VTJN:
Riff raff ur moniker says it all.

thank.. Now don't mention me again, we are not in the league to exchange words

Depressed101:
thank.. Now don't mention me again, we are not in the league to exchange words

You & who is exchanging words? i only corrected ur lame assertion about men. Anyway, i know type.

JidennaJason:
Women are not left out as well...

I remember when I had some issues at the office, I went to meet our Area secretary who I thought was a "God-fearing" married woman to help me clear the financial mess up, she smiled and said; "It's a little challenge Jason, I can help you reconcile the account but I want us to make love"


I thought she was joking, but the lady was serious.

I had to explain to my boss the error I made and wait for my punishment instead of furcking a married woman.

End time wives. Tufiakwa!!!

madampresident:
If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

No come cry to us when yawa gas o.

Do your due diligence.

You're saying this because you want to make a point and prove others wrong.

Good luck in your Samaritan quest.

It is incredibly difficult, if not impossible to know those with genuine and justifiable needs.
I made attempt to interview a woman asking for help sometime ago, not just to ascertain the genuineness of her requests, but to also figure out if such requests were indeed justifiable... The very first messages I exchanged with her I specifically introduced myself as married and I was very professional in interacting with her. Made her understand my motive for asking her questions, and that it's after I was satisfied that I would pick up her bills in full. Unfortunately, bad attitude will always show no matter how much you hide it. When I informed her I would not be helping after all because I didn't believe that her situation was not unrepentantly self-made she came on Nairaland to deliberately make people believe that I might be interested in sexual favours with her. The hell! I was (still am) thousands of mile way from Nigeria.... I realized Nigerian ladies like the clout chasing... So, I kept quiet, interestingly she continued calling and spamming my inbox begging for the same help she had painted me black over.

Learn to live within your means, and if your means isn't enough for you then learn to expand your income accordingly.
The amount you need right now is small but it's already making you form the wrong habit. More than asking people for handouts, ask people to mentor you how to make money and increase your financial base.

In summary, helping people financially, especially Nigerians, is a slippery slope. Most people who ask for such help are no more than petty scammers, and they litter this forum too. Few genuine ones exist, but they are exceptions and not the rule. When you ask people for help, male or female, you make yourself vulnerable, and you should handle anything they throw at you without crying foul.

Jemiwizzy:
Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

Kapilta:
Hope it's not baby factory sha? Just saying. Jemiwizzy sha becareful.

Noted

Good one.

madampresident:
If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

Jemiwizzy:
Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

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It's not only human who take advantage of needy, even nations do it.

Country will help others in time of war, in other to have direct access to her natural resources.

Nations will give loan for the a country in distress, for them to have direct access to ur economy


Ask urself why family and friends couldnt help you for assistant you need.

Guys assume that every mature girls have
boyfriends or husbands and that it's their responsibilities to take care of their gfs.

Jemiwizzy:
thank you if I ask for money they will say it's a scam that is why I want to make sure I meet them in person if not am very scared of staying with guys like you stated up they know am desperately in need of a room so they will use that a a weapon against me.
I just regret exposing my condition since that day I felt worthless and I completely feel no one care about me.

No my friend, you shouldn't feel worthless. I don't see what wrong you have done that should make you feel this way. May I please ask how old are you?

TheCongo2:


No my friend, you shouldn't feel worthless. I don't see what wrong you have done that should make you feel this way. May I please ask how old are you?

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