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Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 12:13pm On Oct 14
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Heroclitus(m): 12:24pm On Oct 14
Yours aren't miseducations , Maybe we could call them "Eyeopeners" or Chenzen's Hypothesis


U always sound like males are bad in their entirety

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by comshots(m): 12:44pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...
It takes the grace of God to find a faithful partner.You are making it seem like guyz are the only gender that cheat in a relationship.The reason is that guys don't hide their sexual history like the opposite sex.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by pharrell8(m): 1:02pm On Oct 14
Its same for both sex....

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 1:32pm On Oct 14
comshots:
It takes the grace of God to find a faithful partner.You are making it seem like guyz are the only gender that cheat in a relationship.The reason is that guys don't hide their sexual history like the opposite sex.
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 1:36pm On Oct 14
Heroclitus:
Yours aren't miseducations , Maybe we could call them "Eyeopeners" or Chenzen's Hypothesis


U always sound like males are bad in their entirety
not all males are bad but the majority in this context has cast their shadows over the few near flawless ones... ladies has suffered in the hands of these guys.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Ladylite: 2:10pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.

Your psychology is broken.

Men cheat alot BUT women cheat and get away with it easily.

No gender is more than the other.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 2:29pm On Oct 14
Ladylite:

Your psychology is broken.
Men cheat alot BUT women cheat and get away with it easily.
No gender is more than the other.
connects ur thoughts with ur tongue

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by pryme(m): 2:41pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
connects ur thoughts with ur tongue

I would ask you to do same.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Ladylite: 2:42pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
connects ur thoughts with ur tongue
LOL rhetoric

You should have done same.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 2:58pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.
Way more often than not, women are not the losers in relationships. Do you ignore the fact that men are the ones that fall for love, spend heavily on their girlfriends and wives? What happens in most cases? These males are rewarded with being cheated on, being used and dumped, and entitlement from their girlfriends.

chenzen:
not all males are bad but the majority in this context has cast their shadows over the few near flawless ones... ladies has suffered in the hands of these guys.
I could say the same for women given that most of them cheat over and over even after apologising when caught. What about the fact that men are nothing but utilities to women? What about men that train their girls in school or at least shoulder the financial responsibilities of their girlfriends and, sometimes, even her family? Doesn't this happen frequently? Yet in your bitterness, you act like the overwhelming majority of men are playing women like chess when it's the other way round.

Majority of men are not playing chess with their girlfriends instead they fall in love, desire that their girlfriends be their partners in their love dream, make sacrifices and spend heavily in the name of love, and then get reward with :
1) being cheated on,
2) being used and dumped cold after everything,
3) no gratitude, etc.

The frequent stories about heart broken men on nairaland show you how callous and cold women can be yet, in your bid to ass lick your fellow women, you act like men are the savages. These stories show how men have sacrificed so much for their girlfriends only to be treated treacherously. Think again.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 4:20pm On Oct 14
Martinez79:
Way more often than not, women are not the losers in relationships. Do you ignore the fact that men are the ones that fall for love, spend heavily on their girlfriends and wives? What happens in most cases? These males are rewarded with being cheated on, being used and dumped, and entitlement from their girlfriends.

I could say the same for women given that most of them cheat over and over even after apologising when caught. What about the fact that men are nothing but utilities to women? What about men that train their girls in school or at least shoulder the financial responsibilities of their girlfriends and, sometimes, even her family? Doesn't this happen frequently? Yet in your bitterness, you act like the overwhelming majority of men are playing women like chess when it's the other way round.

Majority of men are not playing chess with their girlfriends instead they fall in love, desire that their girlfriends be their partners in their love dream, make sacrifices and spend heavily in the name of love, and then get reward with :
1) being cheated on,
2) being used and dumped cold after everything,
3) no gratitude, etc.

