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most girls will say guys don't use their mind even when they don't ask money from him. but here is my experience with girls and I notice it's always the same outcome with all them. you can be with her 2 or 3 months and everything will be fine without money involved.

when you are with a girl and she has never ask you for a dim, and then you decide to use your mind to give her money surprisingly without her asking for it.

you are going to be disappointed with the outcome just the following week or from that moment.

she will start to bill you and ask you for money. there is that instict with them that make them believe you are a giver and their helper and which would make them to see you as a maga. it seems good deed don't pay anymore.

once youu have introduced that money habit. they turn against you. once the money finish the next thing is they will need more. since you have already show weakness for giving that money to them they will come back to you for unending demands to their lifestyle.

most time it pays to be stingy. I will see what I can do should be the terms for all guys.

. So true.
Giving to girl portrays weakness and make them have winner feeling in a relationship. And when a girl is in such a situation , when you stop giving, the relationship ends. And you loose. And it makes her assume she still won.
Don't give them money. If they can't stay let them go. Because giving the money is no guarantee.

You're very right because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

mainkendo:
. So true.
Giving to girl portrays weakness and make them have winner feeling in a relationship. And when a girl is in such a situation , when you stop giving, the relationship ends. And you loose. And it makes her assume she still won.
Don't give them money. If they can't stay let them go. Because giving the money is no guarantee.

the present situation in which we find ourselves.

@OP you are so on point....I zoom off whenever a lady disturbs me always....I no dey like disturbance.

I love ladies that are independent.....they are the BEST.

But outta 10 ladies....only 2 will be independent

mosdii:
You're very right because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Including your mum and sisters cos they are still Nigerian girls too..
Right?