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Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Meedon(op): 8:22am On Jan 03, 2021
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There are some things we are not supposed to do, as humans, but we end up doing them just to please the society. When we do that, we are only increasing our suffering and others, especially kids/infants.




In my neighborhood, lives a man, who is married to a beautiful lady. They cohabit and gave birth to 7 children. The children are all going to day school and it is a well known fact that those school's pupils/students are required to pay huge amount of money as school fee.



The man is not doing well financially, but he decides to give birth to many children. The worst part is that our pastor (we attend the same church) is encouraging all his members to multiply and fill up the earth with a lot of children. The pastor will never assist anyone financially but he is quick to advise marriage goons, who are not doing well financially to give birth to many kids.



I know the economy is very hard, but discipline yourself, don't give birth anyhow. Will you like to see the kids you gave birth to, pass through many sufferings? I guess, the answer is no.



If you decide to give birth to many children, it is your cross to carry. However, please, take care of them. I hate to see kids suffer. In the same vein, you'll also suffer. So think twice before you take that action. They said children are blessings from God, it is true but use your sense my brothers and sister.
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Skmoda360(m): 8:27am On Jan 03, 2021
Can they ever listen to advise ?
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Meedon(op): 8:30am On Jan 03, 2021
Skmoda360:
Can they ever listen to advise ?
I pray they start living right.
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Sundrus: 8:31am On Jan 03, 2021
Loud am oh! Them no dey ever hear word, especially the poor ones, cuz na them fucck pass without protection. Dey born like guinea pigs
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Meedon(op): 8:40am On Jan 03, 2021
Sundrus:
Loud am oh! Them no dey ever hear word, especially the poor ones, cuz na them fucck pass without protection. Dey born like guinea pigs
Very true. No protection at all.
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Skmoda360(m): 8:47am On Jan 03, 2021
Meedon:
I pray they start living right.
Majority of them are poor and can't even feed/train one kid enough not to talk of two or three...
Re: Don't Add More Suffering To Yourself - See Why by Meedon(op): 9:44pm On Jan 04, 2021
Skmoda360:
Majority of them are poor and can't even feed/train one kid enough not to talk of two or three...
The funny part is that some are having more than five. It is getting out of hand.
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