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Suggestions- "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come" by debaj10(op): 4:57am On Dec 30, 2020
A message to "good girls", runs girls, slay queens and feminists.

how many of u know we're d POVERTY CAPITAL OF THE WORLD, that's now in a recession?
how many of u know wot dis means?
hmmm.
well, here goes-

1. Write down ur top 3 priorities in a man.
Pls, b sensible. And list wot u bring into a marriage-
Days of sex, food and kids r gone; babymamas to takeover. undecided

2. Humble urself-
Talk to God, go to ur spiritual guide for healing prayers.
Note- A "God fearing yahoo boy" is off d table.

3. Approach ur parents-
Ask them to find u a good man, based on ur priorities.
Insist that bride price be "suspended".
tribe nko?

4. MAKE urself approachable.
Even d men ur parents bring will run from a snob.
wots wit all d pretense, anyway? silly gehs.

5. Lastly, focus on improving urself-
Selfies on fb & insta r utterly worthless to a focused man.
I mean, how rounded is ur knowledge base sef?

This SUGGESTION only applies if u plan 2 marry.
Otherwise, ignore.
who know d aunty wey hala, forward am to her.

I don try na, abi?
Good luck &
God bless
Re: Suggestions- "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come" by MrHighSea: 7:16am On Dec 30, 2020
good.
reason has overtaken lazy medullas.
Re: Suggestions- "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come" by Tohsynetita1(m): 7:19am On Dec 30, 2020
debaj10:
A message to "good girls", runs girls, slay queens and feminists.

how many of u know we're d POVERTY CAPITAL OF THE WORLD, that's now in a recession?
how many of u know wot dis means?
hmmm.
well, here goes-

1. Write down ur top 3 priorities in a man.
Pls, b sensible. And list wot u bring into a marriage-
Days of sex, food and kids r gone; babymamas to takeover. undecided

2. Humble urself-
Talk to God, go to ur spiritual guide for healing prayers.
Note- A "God fearing yahoo boy" is off d table.

3. Approach ur parents-
Ask them to find u a good man, based on ur priorities.
Insist that bride price be "suspended".
tribe nko?

4. MAKE urself approachable.
Even d men ur parents bring will run from a snob.
wots wit all d pretense, anyway? silly gehs.

5. Lastly, focus on improving urself-
Selfies on fb & insta r utterly worthless to a focused man.
I mean, how rounded is ur knowledge base sef?

This SUGGESTION only applies if u plan 2 marry.
Otherwise, ignore.
who know d aunty wey hala, forward am to her.

I don try na, abi?
Good luck &
God bless
Then go and meet them
Re: Suggestions- "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come" by debaj10(op): 10:28am On Dec 30, 2020
Tohsynetita1:
Then go and meet them
meaning?
Re: Suggestions- "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come" by debaj10(op): 11:22am On Dec 30, 2020
oh, I 4got 1 important part-

there's a saying:
if d milk is free, why buy d cow?!

if sex is (almost) freely available, why should men stick to one woman?
if babymamas r agreeable, why should men bother with marriage?

so ladies, u c dt d onus is on u to PUSH, ADVOCATE, CLAMOUR for a more moral society.
- and for full child benefit laws & system, to dissuade male irresponsibility.

anyone disagree?
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