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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 10:28pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

I'm rereading their exchange and becoming suspicious as well
I owe no one any explanation. @ishilove I have lots of respect for you cos I see your post here but calling me a scam is just not it. I been giving out cash to people on here before and delete my account afterwards. I owe nobody no explanation and I even posted a receipt for transaction. I don’t need my name mentioned or seen hence the blurring. I don’t need your validation or anyone else for that matter. I gave someone else money and if he is a scam then let it be, it’s my money after all. I have even given that same face I see up there money before. I do not count any money I give out as my loss, but as my gain rather. If you could just tag me a scam without any proof, that goes a long way to show that most people you call scams here are not really scam, but just your own conclusion. @sweetcunt I choose whom I give my money to. I only come online once in a while and give as my heart wishes.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Ishilove: 10:30pm On Feb 08, 2021
fartooblessed:
I owe no one any explanation. @ishilove I have lots of respect for you cos I see your post here but calling me a scam is just not it. I been giving out cash to people on here before and delete my account afterwards. I owe nobody no explanation and I even posted a receipt for transaction. I don’t need my name mentioned or seen hence the blurring. I don’t need your validation or anyone else for that matter. I gave someone else money and if he is a scam then let it be, it’s my money after all. I have even given that same face I see up there money before. I do not count any money I give out as my loss, but as my gain rather. If you could just tag me a scam without any proof, that goes a long way to show that most people you call scams here are not really scam, but just your own conclusion. @sweetcunt I choose whom I give my money to. I only come online once in a while and give as my heart wishes.
Slow your roll, muchacho. I never called you a scammer. I posted that I read your exchange with this dishonest OP and have become suspicious of you because of the brand newness of your moniker.

Yes, you owe no one an explanation, but you are still a suspicious character.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 10:34pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

I'm rereading their exchange and becoming suspicious as well
@ishilove you might want to reread your post. I have no word for you as I am done with this handle. Learn to reason with your head intact. I’m highly disappointed in you.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

Slow your roll, muchacho. I never called you a scammer. I posted that I read your exchange with this dishonest OP and have become suspicious of you because of the brand newness of your moniker.

Yes, you owe no one an explanation, but you are still a suspicious character.
your cup of tea. Enjoy

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Worldlychild: 10:41pm On Feb 08, 2021
fartooblessed:
I owe no one any explanation. @ishilove I have lots of respect for you cos I see your post here but calling me a scam is just not it. I been giving out cash to people on here before and delete my account afterwards. I owe nobody no explanation and I even posted a receipt for transaction. I don’t need my name mentioned or seen hence the blurring. I don’t need your validation or anyone else for that matter. I gave someone else money and if he is a scam then let it be, it’s my money after all. I have even given that same face I see up there money before. I do not count any money I give out as my loss, but as my gain rather. If you could just tag me a scam without any proof, that goes a long way to show that most people you call scams here are not really scam, but just your own conclusion. @sweetcunt I choose whom I give my money to. I only come online once in a while and give as my heart wishes.
you're a man a very real man please don't mind them she's in pain

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

Slow your roll, muchacho. I never called you a scammer. I posted that I read your exchange with this dishonest OP and have become suspicious of you because of the brand newness of your moniker.

Yes, you owe no one an explanation, but you are still a suspicious character.
I give money out every month to people, this is not the first time and won’t be the last. See screenshot from my phone for today’s transaction. This Nairaland account will be deleted. Will create another whenever another need arises

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by bigjackass: 10:43pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:
Worldlychild, aka Goodness34, aka orphan11, aka TwinkleTwin17, aka uncountable usernames, you have turned begging to a profession.

https://www.nairaland.com/6322505/atleast-feel-better-today-pic#97270321
goodness34 is a phone repairer who has materials but lacks generator. This one is a tailor who wants to open shop. Nawa for begging life

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by SideshowBob: 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2021
fartooblessed:
@ishilove you might want to reread your post. I have no word for you as I am done with this handle. Learn to reason with your head intact. I’m highly disappointed in you.
No need for insults. It's a normal thing to be suspicious especially with a character like that. Like you said it's your money and nobody has a right to question you for what you do with it. But as for that scammer he'll soon get what's coming.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by SideshowBob: 10:48pm On Feb 08, 2021
Worldlychild:
you're a man a very real man please don't mind them she's in pain
She's in pain for exposing a fraud like you? Nothing we won't see from nairaland beggars. Thank God you've been helped with far more than you expected but if I'm still here to catch you anywhere here begging twinkletwin. It's not going to be funny oooooh. Congrats and Good night.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Ishilove: 10:50pm On Feb 08, 2021
@ishilove you might want to reread your post. I have no word for you as I am done with this handle. Learn to reason with your head intact. I’m highly disappointed in you.
Insult away, Jack. It doesn't move me. You are suspicious, QED.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Ishilove: 10:55pm On Feb 08, 2021
Worldlychild:
you're a man a very real man please don't mind them she's in pain
I'm in a very good mood this evening so I will not give in to the temptation of calling down thunder on your useless destiny smiley
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Ishilove: 10:58pm On Feb 08, 2021
bigjackass:
goodness34 is a phone repairer who has materials but lacks generator. This one is a tailor who wants to open shop. Nawa for begging life
He will still be a plumber in need of evostik and plunger to pump shït from clogged pipes. Shameless criminal element.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by SpicyMimi(f): 11:02pm On Feb 08, 2021
Pierocash:
didn't you read where he said he is a tailor? Or you didn't read that?


