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Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Ebelelivinston: 8:46am On Dec 19, 2021
Happy Sunday Nairalanders. I need advice from bankers in the house.

My father has been sick for quite sometimes now that he doesn't know where he is. We are three sons two daughters he has. Our mother passed away for a long time now.

My father has an account of which we his children know the password because he do send us to withdraw money atimes. Ever since he has been sick, my elder brother has been in possession of his phone and he has been making unnecessary transfers from our father's account. I got to know about the unnecessary transfer via the bank app I have on my phone. Is it possible for me to go to the bank and change the sim connected to the account to another sim without him knowing because I have all the bank details but am afraid the bank would notify him and if he gets to know, he will deal with me. I want to do it because he's spending the money uselessly and if my father gets well, he would be very mad at him.

Elders in the house what do I do plz?

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by nrexzy: 8:48am On Dec 19, 2021
Run d sim street throway am... Him. No go fit retrieve am

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Ebelelivinston: 8:49am On Dec 19, 2021
He's always with the phone

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by EzegeNdiigbo: 8:55am On Dec 19, 2021
Run street untop his head??

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by fuckingAyaya(m): 8:58am On Dec 19, 2021
Ur brother no even get conscience at all,he might be spending the money on

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Anieke77(m): 9:24am On Dec 19, 2021
Is your brother the next of kin

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by AndroidMagic(m): 9:32am On Dec 19, 2021
Can you talk to your father, even though he is ill?

Frankly, he is in the best position to resolve this matter, without creating the impression that you know what is happening in the dark.

Discuss with him so he'll call the attention of your elder brother.

Every problem has a solution.

I trust you'll solve this creatively. I believe in you, bro!

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Wonderboy01(m): 9:55am On Dec 19, 2021
Tell una lawyer to Share the will ASAP angry

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by ChiefSosa(m): 10:16am On Dec 19, 2021
-Go to the bank.
-Inform them of EVERYTHING, and tell them to keep you anonymous because your brother is Mike Tyson and he might disfigure you and the bank manager with upper cut if he finds out someone mentioned his name.
-The bank will give your dad a call about certain withdrawals going on in his account. They might ask to know about anytime your dad will be with the phone, so they'll give him a call when he's alone or when brother Mike Tyson is not there.
-The bank will know the best way to handle this, they'll also know the appropriate security measure to take, as long as you inform them of everything.
You should also inform and involve any older relative(s) you have about the development, so such person will intervene. I just hope Mazi Tyson will not give them TKO during the family meeting.
I wish your pops speedy recovery. May God not give us children that will take advantage of us when we are down o.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Abudu2000(m): 10:43am On Dec 19, 2021
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Memberclub(m): 10:56am On Dec 19, 2021
How old is your brother?
You can simply damage the sim without him knowing. Just put the sim back in the phone.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Zaheertyler(m): 11:03am On Dec 19, 2021
Nawa... if you call bank that money dun go

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by ElPayaso(m): 11:08am On Dec 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.


Dumb post from a dumb person. The part where she said he is spending the money anyhow is self-explanatory but since you decided to act like a dumbass. Read that post again. Because he is the first born and the male son does not mean he can spend the money as he so pleases.

If he was spending the money in the right manner, she won't be complaining.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by ChiefSosa(m): 11:25am On Dec 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.
Mazi Tyson, is that you?

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Imustnottalk: 11:30am On Dec 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.
too dumb
Modified: most you act according to your name

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Help2020: 11:45am On Dec 19, 2021
Ebelelivinston:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders. I need advice from bankers in the house.My father has been sick for quite sometimes now that he doesn't know where he is.We are three sons two daughters he has,our mother passed away for a long time now.My father has an account of which we his children know the his password because he do send us to withdraw money atimes.Ever since he has been sick,my elder brother has been in position of his phone and he has been making unnecessary transfer from our fathers account,I got to know about the unnecessary transfer via the bank app I have on my phone.Is it possible for me to go to the bank and change the sim connected to the account to another sim without him knowing because I have all the bank details but am afraid the bank would notify him and if he gets to know,he will deal with me.I want to do it because he's spending the money uselessly and I my father gets well,he would be very mad at him.Elders in the house what do I do plz

I don't know how to beg you for you to believe this..Let's chat off nairaland.. see,if your dad is below 72 years,we can help him.No matter the disease he is suffering from..Believe me you won't spend more than 40k..And if he does not get back to life,ur money will be refunded in full..

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Firstorderwizard(m): 11:46am On Dec 19, 2021
Wonderboy01:
Tell una lawyer to Share the will ASAP angry

When his papa still dey alive?
Sense is far from you

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Amb1045(m): 11:47am On Dec 19, 2021
Small case, lol use your phone browse how to block bank transfer of a stolen phone number blocked am, the only way he can assess the phone na to go bank. Use your phone number block am

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by oshonwambada: 11:51am On Dec 19, 2021
nrexzy:
Run d sim street throway am... Him. No go fit retrieve am
lolz
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by oshonwambada: 11:53am On Dec 19, 2021
ChiefSosa:
-Go to the bank.
-Inform them of EVERYTHING, and tell them to keep you anonymous because your brother is Mike Tyson and he might disfigure you and the bank manager with upper cut if he finds out someone mentioned his name.
-They'll give your dad a call about certain withdrawals going on in his account. They might ask to know about anytime your dad will be with the phone, so they'll give him a call when he's alone or when brother Mike Tyson is not there.
-The bank will know the best way to handle this, they'll also know the appropriate security measure to take, as long as you inform them of everything.
You should also inform and involve any older relative(s) you have about the development, so such person will intervene. I just hope Mazi Tyson will not give them TKO during the family meeting.
I wish your pops speedy recovery. May God not give us children that will take advantage of us when we are down o.
Amen ooooooo

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by oshonwambada: 11:54am On Dec 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.
keep quite pls.Ur mate above nailed everything and u are here spitting trash.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by oshonwambada: 11:56am On Dec 19, 2021
ElPayaso:



Dumb post from a dumb person. The part where she said he is spending the money anyhow is self-explanatory but since you decided to act like a dumbass. Read that post again. Because he is the first born and the male son does not mean he can spend the money as he so pleases.

