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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Horladipupo0505: 4:02pm On Jan 21, 2018

bro just pray yo God I think he is d only way out coz addiction is a big probs bro.

GOD bless dohbro just pray yo God I think he is d only way out coz addiction is a big probs bro.

GOD bless dohbro just pray yo God I think he is d only way out coz addiction is a big probs bro.

GOD bless doh

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by AvailableCofOLa(m): 4:25pm On Jan 21, 2018

God help him.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by orisa37: 5:29pm On Jan 21, 2018

Buy him a Female Doll.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by chingynt(m): 6:22pm On Jan 21, 2018

Your friend's problem is not spiritual; just an addiction which requires 100% discipline and strong will to break. Firstly, he should stop watching porn or fantasizing about girls. Next, he should undergo a no-fap challenge (either hardmode or softmode) for 90-180 days (search the benefits of no-fap on youtube). This will help reverse the effects of masturbation on the body and deal with addiction problem as well. to break the addiction. Also, I will advise him to fill his free time with healthy activities such as weight lifting. One is tempted to watch porn when he is bored. Also, he should take cold showers and exercise or do press-ups (100 reps) to increase his testosterone levels. He can take zinc supplements as well. He will come good if he follows these steps.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by chingynt(m): 6:23pm On Jan 21, 2018

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 21, 2018

enilove:
Tell him to go MFM prayer city for one week deliverance.
It starts from Monday to Friday.
He will eat nothing from Monday morning till Wednesday morning.

If he is ready , he will definitely be delivered and will know that Jesus is Lord.

Remember :

Matthew 17:21 KJV
Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.

u think is demonic? No is not, he needs a gf or a wife

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by DeBlackArabian: 8:31pm On Jan 21, 2018

Pls get him a wife..

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jan 21, 2018

Just say the truth, it is you, l advice you to get married

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by expensive007(m): 10:14pm On Jan 21, 2018

pyyxxaro:
Use bread knife to cut the brochos

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Ugbavihi: 12:51am On Jan 22, 2018

kennygee:
He sees some ladies coming to touch him?
This one has become spiritual o. Na deliverance be the first thing.

or he should go for acute malaria test...

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by lightinchrist4: 2:52am On Jan 22, 2018

All he needs to do is to give his life to Christ, only Jesus Christ can save anyone from the bondage of sin.

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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Greyman11(m): 5:31am On Jan 22, 2018

ckmayoca:
a Christian don't do that so don't call u r friend a Christian. . just say your friend. when he stops then call him a Christian.

and what type of sin is allocated to christians ? ** chief JUDGE**

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by ckmayoca: 7:26am On Jan 22, 2018

Greyman11:
and what type of sin is allocated to christians ? ** chief JUDGE**

SAN sniper is not expensive u can end ur life if u r pained . he could have easily said his friend mastur bates and not his Christian friend. if u don't get it then go and kill ursef

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 22, 2018

my dear. your friend's case is psychological. if he wants to stop it, he must refrain from porn, stay busy but when he s not busy he should engage in fasting on little on no food, the fasting is recommended to suppress sexual urges, if he abstains from masturbation for 30 days the addiction will grow weak and would disappear bt even if it disappears tell him to steer clear from porn so that it would not come back. Tell him to do all these and thank me later. This is the summary of it all culled from a research conducted to help sex addicts

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Greyman11(m): 9:51am On Jan 22, 2018

ckmayoca:
SAN sniper is not expensive u can end ur life if u r pained . he could have easily said his friend mastur bates and not his Christian friend. if u don't get it then go and kill ursef

hahahahahahahahhahahahaha it doesn't still take away the fact that the friend is a christian and just as you and I have a sin or two that we know that take it away from us, we are in heaven already.
In other words masturbation is his own cross and he is right to tell u that his friend's faith is Christianity and not islam or communism or the likes.. U have no right to right him off as a christian unless u re telling me now that u are dead already and u were in heaven alongside God and the angels when u typed that comment, if not u need to ask God for forgiveness for doing what only him can do to a soul which is judging, u really don't think I am ready to reply any of ur quotes, do you?

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by hailall: 11:15am On Jan 22, 2018

Since u are a Christian, be watching Emmanuel Tv often while u pray along with the man of God senior Prophet T B Joshua as touch the screen of ur tv, the Lord will deliver ur friend in Jesus Christ name Amen

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 4:11pm On Jan 21, 2021

8 days now on the journey of no fap aided with fasting and prayer.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Jan 21, 2021

Omuneizzy6:
Nairalanders, please help.

Yesterday being saturday, I visited one of my friends... We had a little conversation about our christian lives, then he told me how he has been into masturbation since his early age 17. Though he was lured by a friend and now he is 27. He knew God at the age of 20. Now he is addicted to masturbation don't know how to come out of it,

''I have prayed, heard the word and fasted but when once the mind comes to do that I cant withstand, it will be as if a lady is standing beside me, in fact I will see some ladies at my back and front touching me''...

He also added whenever he sees any beautiful lady either outside or in the church he will be moved especially the ones that wear mini skirt.

Please where will this one start? Though he is not married still hustling for life. Solution please....

Obedience of Jesus Christ's commandments, that is the way, Jesus Christ suggested, you can beat sin. undecided

An alternative for your friend is to get behavioral health counseling/treatment which I would not recommend since it may involve being prescribed and taking drugs to help lower ones libido - those things work very well but tour friend might also end up acting like a zombie too. grin

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 11:48pm On Jan 22, 2021

2vibe4:
8 days now on the journey of no fap aided with fasting and prayer.

