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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by tonyhoney: 10:44am On Jan 21, 2018 |
Felixalex:He should choose one out of the two. masturbator or fornicator. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by DonRossy: 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018 |
1.Let him keep presenting that as a prayer point to God. 2. Let him always be willing to come out of it. 3. Let him read his bible always 4. Let him keep meditating on the word of God after reading it. 5. Let him avoid pornography. 6. Let him stop looking at girls the second time anywhere. 7. Let him be unequally yoked with his friends who also indulge in same act. 8. Let him always make a research on a way and means of stopping masturbation. NB: I was once an ardent weed smoker and masturbator but now I am free. Whoever that is involved shouldn't relent until he overcomes because all these things are yoke. And whoever that indulges in any of those unclean things are not of God. Receive God's grace to overcome in Jesus mighty name. Amen. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by greatcrown: 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by samoski3(f): 10:59am On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by sulemanalex(m): 11:07am On Jan 21, 2018 |
Get married and make sure she is a nympho |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Analysiscorner: 11:09am On Jan 21, 2018 |
He needs deliverance. Find somebody who is full of God and talk to him. Alternatively, God can still deliver him by his own earnest prayers. The truth still remains that whenever and however his deliverance comes, it is in his hands to drive Satan away by thinking right thoughts. Let him think of how to please God so much that God's presence would fill his life. If he continues to yield himself to God, he will continueto have victory over sin. Let him know forsure that Christ can't struggle with Satan in him. It needs his surrendering bad thoughts to Christ and always moving with the determination to please God. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by no1madman(m): 11:49am On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Barbara007(f): 12:13pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
ckmayoca:Is mastubation the only sin on earth? Don't you know your comment now too is a sin because even the Bible says don't judge so for judging him you too you are not a christian, that is his own problem that he has to solve and you too must have your own problem you have to solve so if you have a good way out for him drop it and if not just pass |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by jacyhelen(f): 12:25pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Omuneizzy6: prayers can not help you...What will help u is a Strong mind with 100% self discipline |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Kingsley10000: 12:32pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
tonyhoney:marriage |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by AniwetaluEmma(m): 12:44pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Masturbation comes in mind when you are addicted to watching porn. First of all remove your mind from pornography. Avoid touching your dick especially when you are lonely. Find a girl friend. Preoccupied your mind a with something meaningful. Always remember that Masturbation is a sin. It is a sin that drive holy spirit away from you. I helped a friend come out of it recently. |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by grandstar(m): 1:05pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
To stop an addiction, 4 things are needed 1. Belief it can be stopped. 2. Determination to stop it 3. Find out the price you have to pay to stop it. 4. Determination to pay the price Most people do not go beyond 1 and 2. Most think that masturbation can't be stopped. That it is only a natural release of sexual pressure. Truth is it can be stopped to such an extent you will have little desire to engage. If you believe and are determined to stop masturbation, simply do this When the urge to masturbate, is so strong that it is almost impossible not to cave into it, simply don't. I had to amend what I wrote earlier. Since masturbation is mostly a solo act, endeavor you resist while you are alone. Do not seek out social company in order not to satisfy that urge. This is why When someone wants to have sex with someone else, the couple won't mind entering a room together in the view of people. However, when we engage in masturbation, it is something done solo and in secret. We do not want others to know especially the opposite sex. So, if you have to resist that urge, do so while alone. Don't seek out human company or take sleeping meds as when these crutches are unavailable we may give in. And that's what I did No matter what, don't give. If you don't give at that point, the battle is half won. Why is this so! Imagine, the highest bribe someone can offer you is $10m and you amaze yourself by rejecting , will it be easier rejecting lesser bribes like $5m? Yes it will. The highest bribe is synonymous to the high or climax we seek. Same with masturbation. Never give in to subsequent urges which will be less intensive. Before long, the urge will just get weaker and weaker until it's so weak that's it's almost non existent. The urge to even hold your penis will even be faint or non existent. You no longer seek that climax anymore. This was the strategy I used to end it years ago. Trust me, it works . 3 Likes |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Ugonnaug: 1:08pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by kingwonder: 1:09pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