If he was spending the money in the right manner, she won't be complaining.
I have answered him.I think the guy doesn't easily comprehend and that is why he posted that shit.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by cybriz82(m): 12:29pm On Dec 19, 2021
ChiefSosa:
-Go to the bank.
-Inform them of EVERYTHING, and tell them to keep you anonymous because your brother is Mike Tyson and he might disfigure you and the bank manager with upper cut if he finds out someone mentioned his name.
-The bank will give your dad a call about certain withdrawals going on in his account. They might ask to know about anytime your dad will be with the phone, so they'll give him a call when he's alone or when brother Mike Tyson is not there.
-The bank will know the best way to handle this, they'll also know the appropriate security measure to take, as long as you inform them of everything.
You should also inform and involve any older relative(s) you have about the development, so such person will intervene. I just hope Mazi Tyson will not give them TKO during the family meeting.
I wish your pops speedy recovery. May God not give us children that will take advantage of us when we are down o.


I doubt if the bank will ever listen to this .as far as they are concern them no dey mingle in family matter...

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Landmack: 12:33pm On Dec 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Now that he is sick what contributions have you made? Are you fully involved in the affair of his care? Do u even know the name of pills he is taking? If god forbid tomorrow he dies who do you think will be responsible for the arrangements and warefare? Oh becau now managed to grow little sense u now have the guts to question how he runs the family? Well I guess u have a very gentle elder bro because if that was an Edo family I believe there must be a certain wound or scare on your hand or head that will make you fear him.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by ChiefSosa(m): 12:39pm On Dec 19, 2021
cybriz82:



I doubt if the bank will ever listen to this .as far as they are concern them no dey mingle in family matter...
He won't just randomly go to the Customer Care section of the bank to complain; there's a way he'll talk and he'll be referred to the manager or a senior official at the bank that must have seen such situations the OP is going through. The Senior official(s) will know how best to handle the situation, and the kinds of documents needed in order to appropriately solve this dilemma.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by cybriz82(m): 12:46pm On Dec 19, 2021
ChiefSosa:

He won't just randomly go to the Customer Care section of the bank to complain; there's a way he'll talk and he'll be referred to the manager or a senior official at the bank that must have seen such situations the OP is going through. The Senior official(s) will know how best to handle the situation, and the kinds of documents needed in order to solve this dilemma.


If only he know one or 2 people working in d bank so he can convince him them to visit his father so they can see things for themselves...
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by ChiefSosa(m): 12:53pm On Dec 19, 2021
cybriz82:



If only he know one or 2 people working in d bank so he can convince him them to visit his father so they can see things for themselves...
Ahh! Nooooo. You want the bankers to visit the house when Mazi Tyson is still there? He will just send the bankers back disfigured and in crutches. They will not even make it to Round 2. If you're one of the bankers, will you go?

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by padi94(m): 1:01pm On Dec 19, 2021
Change the password through the bank App, then when they send OTP ,check it and delete it and viola, he can't run USSD on it again

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 19, 2021
Help2020:


I don't know how to beg you for you to believe this..Let's chat off nairaland.. see,if your dad is below 72 years,we can help him.No matter the disease he is suffering from..Believe me you won't spend more than 40k..And if he does not get back to life,ur money will be refunded in full..

Someone who's looking for help is looking for who to help. Run from this person op, he's a hungry scammer. No be only refund in full.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Richy4(m): 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2021
Is there no way u can get hold of the phone, put in wrong security pin several times so that it could be blocked/ suspended until your dad gets better to activate it from the bank...This idea might be silly though because your family might need money urgently for your dad's medication but it can't be accessed...


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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Saintmary(f): 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2021
Everybody say after me:

My children will not be useless!!!

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Saintmary(f): 1:37pm On Dec 19, 2021
Ebelelivinston:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders. I need advice from bankers in the house.My father has been sick for quite sometimes now that he doesn't know where he is.We are three sons two daughters he has,our mother passed away for a long time now.My father has an account of which we his children know the his password because he do send us to withdraw money atimes.Ever since he has been sick,my elder brother has been in position of his phone and he has been making unnecessary transfer from our fathers account,I got to know about the unnecessary transfer via the bank app I have on my phone.Is it possible for me to go to the bank and change the sim connected to the account to another sim without him knowing because I have all the bank details but am afraid the bank would notify him and if he gets to know,he will deal with me.I want to do it because he's spending the money uselessly and I my father gets well,he would be very mad at him.Elders in the house what do I do plz

Your elder brother seems stronger than you in many ways.

You want to put a stop to his spending without his knowledge.

I suggest you get the account flagged, then move your Dad to your place. Things might be a bit tough but it's better in the long run.

Let it be obvious to the rest of your family that your brother is only after money.

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