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Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Dannyyoung26(op): 10:47pm On Jan 04, 2021
Hi all, please I need your advice on this matter. Insult is allowed thou...

I met this babe November last year for my street, so cute and calm. I approached her and she enjoyed my vibes which led to me having her contact information.

Afterwards, we started talking and I kept on pressuring her to date me. I noticed she didn't say no but I could see fear from her language.
I asked what's wrong and she claimed she has a boyfriend.

However, one particular day I was in front of my house and I saw this babe truly going with this guy, I was shocked. This guy is according to her early 40 and has two baby mamas and two kids even though he carried out his responsibilities on them.

Omor, I had to back off but I noticed she was sad.
After, we had a date which she told me alot and how she met this guy dating for 5years since 18years ,I wasn't shocked. Upon her beauty and nice shape, she still stick to the guy even though the guy cheated.

I just decided to let go, which I did.
Last week of December, we got talking again and she propose coming to my place at night thou. She came and she's so into me but I realized she likes me and she wants freedom. Something happened anytime she showed up thou.

Honestly, I like this gal and I kept telling her she has to leave this guy but she's fucking scared o.
Should I just leave her? Please what can I do?
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jan 04, 2021
ask her if they did blood covenant
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by NiRfreak(m):
You are a baby.. grow up..how old are u sef.. otherwise, you should be fvcking her by now..but u are dulling
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Authority1o1(m):
Okay...



...I like this gal and I kept telling her she has to leave this guy but she's gnikcuf scared o.
Should I just leave her? Please what can I do?



I think this ''red-pill'' and male sophistication of a thing should be suspended on here until most of the boys we have here grow up and understand the concept of those.

Why, are you such an addlepate? You couldn't even get yourself together to type correctly. Just 'cause of a woman?

That aside, you have a girl who clearly has another man. Apparently,she has a benefit that she enjoys in the hands of the said man which you might not equal, despite your being young-blooded. She can't afford a sabotage,that's the fear you see.

She also might be feeling obliged to the man for a past favor, say, sponsoring of education or looking after her immediate family, and the least she can do is to preserve herself for him.

A blackmail from the man is plausible too.

I wouldn't be one to tell you to get her laid and move on. God forbid! Although that placates for the time and little resources you might have spent on her.
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by yanabasee(m): 11:02pm On Jan 04, 2021
It's too early to be confused.....


Don't be a snitch...... She's in a relationship.... Let her be, if she doesn't want to give up on the other guy, don't pressurize her and don't be the reason for their breakup....And stop having unprotected sex with her....


Coz you can't possibly agree to love her more than the guy that she's dating.....
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Dannyyoung26(op): 11:02pm On Jan 04, 2021
NiRfreak:
You are a baby.. grow up..how are u sef.. otherwise, you should be fvcking her by now..but u are dulling
Severally bro
But I be like this babe...
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Dannyyoung26(op): 11:05pm On Jan 04, 2021
yanabasee:
It's too early to be confused.....


Don't be a snitch...... She's in a relationship.... Let her be, if she doesn't want to give up on the other guy, don't pressurize her and don't be the reason for their breakup....And stop having unprotected sex with her....


Coz you can't possibly agree to love her more than the guy that she's dating.....
According to her, the guy fit no marry her o and what if I did love her than the guy..?
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by NiRfreak(m): 11:06pm On Jan 04, 2021
Dannyyoung26:
Severally bro
But I be like this babe...
You don't have to tell me...from your story..I know uve been simping...be a man...forget about liking her..fvvck her first..u must first fvvck a gal to know if u like her...not before fvbcking her ozuor
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Dannyyoung26(op): 11:10pm On Jan 04, 2021
NiRfreak:
You don't have to tell me...from your story..I know uve been simping...be a man...forget about liking her..fvvck her first..u must first fvvck a gal to know if u like her...not before fvbcking her ozuor
Really shocked grin grin grin the two is going together lol
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Ever8090: 11:14pm On Jan 04, 2021
NiRfreak:
You don't have to tell me...from your story..I know uve been simping...be a man...forget about liking her..fvvck her first..u must first fvvck a gal to know if u like her...not before fvbcking her ozuor
.

Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by OGWILLS123: 11:16pm On Jan 04, 2021
OP eat ur own cake and let her be sad
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Davrezsun(m): 11:17pm On Jan 04, 2021
No Matter What Bro,let Her Be
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by Olakunleyakub(m): 11:25pm On Jan 04, 2021
We men are the one complaining of women being a cheat in relationship or marriage and we men are still the one forcing them to have illicit affairs affairs with us.

Why did you want to force a lady out of a relationship she is not willing to leave because of selfishness, entanglement and lust?

Does it mean that there are no better beautiful single ladies outside there again?

The whole problem is not all about women but we men need to borrow sense too.

Op I trust you remember the law of karma? I hope another man will not force your future wife out of marriage too cos what goes around will surely comes around.

You are already at danger zone and it not healthy for you! Back off now..don't be the reason why they will separate cos of ur own greediness..the lady saw him before she decided to stick to him...borrow sense or I give you one to have your everlasting peace of mind!
Re: Kindly Help A Confused Brother, Thanks... by chichima5764: 7:29am On Jan 05, 2021
No Matter What Bro,let Her Be
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