He needs to fast and pray about it. And most importantly, He must genuinely be ready to get over the act. I believe God will help Him overcome it. Omuneizzy6: |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by kyaagbanairaland(m): 1:10pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Advice him to go and marry. He needs a wife. |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by TDkAL: 1:25pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Read d bible bro trust me it helps |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by holluphemydavid(m): 1:53pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
I still insist Dat d only way to overcome masturbation is for one to get married, so whenever u feel d urge u can do it with ur partner |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by barnsB: 2:05pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
manga5:my friend Paul through the Holy spirit was only trying to explain the pitiable state of a sinner like this our friend who is in the bondage of sin, read the statement of Paul in Romans 6:3. Read 1John 3:5. This our friend need Salvation from sin by grace through the power of the gospel not by his effort like he said he has been trying for the past 10 years, Christ came to save from sin Matthew 1:21. You can't be struggling in a well and claim to be saved from the well. Some of us who are by His grace out today where sometime ago deep into sin. God has the power to save from all kind of addictive sin, the problem is insincerity on our part as human, remember God sees the heart, that's why we can't deceive him like we deceive human, you tell your friend I want to come out of a particular sin but deep in your heart you are enjoying it, hmmm God knows. For that our friend don't assume God can not save you from mastubation He has saved and delivered many, just be sincere and stop assuming you are saved, that's the problem when you go to God and you are claiming that you are saves is just this mastubation when in the real biblical sense you are not, you can not get out of this dirty life, Go to God as a helpless sinner in need of salvation , I assure you, you will not leave His presence the same way in Jesus name |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by toye440: 2:13pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Omuneizzy6:First u must understand fasting and prayers wont help u stop masturbating, like i once counselled someone; i told him he needs d 3Ds to b able to come out of it. D 3Ds r "desire", "drive" and most importantly "determination". Just like masturbation it self starts with a DESIRE for sex, DRIVEN by lust and then d individual lost all control and bcoms DETERMINATED to explore. D only way out is to reenact dsame process from how it began; u desire to b free from dis disease, with religion as ur drive but ur biggest challenge is not disciplined enough to b determined. Determination is all u need, cos long before now i knew determination is stronger than witchcraft. NB: there is no anointing to overcome sex its mind thing, its y u r advised to stay away from bad company as bible says it corrupt good character. u can start learning instruments like d guitar to occupy ur mind with some totally different from sex, as a decoy. But bros Bible talk say if u no fit hold body marry. u can contact me on 08183602921 |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by madgoat(m): 2:14pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by bloodofthelamb(m): 2:15pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Omuneizzy6: Let him hand his thoughts to JESUS... Is as simple as that. |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Barblow(m): 2:26pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Such should repent and study the word of God often. Moreover, if such is of marriageable age he or she should get marry. |
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Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Uhomanbulus110(f): 2:52pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Ask for the mercy of God and keep yourself busy and also ask God to help you overcome that |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by Omuneizzy6(m): 2:57pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gimbayaro:why not drop it here i dont whatsapp for now... |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by bogolobango(m): 3:23pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
He should go and get married or have a girl friend |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by gimbayaro(m): 3:23pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Omuneizzy6: if Uar a Catholic,pray the rosary everyday,if u have access to TB Joshua Emmanuel Tv pray along with him,it might take u 2 years to stop,but U won't know how it happen...belive it worked for me |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by sunnysos: 3:34pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Something is not just right about ur story. He knew God at age 20 & now 27 but addicted to mastubation. How can Satan/demons still possess him for 7yrs...Satan cannot operate in a life that is filled/controlled by the Spirit of God. I advice that u genuinely surrender ur life to Jesus Christ & submit urself for deliverance. May God deliver u from every bondage of Satan in Jesus Name. |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by barnsB: 3:35pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
manga5: |
Re: How Can A Christian Friend Who Still Masturbates Come Out Of It? ( Please Help ) by redsun(m): 3:57pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
He is off age,and he seems like he doesn't have a regular woman,what do you expect him to do? Keeping it can lead to complications like prostrate cancer. |
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