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Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:
Lol, I do not see any point I have made that makes u right, but it's fine. Shebi you are a feminist ba?? I want to ask pls what do feminists really want in this world??
I don't know what feminism is.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Liposure:
Sarita01:
My counter points
1. You buy your mom gifts to show appreciation does that mean you don't care foration to her by getting her gment you quoted a true girlfriend does almost everything a mom does for her child,there's only so much words can do if not backed with action,your mom not asking you to get her stuff doesn't mean she's not expectant.
2. "Knowing the mind of one doesn't necessarily mean you know the mind of all"women are the same everywhere it doesn't matter the racor the colour of their skin,I'll categorize women into two,the ones that expect and the ones who demands,the expectant ones won't ask you for nothing but would like if you use your initiative to them while the ones who dem to wait for you to think but would do the you.some weeks back
@ fifth point. In trying to prove a point. You are indirectly defending prostitution. Last i checked, your body is not for sale.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by padi94(m): 7:42pm On Sep 30, 2020
StacyO:
I don't know what feminism is.
Hmmmm... let me juggle your memory
Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.

While Radical feminism is a perspective within feminism that calls for a radical reordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:
Hmmmm... let me juggle your memory
Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.

While Radical feminism is a perspective within feminism that calls for a radical reordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts.
I know what it means but,I don't know what it is.

I'm not interested in all those confusions anyway.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by padi94(m): 8:25pm On Sep 30, 2020
StacyO:
I know what it means but,I don't know what it is.

I'm not interested in all those confusions anyway.
But you vibe like a radical feminist always attacking men... I have seen your threads and comments
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 8:52pm On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:
But you vibe like a radical feminist always attacking men... I have seen your threads and comments
Now that's you mixing the truth with bitterness.

I don't attack men,I suck wisdom smiley and know the real people. wink
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by padi94(m): 9:42pm On Sep 30, 2020
StacyO:
Now that's you mixing the truth with bitterness.

I don't attack men,I suck wisdom smiley and know the real people. wink
No bad energy from this side, so ain't no room for bitterness. You only see what you wahg to see.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by padi94(m): 9:42pm On Sep 30, 2020
StacyO:
Now that's you mixing the truth with bitterness.

I don't attack men,I suck wisdom smiley and know the real people. wink
No bad energy from this side, so ain't no room for bitterness. You only see what you want to see.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Rawhumper(m): 12:40am On Oct 01, 2020
Well i dont Need to Play any mind game with any chick, i believe girls love sex more than guys but they pretend and can hide i,that's why i
make my move,if the Lady is into me, i will have my way, if she isnt i put her aside and forge ahead no time to waste to convince or Play any goddamn game,because there isnt time cool!!


This is how i roll,mind playing is for simps who keep dreaming the lady will change her mind one day!!










quote author=StacyO post=94426363]


smiley
Nice comment at least.
Thanks for your input. True,prostitution is on the high increase which I strongly believe is fueled by a lot of things.
All the same,I got a lot of facts from your write up. Thank you smiley[/quote]
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Charx122: 1:43am On Oct 01, 2020
StacyO:
As written by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

In as much as this post may be gender based, I'll love to indicate that it is equally PUN free.
Over the years,technology and western civilization changed our lives and we all tagged it the 21st century (smiles). This 21st century didn't only bring us closer to change but,it equally is robbing the good morals left in some of us.
After this whole write up,the main BIG question comes up.
Majority of guys I've come across always complain that their women cheat or have a high body count. This leaves me wondering how many body counts the guys in question might have. You go about complaining that Nigerian girls are all for the sex,hoes,sluts(I mean, all sorts of demeaning names). But,come to think of it,who actually created this hoes you always scream about??
Being a virgin in Nigeria is not an easy task,as a matter of fact, "it is a full time job".
I hear you guys take pride in comparing foreign girls with your Niger chicks. Do you know that an average foreign babe(your babe) sleeps around as much as she wants,until she's ready to get married??
But,I don't see you guys debating about this undecided
Instead,all you do is paint your own pride black. Just to prove what exactly??

Then comes the sex vs money war;
You claim Nigeria girls have nothing aside sex to offer,what asides money do you have to offer?? (I mean money sad )
Sex as research says and I believe is something both partners enjoy in a relationship. Your girlfriend can never offer you her body for money. As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for.

The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something).
This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED.

To the ladies;
Stop giving out your body to people that don't appreciate it,if you want to fvck around,do it cause you want to. Stop giving someone sex due to what they say or offer you. Channel that few minutes energy into something resourceful and useful.
Forget that you've deflowered, it was your choice anyway but,stop making it look like you're selling your body out for money.

You as a lady and you're a virgin,please hold on to it cause,it's rare to find one this days. Forget all the confused rants on the internet,men are dying to find your kind.
Don't let one confused human being confuse you.

To the men;
Come off it. You complain that the girls have entitlement mentality, they can't bring new things to the table. What exactly have you brought to the table??
For you to even know that all Nigerian girls are hoes only makes you a male whóre (You're practically cheap).
You are the ones creating this hoes you cry of.
A lady being your partner can never offer you sex!!
You don't pay a lady money for sex unless she is a prostitute!!






