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Re: . by Shaolin0147(m): 6:41am On Jan 25, 2021
Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up nwith subsequent rent. Pls help.
Leave that ur husband,come and marry me I will give and provide you anything you want
Re: . by Richy4(m): 6:49am On Jan 25, 2021
People have developed new E-begging skills nowadays... it keeps getting better and better as the day progresses... I am impressed lipsrsealed
Re: . by cricifixo: 7:33am On Jan 25, 2021
I didn't get ur dm, call this number 08127185327. Don't take any harsh decisionquote author=Missnewhrt post=98415690]It's i not easy for me to put my personal life struggling story online. This is not frudelent. I detest begging as well but I have to do this, should someone might be okay to help. [/quote]

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Re: . by cricifixo: 7:36am On Jan 25, 2021
I didn't get ur dm, call this number. Don't take any harsh decision
Missnewhrt:
It's not easy for me to put my personal life struggling story online. This is not frudelent. I detest begging as well but I have to do this, should someone might be okay to help.

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Re: . by cricifixo: 8:11am On Jan 25, 2021
It baffles me that we tag everything as scam, all i see is a sincere cry for help from a fellow member.
As for me, irrespective of how society has turned to be, i will always do my best to help where i can.
Lets always do good and if anyone decides to take advantage of your good nature pls leave d person to God & move on

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Re: . by thorpido(m): 8:13am On Jan 25, 2021
If this your story is true, there's something wrong with your family members.
Didn't you marry your husband properly?Did you just get pregnant and moved in with him?
Marriages have ups and downs and you have to weather it when the down time comes.
Look for a job.... something to do to bring an income while your hubby also should double his hustle.Pray to God too.He is a Helper.

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Re: . by thorpido(m): 8:14am On Jan 25, 2021
cricifixo:
It baffles me that we tag everything as scam, all i see is a sincere cry for help from a fellow member.
As for me, irrespective of how society has turned to be, i will always do my best to help where i can.
Lets always do good and if anyone decides to take advantage of your good nature pls leave d person to God & move on
Okay
Re: . by Acidosis(m): 8:30am On Jan 25, 2021
It's hard to say this but your family is being unfair and wicked. Your family wants you to move on from a marriage that has produced a 6 year old child just because Covid19 happened in 2020?

The same Covid19 that caused many untimely deaths is why they want you to move on?

This is a global issue, your family needs a rethink, please.

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Re: . by NoToPile: 8:40am On Jan 25, 2021
Na wa ooo, lots of families had/still have serious financial issues due to covid, will all the spouses leave their husbands?

Lots of people are managing the way they can manage, your family should understand noww
Re: . by romenna: 9:05am On Jan 25, 2021
Foodqueen:
Is this another format or what?
Na better FM Jare
@op, the opposite of sorry is do ur worse.
Pls go ahead and do ur worse to ur hubby.
Rubbish
If u wan beg for money, go straight and beg, if u dey cheat on ur hubby, continue.
It is ur biz not ours.
Re: . by BlackMamba69(m): 9:14am On Jan 25, 2021
I'm so happy op has a son.
All you hypergamous, disloyal women who treat men as disposable comdities - and una get male children. you go meet am for front grin

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Re: . by omojesu202(m): 9:14am On Jan 25, 2021
Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

I will advise you to leave your husband and marry the rich man. if the rich man becomes broke, leave him and go for another rich man. continue like that so that your parents will be happy with you.
Maybe yahoo boys don use you now, just maybe any man you Bleep they'll go broke.

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Re: . by Dreyton36: 9:18am On Jan 25, 2021
From a weed eye

The biggest mistake your husband ever made in his life is marrying you and having anything to do with your family
Don't take it to heart o it's just the bitter truth

No responsible woman will allow her family have a single say on her marriage life
And no responsible family will accepts gifts from a suitor especially when the lady in question is still married to someone

Your family are hungry people, if they truly love you why can't they help you with the money you need instead of advising you to quit your marriage just because he's now broke

And if your husband doesn't see those red flag signs and kick you out then he should be expecting news like

Oga Dem guy wey dey stay for the other street they fvck ur wife anyhow cuz Las Las u go cheat on am
In fact u donn dey fvxk around already

See her mouth like I'm young and beautiful angry Lamba ti poju , sho toyin aimaku sad

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: . by Missnewhrt: 9:24am On Jan 25, 2021
cricifixo:
I didn't get ur dm, call this number 08127185327. Don't take any harsh decision
I sent a message already. Called as well
Re: . by Regex: 9:42am On Jan 25, 2021
The fact op brought this here means she has already made a decision and is looking for validation here. Poor guy.