Aside that,there are people ready to take apprentice for free.
Before he admitted that, you told him to go learn a skill...like seriously? This suggestion is usually very annoying unless you want to support him with learning one.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Pierocash(m): 11:04pm On Feb 08, 2021
SpicyMimi:

Before he admitted that, you told him to go learn a skill...like seriously? This suggestion is usually very annoying unless you want to support him with learning one.
so what do you suggest I should of told him,to keep begging because he is too poor to learn a skill?
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by bigjackass: 11:07pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

He will still be a plumber in need of evostik and plunger to pump shït from clogged pipes. Shameless criminal element.
lmao abeg o grin
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Ishilove: 11:14pm On Feb 08, 2021
bigjackass:
lmao abeg o grin
Werey dey disguise
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by IhateMyDad: 11:18pm On Feb 08, 2021
i don't understand y'all problem..
u probably won't understand buh how TF does it concern u if he's been begging before or not..
does begging make one a scammer?? do u think it's a proud thing one likes doing??
wtf y'all judge for,. just to be termed woke
yikes
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by TAGM(m): 11:19pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

Insult away, Jack. It doesn't move me. You are suspicious, QED.

Please take it easy, he is just a good samaritan and I pray God bless and replenish him. You've got no grievance with him

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by SpicyMimi(f): 11:19pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

Insult away, Jack. It doesn't move me. You are suspicious, QED.
Highly uncalled for Ishi...most of us respect you here a lot, but accusing this good fellow of being suspicious without valid reasons is just really sad!
You could have attacked the serial beggar alone, leaving the giver out of it.


Fartooblessed...I know why you are doing this, as majority of people don’t understand the power of giving (guilty too). Givers are very special in the sight of God Almighty, so they never lack.


And op, just see this as a warning from God...if you like squander this money and come back, then you will understand that God cannot be mocked.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by TAGM(m): 11:21pm On Feb 08, 2021
Ishilove:

I'm in a very good mood this evening so I will not give in to the temptation of calling down thunder on your useless destiny smiley

Kai, this is so funny. Please pardon him.
mr worldly please go and sin no more

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by SpicyMimi(f): 11:21pm On Feb 08, 2021
Pierocash:
so what do you suggest I should of told him,to keep begging because he is too poor to learn a skill?
The op isn’t even worth arguing about...well let’s hope his prayers have been answered finally this time.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by YourMajesty(m): 11:26pm On Feb 08, 2021
This is surprising and the same time ridiculous....

What do you take some of us for? APC zombies?

You just come out of nowhere, requested for the account details of a cooperate Almajiri online beggar, transferred imaginary money and deactivate your Nairaland account?

Well done, Dem use cement plasta MUMU for our forehead.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 12:05am On Feb 09, 2021
YourMajesty:
This is surprising and the same time ridiculous....

What do you take some of us for? APC zombies?

You just come out of nowhere, requested for the account details of a cooperate Almajiri online beggar, transferred imaginary money and deactivate your Nairaland account?

Well done, Dem use cement plasta MUMU for our forehead.

I have created various accounts in the past on here to help different people before @interestedhere, @interestedhere2 and some others which I deactivate in a short while. I create an account, chat with whomever and delete afterwards. You are of no consequence, so I won’t indulge you. Attached to this post is one of @ishilove comment. I’m glad she said I will never lack, and I sure would never lack. I have already set up my life with Christ and he has set me far far far high up above you and I won’t stoop. God has so so so so so so so so so blessed me and I will never stop giving cos I will NEVER lack.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by YourMajesty(m): 12:29am On Feb 09, 2021
interestedhere3:


I have created various accounts in the past on here to help different people before @interestedhere, @interestedhere2 and some others which I deactivate in a short while. I create an account, chat with whomever and delete afterwards. You are of no consequence, so I won’t indulge you. Attached to this post is one of @ishilove comment. I’m glad she said I will never lack, and I sure would never lack. I have already set up my life with Christ and he has set me far far far high up above you and I won’t stoop. God has so so so so so so so so so blessed me and I will never stop giving cos I will NEVER lack.
Maybe I did not make it clear enough in my first comment or maybe I was just being economical with the truth, but I will do so now,

Young man, you are a THIEF.