The frequent stories about heart broken men on nairaland show you how callous and cold women can be yet, in your bid to ass lick your fellow women, you act like men are the savages. These stories show how men have sacrificed so much for their girlfriends only to be treated treacherously. Think again.
the core reason I advocate for these ladies is because they most likely do not initiate the idea of an affair rather it has mostly been the guys who sweet talk these ladies into kick starting a romantic episode.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by chenzen(m): 4:29pm On Oct 14
Heroclitus:
Yours aren't miseducations , Maybe we could call them "Eyeopeners" or Chenzen's Hypothesis


U always sound like males are bad in their entirety
Heraclitus the great philosopher

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 4:51pm On Oct 14
chenzen:
the core reason I advocate for these ladies is because they most likely do not initiate the idea of an affair rather it has mostly been the guys who sweet talk these ladies into kick starting a romantic episode.
Sweet talk? Why are you acting like ladies don't know what they are doing? It's common for guys to ask ladies out, so why call it sweet talk as though the guys were brainwashing and manipulating the ladies into a relationship? Do guys asks ladies out for the sake of love or to play "chess" with them? Face the facts, boys are the ones that are usually used, sucked dry, cheated on, and dumped cold despite the sacrifices and investment in the relationship. What was their undoing? Falling in love. If you can get all these for loving someone, what does that say about the person you love? Do you still think boys are the heartless manipulators?

It happens many times and we see that by the threads with stories and pleas by unfortunate boyfriends seeking the advice of nairalanders. Despite all these, you act like boys are the manipulators and girls are the victim? Are you serious? Mind you, I am not saying that there are no bad men in relationship.

It's not news anymore, except you want to pretend, that romantic relationship is called a scam for a reason. Do you know the gender of the usual victims of this scam? That's your assignment.
- Martinez39



Cc. CAPSLOCKED, astroG, healthserve, ubunja, lukui, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Michellekabod2: 6:03pm On Oct 14
Martinez79:
Sweet talk? Why are you acting like ladies don't know what they are doing? It's common for guys to ask ladies out, so why call it sweet talk as though the guys were brainwashing and manipulating the ladies into a relationship? Do guys asks ladies out for the sake of love or to play "chess" with them? Face the facts, boys are the ones that are usually used, sucked dry, cheated on, and dumped cold despite the sacrifices and investment in the relationship. What was their undoing? Falling in love. If you can get all these for loving someone, what does that say about the person you love? Do you still think boys are the heartless manipulators?

It happens many times and we see that by the threads with stories and pleas by unfortunate boyfriends seeking the advice of nairalanders. Despite all these, you act like boys are the manipulators and girls are the victim? Are you serious? Mind you, I am not saying that there are no bad men in relationship.

It's not news anymore, except you want to pretend, that romantic relationship is called a scam for a reason. Do you know the gender of the usual victims of this scam? That's your assignment.
- Martinez39



Cc. CAPSLOCKED, astroG, healthserve, ubunja, lukui, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet
Facts?
The way you call things fact is alarming,you abuse the word fact.
Men get used financially,they give the attention,time,love,money etc....
True...

How about Bleep boys? Players?guys that date girls for a decade only for them not to show up for wedding?
A guy can date for a decade,call of the relationship off and after months is ready to marry someone else..can we say same for ladies based on stereotype?guys pregnant girls and flee and let her dropout of school while he continues his education. Not just does she bear the shame and risk damaging her womb or losing her life via abortion but also how many men will marry a single mom?but a single dad can be married!
Women suffer alot!
Community d1cks get married and see how non virgins are slut shamed... Ladies use toothpaste to tighten their vaginas and do unspeakable things to please you guys...

Am not down playing the hurt guys feel but I am making you see things from two lens here..

Playing the victim always can't bring changes...I hope you realize that soon

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 6:24pm On Oct 14
Michellekabod2:

Facts?
The way you call things fact is alarming,you abuse the word fact.
Men get used financially,they give the attention,time,love,money etc....
True...

How about Bleep boys? Players?guys that date girls for a decade only for them not to show up for wedding?
A guy can date for a decade,call of the relationship off and after months is ready to marry someone else..can we say same for ladies based on stereotype?guys pregnant girls and flee and let her dropout of school while he continues his education. Not just does she bear the shame and risk damaging her womb or losing her life via abortion but also how many men will marry a single mom?but a single dad can be married!
Women suffer alot!
Community d1cks get married and see how non virgins are slut shamed... Ladies use toothpaste to tighten their vaginas and do unspeakable things to please you guys...

Am not down playing the hurt guys feel but I am making you see things from two lens here..

Playing the victim always can't bring changes...I hope you realize that soon
It would do you well to read my post properly before commenting. I am not playing victim. I made it clear that there are bad men. My problem is that chenzen is painting the overwhelming majority of men are users. He is painting relationships as a game that virtually all men play with women as the manipulated. You have not, in any way, with your ranting, disproved the point I passed across. My message is that women manipulate too and they do that way more than men. More men are on the receiving side than women. Read my post again.