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Re: . by Poorboy: 9:52am On Jan 25, 2021
cricifixo:
It baffles me that we tag everything as scam, all i see is a sincere cry for help from a fellow member.
As for me, irrespective of how society has turned to be, i will always do my best to help where i can.
Lets always do good and if anyone decides to take advantage of your good nature pls leave d person to God & move on
if I get loan from you I will be grateful. Thanks
Re: . by HisMajesty1(m): 9:52am On Jan 25, 2021
Regex:
The fact op brought this here means she has already made a decision and is looking for validation here. Poor guy.
Exactly!!! That's if it's not a s**m.
Re: . by LadySarah: 9:54am On Jan 25, 2021
Missnewhrt:
It's not easy for me to put my personal life struggling story online. This is not frudelent. I detest begging as well but I have to do this, should someone might be okay to help.

You do think you are the first to go through this? Do you realize a lot of women are being breadwinners until their husbands stands? That you are entertaining useless calls from man friends shows you aren't being serious. Even sneaking out to pick your own husbands calls, as in for what now? He didnt marry you properly or what? The earlier you speak up for him the better so those advicers can back down.how you treat your husband will determine how they'll see him.
hear this! The downfall of a man is not the end of his life. Support him all you can, God will bless him/you soonest .

At least mention his qualifications or yours, someone might help out.
out rightly soliciting for money smells of scam

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Re: . by purples25(f): 10:40am On Jan 25, 2021
Don't leave your marriage. Your family wants to use you to eat money, and they will leave you to bear your emotional turmoil from many marriages alone.

It's for better for worse. Be faithful. The next man is the same as the first. Who's to say he won't become poor too? When he does, what would all your efforts be for?

There's no paradise anywhere, all the men are the same and no marriage has no problems. He's not beating you, as that can be the only reason to leave.
Re: . by Judybash93(m): 10:54am On Jan 25, 2021
My guys, na baby mama fit do am oOo.. Loyalty is not in the dictionary of today's women..

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Re: . by ArticleBeast: 11:18am On Jan 25, 2021
From loan matter, uncle dey rape me, to husband format... Naija no go wound me

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Re: . by AbujaCitiBlog: 11:19am On Jan 25, 2021
cutiedave:
This life aint nollywood... his suffering today does not guarantee a good life tomorrow...
So your parents aint wrong for wanting something better for you...

But, you are in a better position to judge his potentials..
If you think he has great potentials, then by all means, stick with him..

Also work on yourself ma'am, nothing is stopping you from being a provider to your child..

You dont always have to depend on men...this is the 21st century..
A man actually wrote this? I am ashamed of you! Aunty divorce him now since prostitution never tire you. Go ahead please. The same you idiot will go and be advising a man not to leave his wife. You are not normal at all.
Re: . by kingPhidel(m): 12:27pm On Jan 25, 2021
Omihanifa:
Can't you collect money from that man that is showering you with gifts and give to your husband to rent a house and kick-start his business undecided if your claim you truly love him angry
wo! In olamide's voice... Meanwhile i want u to knw that u never knew things will turn down for you man, it might be a phase of life like Job in the Bible which we all know how Job ended. So stick to ur marriage and hope for better days. Cos no one knows tomorrow cos Ur supposed toaster might also turn poor. God knows best. God bless ur Home
Re: . by Herbephe1(m): 12:55pm On Jan 25, 2021
"" pls help us pay"" is a red signal! Only fools will fall for this.

If I'm wrong which I think you might be right,why aren't you working,or are you a "full" house wife?? Don't depend on your husband for everything! You're an assistant to him

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Re: . by thuxzwda1: 1:00pm On Jan 25, 2021
grin
Missnewhrt:
I don't have feelings for the new guy and my husband don't know anything about him. If he do, he will be so disappointed and broken.
Re: . by Missnewhrt: 1:32pm On Jan 25, 2021
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Re: . by Amhappy(f): 1:35pm On Jan 25, 2021
I can relate. Please stick together
Re: . by webhead: 1:40pm On Jan 25, 2021
Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.
leaving your husband to marry someone else, in hopes of getting a better life is just selfish and unmotherly.

Sorry to say , but How do you want your 6 year old kid to see you when he grows up: as a self serving coward or as a worthy Mother who stood by him amidst painful situations.

isn't it even shameful that you allow your parents deem your husband worthy of you or not.

the best advise anyone can give you is to stick with your husband, don't allow tough times make you choose the wrong path.

Tough times don't last but tough people do.

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Re: . by BlackMamba69(m): 1:50pm On Jan 25, 2021
webhead:
leaving your husband to marry someone else, in hopes of getting a better life is just selfish and unmotherly.

Sorry to say , but How do you want your 6 year old kid to see you when he grows up: as a self serving coward or as a worthy Mother who stood by him amidst painful situations.

isn't it even shameful that you allow your parents deem your husband worthy of you or not.

the best advise anyone can give you is to stick with your husband, don't allow tough times make you choose the wrong path.

Tough times don't last but tough people do.

You don forget say life na turn by turn. His own woman will port when things are hard.
Then op will come and open another wailing thread "please hide my identity, my son's wife is an ingrate"

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Re: . by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jan 25, 2021
See format...

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Re: . by Missnewhrt: 2:48pm On Jan 25, 2021
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Re: . by TrueChristians: 4:14pm On Jan 25, 2021
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.

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