commitment and never give it to her. That's the only way to get a woman hooked to you. And even if she decides to leave and date some simp who will offer his commitment for free, then you can easily move on to some other girl. And trust me, that girl will still come back to you or cheat on her simp with you.

Secondly, the idea of committing to just one woman is the most stupid idea ever. Men aren't monogamous. One pussy can never satisfy a man. We love variety. It's our nature. Now why would you suffer the stress or trying to stick to one woman just because you feel you have to be loyal to her and treat her well? As a man, your needs should come first. Never sacrifice your needs for some stupid ideology. And never sacrifice your needs for a woman. It will always end in tears.

Dat big heart is urs..there is a place for one of them.

If yhur baby mama is a good woman marry her for the sake of yhur children...yhull learn to love her..

You better marry your baby mama for the sake of that child.

Jodha:
If yhur baby mama is a good woman marry her for the sake of yhur children...yhull learn to love her..

When she was pregnant we stayed together but we were having issues and she left

virginprincess:
You better marry your baby mama for the sake of that child.

Really, regardless of my own happiness

LawBreaker:
Really, regardless of my own happiness

Don't worry you will learn to love her.

LawBreaker:
When she was pregnant we stayed together but we were having issues and she left

If yhu know she's a good person...make up with her ...for yhur child's sake...

The person yhu love might not love yhu back...

I'm sure your baby mama was once the woman you loved. Now it's someone else. You will have another love of your life when you marry the one you love now. You will keep going round this vicious and self centered circle because you are ignorant and clueless to what you actually want.

KidDarkness:
I'm sure your baby mama was once the woman you loved. Now it's someone else. You will have another love of your life when you marry the one you love now. You will keep going round this vicious and self centered circle because you are ignorant and clueless to what you actually want.

I never loved her, it was the toto I wanted.