Day 9. No glory for quiters hommies. Be angry �. Take your life back.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 7:25am On Jan 25, 2021

2vibe4:
8 days now on the journey of no fap aided with fasting and prayer.

11 days now. We keep growing stronger

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2021

2vibe4:
Day 9. No glory for quiters hommies. Be angry �. Take your life back.

13 days. This year is going to be a great year.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 5:29pm On Jan 29, 2021

2vibe4:
13 days. This year is going to be a great year.

15 days. Gods grace. We keep pushing.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by 2vibe4: 8:27am On Feb 05, 2021

20 days guys. It's not been easy. I am still job-hunting and all. So most of my days this week I have been outside. But one thing I will tell you guys is to make February a chaste month. And seek God first. Catch you all soon.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Zhirinovsky: 10:38am On Feb 05, 2021

Incessant praying n fasting.

Pray against the spirit of masturbation esp at midnight.

Learnt about how masturbation ruin lives. Learn about all you are looking to the devil by masturbation.

Answers to your prayers are stolen by darkness through masturbation.

What God planted in your life for your success is being stolen through masturbation by the kingdom of darkness.

Above all, spend time each day studying the word of God, practice them also. Ask for God's mercies.

Omuneizzy6:
Nairalanders, please help.

Yesterday being saturday, I visited one of my friends... We had a little conversation about our christian lives, then he told me how he has been into masturbation since his early age 17. Though he was lured by a friend and now he is 27. He knew God at the age of 20. Now he is addicted to masturbation don't know how to come out of it,

''I have prayed, heard the word and fasted but when once the mind comes to do that I cant withstand, it will be as if a lady is standing beside me, in fact I will see some ladies at my back and front touching me''...

He also added whenever he sees any beautiful lady either outside or in the church he will be moved especially the ones that wear mini skirt.

Please where will this one start? Though he is not married still hustling for life. Solution please....

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Kobojunkie: 11:20am On Feb 05, 2021

Zhirinovsky:
Incessant praying n fasting.

Pray against the spirit of masturbation esp at midnight.

Learnt about how masturbation ruin lives. Learn about all you are looking to the devil by masturbation.

Answers to your prayers are stolen by darkness through masturbation.

What God planted in your life for your success is being stolen through masturbation by the kingdom of darkness.

Above all, spend time each day studying the word of God, practice them also. Ask for God's mercies.

Jesus Christ said the only way to overcome sin is to obey His commandments. However, you claim that it is through incessant fasting and praying, contrary to what Jesus Christ Himself said. undecided

Jesus Christ said that if a man lust in his mind, he has committed sin. But you, by blaming it on what you call a spirit of masturbation, suggest it is not indeed the man to blame but the spirit that takes part if not all of the blame for the man's sins, again contrary to Jesus Christ's own teachings. undecided

Here's a question for you. Are you certain you believe the teachings of Jesus Christ? Or are you simply interested in selling your own doctrines by piggybacking on the brand that is Jesus Christ? undecided

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Zhirinovsky: 11:41am On Feb 05, 2021

Where did the Lord Jesus say that the only way to overcome sin is to keep his commandments? Is sin not breaking God's commandments? You just said that the only way to overcome sin is not to sin.

Masturbation is a spirit and this kind goeth not except by praying and fasting.

I don't argue the word of God and won't argue with you. My message is for the OP.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ said the only way to overcome sin is to obey His commandments. However, you claim that it is through incessant fasting and praying, contrary to what Jesus Christ Himself said.

Jesus Christ said that if a man lust in his mind, he has committed sin. But you, by blaming it on what you call a spirit of masturbation, suggest it is not indeed the man to blame but the spirit that takes part if not all of the blame for the man's sins, again contrary to Jesus Christ's own teachings.

Here's a question for you. Are you certain you believe the teachings of Jesus Christ? Or are you simply interested in selling your own doctrines by piggybacking on the brand that is Jesus Christ?

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by orunto27: 12:16pm On Feb 05, 2021

He should always pray to God to deliver him from touching his Centre Fruit.

Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Kobojunkie: 12:32pm On Feb 05, 2021

Zhirinovsky:
Where did the Lord Jesus say that the only way to overcome sin is to keep his commandments? Is sin not breaking God's commandments? You just said that the only way to overcome sin is not to sin.

Masturbation is a spirit and this kind goeth not except by praying and fasting.

I don't argue the word of God and won't argue with you. My message is for the OP.

Jesus Christ Himself said it...i just repeated what He said as recorded in Gospel of John 8 vs 31-41. According to what He, Jesus Christ is recorded to have said, theose who accept His teachings and obey them shall learnt the Truth(Jesus Christ) and the Truth(Jesus Christ) shall set them free from Sin. undecided

Those who sin do so because they remain slaves to sin, but only by obeying the commandments/teachings of Jesus Christ, can one be freed from slavery to sin and become a Child of God(born again). undecided

Jesus Christ never said spirits were to blame for the sins we commit. And when He instructed of the kind that goeth out by fasting and praying, He never mentioned sin... Instead that was in reference to a demon that had possessed a child -no record of thee demon being responsible for causing said child to sin in anyway, so I don't see why you bring that verse into this. undecided

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