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This post is not in any way aimed at demeaning any gender. I have just been wondering lately with the rate at which women birth baseborn(Bastards) kids and impose such kids on the innocent men that shelter them(husband is too precious to be used here). I feel really sad about this, knowing that any man can fall a victim. My past experience with "an innocent, decent girl" makes me more scared and assume no woman can be trusted.
I have come across a few posts on social media where people are apportioning blames; some blame the cheating wife, while others blame her cheating man partner.
To me, it's normal for men to always feel a little thing for pretty ladies especially when they see frequently as colleagues, but what I don't seem to understand is why women can't simply respect their marital status and resist such rediculous advances. Is there anything I don't understand about women? Is it very difficult to say "I'm married" and stand by that?

To the experienced people on this forum, who is more blame worthy between a married woman who openes her legs for another man and a man who asks a married woman out?. Let's here your position on this
Lalasticlala

It is the woman that has the blame. Before a man can start approaching a married woman for such illicit affair is simply because the woman positioned herself for such. There is a way a woman will behave towards a man ,that will determine the man's next move towards her.

The man is guilty of adultery (which is dumb and unethical, but not a crime). The woman is guilty of adultery (which is dumb and unethical, but not a crime), as well as paternity fraud (which is unethical, fraudulent, and should absolutely be a crime; like all other forms of fraudulent behaviour).

all parties should share the blame

The woman is to be blamed for cheating and also manipulating her horseband to raising someone else's kid (That is fraud)

The other man who is the real father also shares blame for straffing a married woman and going to extent of allowing another man raise his kids (that's also bad)

The horseband who raises someone else's kid also have his own blame for not getting woke and do the needful even when the signs were there, I believe such men do claim they love and trust their women so much and don't have a need to check or doubt them

This is why we preach the Red Pill but they call us names, if that guy was a redpiller, it would save him a lot including his life

The farm tool of a woman should be blamed.

The man sees you, approached you, razzled you, proposed to you, paid your dowry and put a respect to your name.
The only thing you have to give to that man is loyalty and respect and you couldn't give it to him after he has given you everything.

Women cheats more than men but deceiving the man with a child that is not his, after getting married to him deserves a death sentence.

Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them

Ramanto:
This post is not in any way aimed at demeaning any gender. I have just been wondering lately with the rate at which women birth baseborn(Bastards) kids and impose such kids on the innocent men that shelter them(husband is too precious to be used here). I feel really sad about this, knowing that any man can fall a victim. My past experience with "an innocent, decent girl" makes me more scared and assume no woman can be trusted.
I have come across a few posts on social media where people are apportioning blames; some blame the cheating wife, while others blame her cheating man partner.
To me, it's normal for men to always feel a little thing for pretty ladies especially when they see frequently as colleagues, but what I don't seem to understand is why women can't simply respect their marital status and resist such rediculous advances. Is there anything I don't understand about women? Is it very difficult to say "I'm married" and stand by that?

To the experienced people on this forum, who is more blame worthy between a married woman who opens her legs for another man and a man who asks a married woman out?. Let's hear your position on this
Lalasticlala

As a man, is it difficult to say "I'm married" and stand by that?

In as much as I don't condone infidelity from anyone, don't just come here and paint your gender as saints.

As that woman has brought one bastard to you, you have thousands of other bastards from your side chicks.

Some of you have 10 side chicks who you're fending for, those with kids and those without.
Yet women are your problem.


A man whose wife is finding it difficult to conceive will go behind her and get another woman pregnant, provide everything for her, while the wife answers wife for nothing.

As I said, I don't support promiscuity from anyone, but don't go about heaping the blame on one person.

Women have endured so much in this society, that at this point, they're just grabbing the bull by the horn, I don't blame them entirely.