NB: The word "some" was used in this writeup though it wasn't indicated (no generalizations).


I'm not supporting any gender undecided



NB: All that is needed is an ANSWER to the question,don't come here and start singing your normal lullaby.

Now the BIG question as regards the topic;
#whatexactlydonigerianmenwant¿

cc lalasticlala,Dominique
Hello Nigerian,Girl.or lady.hmmm are serious with this mini article?? Even an innocent looking Nigerian girl or lady acts around a man knowing he has money you will be very disappointed ..I don't blame them is just poverty .Sorry to say.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 6:17am On Oct 01, 2020
StacyO:
I wouldn't interfere.
Better
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Oct 01, 2020
Rawhumper:
Well i dont Need to Play any mind game with any chick, i believe girls love sex more than guys but they pretend and can hide i,that's why i
make my move,if the Lady is into me, i will have my way, if she isnt i put her aside and forge ahead no time to waste to convince or Play any goddamn game,because there isnt time cool!!


This is how i roll,mind playing is for simps who keep dreaming the lady will change her mind one day!!










quote author=StacyO post=94426363]


smiley
Nice comment at least.
Thanks for your input. True,prostitution is on the high increase which I strongly believe is fueled by a lot of things.
All the same,I got a lot of facts from your write up. Thank you smiley
Girls love sex more than guys??

Let's not even argue that one grin grin
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Rawhumper(m): 3:47pm On Oct 01, 2020
We can argue it till eternity but its the plain
truth...


Girls only choose in their mind the kind of guy
that appeals to them sexually than guys.

Thats why it looks difficult to bed a girl but
when a guy succeeds, the girl becomes a
tigress in bed. Forget the forming you ladies put up, this the fact.
Most guys have failed to realize that,some morgage their future, even their lives inorder to get laid.
Another factor is what society will say but that
is becoming extinct the rate girls advertise
their sexual excapedes online.

Apart from ill experiences like rape, violent
abuses etc i know can inhibit the sexual urges
of a lady, aside that, women easily get turned
especially if cornered by a neat goodlooking
guy at the right place without prying eyes in
sight. You see them getting wet,am talking
from experiences but with married and
unmarried.

I still have points to back up my arguement dear.








quote author=StacyO post=94503464]

Girls love sex more than guys??

Let's not even argue that one grin grin[/quote]
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Ffolksy: 8:31am On Oct 17, 2020
StacyO:
You didn't get the discussion I presume. Putting this up there,I just want to get one explanation.
I see wailing all over the thread already grin
It's just an honest and direct question.
You men are using your own confusion to confuse the ladies




*The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something)*

Drafted from the writeup.
How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady??
Stacy0, you and ireti seem to be saying the same thing. You ask how a lady will cope with conflicting wants by men. He's agreed to the conflicting wants. Fact is, no single spec fits all. A lady just has to be herself until she finds her match.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 17, 2020
Ffolksy:
Stacy0, you and ireti seem to be saying the same thing. You ask how a lady will cope with conflicting wants by men. He's agreed to the conflicting wants. Fact is, no single spec fits all. A lady just has to be herself until she finds her match.
I just wanted to know exactly what men wanted.
I asked one of the monikers if he can marry a lady with a borehole vagina like they always say grin

His response to me was that I'm a man hiding under a female moniker. Later on,he told me there was nothing like a borehole pvssy grin
He didn't only confuse himself but, equally proved me right.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by DMerciful(m): 2:52pm On Jan 18, 2021
Sex is more than food to men. No man would travel 100km for food but would travel 100pkm for sex. Women do not understand men at all, how can you compare ordinary food with sex?
StacyO:
Who is Bright O??

Now that's what I'm saying,sex is more like food to some men now.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 18, 2021
DMerciful:
Sex is more than food to men. No man would travel 100km for food but would travel 100pkm for sex. Women do not understand men at all, how can you compare ordinary food with sex?
Little wonder they can equally rape anything breathing cause of it .


Men love sex,true and very natural.


My friend control your urge joor.



You'll travel a far distance for sex only to meet doom.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by DMerciful(m): 8:57pm On Jan 18, 2021
I'm married but I'm just trying to broading your understanding of men so that when you get married, you don't downplay the importance of sex to your husband. Do not say you were not told
StacyO:
Little wonder they can equally rape anything breathing cause of it .


Men love sex,true and very natural.


My friend control your urge joor.



You'll travel a far distance for sex only to meet doom.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jan 18, 2021
DMerciful:
I'm married but I'm just trying to broading your understanding of men so that when you get married, you don't downplay the importance of sex to your husband. Do not say you were not told
That's in marriage.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by DMerciful(m): 2:22am On Jan 19, 2021
You go stubborn o.

Even in marriage, you go ask your husband whether na food?
StacyO:
That's in marriage.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 19, 2021
DMerciful:
You go stubborn o.
Even in marriage, you go ask your husband whether na food?
No nau.
I meant having sex in marriage is different from having premarital sex.
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by DMerciful(m): 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2021
Ok cheesy[ quote author=StacyO post=98218151]

No nau.

I meant having sex in marriage is different from having premarital sex.[/quote]
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