I also put it to you, Michelle, that your misrepresentation and misunderstanding of my message is due to you seeing gender wars where it doesn't exist. My posts to chenzen is not an attempt to malign the female gender but to show chenzen that women too are guilty of cold hearted manipulation and usage of men as though men were utilities. I also believe that women, in this regard, are much more usually guilty than men.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Michellekabod2: 7:00pm On Oct 14
Martinez79:
It would do you well to read my post properly before commenting. I am not playing victim. I made it clear that there are bad men. My problem is that chenzen is painting the overwhelming majority of men are users. He is painting relationships as a game that virtually all men play with women as the manipulated. You have not, in any way, with your ranting, disproved what the point I passed across. My message is that women manipulate too and they do that way more than men. More men are on the receiving side than women. Read my post again.

I also put it to you, Michelle, that your misrepresentation and misunderstanding of my message is due to you seeing gender wars where it doesn't exist. My posts to chenzen is not an attempt to malign the female gender but to show chenzen that women too are guilty of cold hearted manipulation and usage of men as though men were utilities. I also believe that women, in this regard, are much more usually guilty than men.
But You,u.bunja,and AstroG are guilty of what you accise Chen.zen of doing

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:07pm On Oct 14
Michellekabod2:

But You,u.bunja,and AstroG are guilty of what you accise Chen.zen of doing
Which is? Please answer.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Chrisus(m): 7:18pm On Oct 14
What dude? We still have loyal male human species out here abeg

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 7:24pm On Oct 14
Some are indeed faithful though social media has made it kinda hard for people to stay true.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by AstroG1: 10:31pm On Oct 14
Martinez79:
Sweet talk? Why are you acting like ladies don't know what they are doing? It's common for guys to ask ladies out, so why call it sweet talk as though the guys were brainwashing and manipulating the ladies into a relationship? Do guys asks ladies out for the sake of love or to play "chess" with them? Face the facts, boys are the ones that are usually used, sucked dry, cheated on, and dumped cold despite the sacrifices and investment in the relationship. What was their undoing? Falling in love. If you can get all these for loving someone, what does that say about the person you love? Do you still think boys are the heartless manipulators?

It happens many times and we see that by the threads with stories and pleas by unfortunate boyfriends seeking the advice of nairalanders. Despite all these, you act like boys are the manipulators and girls are the victim? Are you serious? Mind you, I am not saying that there are no bad men in relationship.

It's not news anymore, except you want to pretend, that romantic relationship is called a scam for a reason. Do you know the gender of the usual victims of this scam? That's your assignment.
- Martinez39



Cc. CAPSLOCKED, astroG, healthserve, ubunja, lukui, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet




Bro,Leave Chenzen. The guy is a confused niggur


Let him be advocating for those that always play the victim cards even when they are the ones that caused it.

Chenzen,your miseducations are misyarns are blabberdash. They are the Weak and feeble guys.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by AstroG1: 10:37pm On Oct 14
Michellekabod2:

But You,u.bunja,and AstroG are guilty of what you accise Chen.zen of doing


And so??
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by bdchange(m): 10:44pm On Oct 14
AstroG1:





Bro,Leave Chenzen. The guy is a confused niggur


Let him be advocating for those that always play the victim cards even when they are the ones that caused it.

Chenzen,your miseducations are misyarns are blabberdash. They are the Weak and feeble guys.


I have said several times that ladies has a lot to loose when it comes to relationship palava. Do you use body count for men but will not hesitate to throw it to any lady that you feel deserves it..ba

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Ahmed432: 11:05pm On Oct 14
Hmm

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by tolumizzy(m): 11:05pm On Oct 14
Bad market
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by wonuks(m): 11:05pm On Oct 14
shocked
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:05pm On Oct 14
Lol, true in a way, the smart ones don't get caught, cheating isn't only through sex, it can be in different ways, just don't get caught.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Michellekabod2: 11:05pm On Oct 14
AstroG1:



And so??
I was talking to Martinez not you...

By the way,what I meant is why condemn People for the same things you do

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Ahmed432: 11:05pm On Oct 14
Enlightening

Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by lifestyle1(m): 11:06pm On Oct 14
When you love your sis with all your heart, you come up with this shit...

Take heart bro.

You can't control or satisfy a woman.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Imstrong2(m): 11:06pm On Oct 14
You are entitled to your opinion

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