Just look at the spead you used to reply me.

From interestedhere2 to interestedhere3 to fartooblessed and surprisingly, you created the interestedhere3 same day and time you used in creating the Wordlychild handle you use to do your cooperate Almajiri online begging and fraudulent activities.

Your useless fraudulent antics will only work for some emotional clowns who are being "touched" by the trick you played all in the name of helping someone.

If you like use your phone to smash the concrete floor, deactivate this account and login to your other numerous NL account, you're and will still remain a shameless fraudster.

Good night THIEF....

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by jalodo2: 12:39am On Feb 09, 2021
Ishilove:
Worldlychild, aka Goodness34, aka orphan11, aka TwinkleTwin17, aka uncountable usernames, you have turned begging to a profession.

https://www.nairaland.com/6322505/atleast-feel-better-today-pic#97270321
he is also orookomama, d barber with incomplete tools.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 12:41am On Feb 09, 2021
YourMajesty:
Maybe I did not make it clear enough in my first comment or maybe I was just being economical with the truth, but I will do so now,

Young man, you are a THIEF.

Just look at the spead you used to reply me.

From interestedhere2 to interestedhere3 to fartooblessed?

Your useless fraudulent antics will only work for some emotional clowns who are being "touched" by the trick you played all in the name of helping someone.

If you like use your phone to smash the concrete floor, deactivate this account and login to your other numerous NL account, you're and will still remain a shameless fraudster.

Good night THIEF....

I see you’re just a little child, but I have a piece of advice for you before you go to sleep. “Only chickens accomplish something by sitting on their asses”. I only hope you would understand this, chicken. Goodnight
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by jalodo2: 12:42am On Feb 09, 2021
SideshowBob:

She's in pain for exposing a fraud like you? Nothing we won't see from nairaland beggars. Thank God you've been helped with far more than you expected but if I'm still here to catch you anywhere here begging twinkletwin. It's not going to be funny oooooh. Congrats and Good night.
he is also orookomama, the barber with incomplete tools.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by YourMajesty(m): 12:47am On Feb 09, 2021
interestedhere3:


I see you’re just a little child, but I have a piece of advice for you before you go to sleep. “Only chickens accomplish something by sitting on their asses”. I only hope you would understand this, chicken. Goodnight
Almajiri online beggar with certificate, you've been bursted...

Cc: faithugo64, SpicyMimi,, do NOT be an emotional clown and do NOT be deceived by this THIEF.

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Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by jalodo2: 12:51am On Feb 09, 2021
bigjackass:
goodness34 is a phone repairer who has materials but lacks generator. This one is a tailor who wants to open shop. Nawa for begging life
and orookomama is a barber who needs tools. The guy is very good with the stories, very emotional.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by armyofone(m): 12:54am On Feb 09, 2021
YourMajesty:
This is surprising and the same time ridiculous....

What do you take some of us for? APC zombies?

You just come out of nowhere, requested for the account details of a cooperate Almajiri online beggar, transferred imaginary money and deactivate your Nairaland account?

Well done, Dem use cement plasta MUMU for our forehead.




You guys can use words eh grin
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by YourMajesty(m): 12:59am On Feb 09, 2021
armyofone:



You guys can use words eh grin
The mumu man think say him wise.
Re: I Need A Family I Never Had One by Nobody: 1:00am On Feb 09, 2021
I've read your other topic, and it centred around how you want to end everything, tired of life, regret being born and more. In as much that I understand your plight and empathise with your existential pain, nihilism is not a solution. Your story reminds me of Nick Vujicic, a world-renowned speaker that due to his childbirth condition, has every reason to end everything, and I won't blame him if he does, but he didn't and became a global motivator for others that are even in a far fewer struggle than him. This man is worse than you. He was born with no legs, and abandoned, but triumphed regardless. So what's your excuse? The world wants success stories, not pity stories, be among the winners bro.

Now, he is a multi-millionaire, proud of what he as achieved and helped others as well. In life, when the going gets tough, the tough get going. Your life is a tough one, but you're tougher, stronger and resilient. You're made in the image of God, and if you speak out your wishes into the universe and put in the work, you'll achieve wonders. For a start, you're wealthy in the sense that you have health. You must have heard that "health is wealth", and it's true. If you don't believe, I'll ask you. Will, you rather be below 30 years old and have your whole life in front of you, or be a billionaire approaching ninety years old like Warren Buffet,? I guess most will want to be young and enjoy life.

Life is suffering. We all suffer in our unique ways. Even the rich. So instead of being weak and end everything, how about being strong and attempt to stamp your name in the sand of times? What are you naturally good at? I'll tell you a little story. There was a time I was depressed, lonely, misunderstood, and felt like an outcast. I was suffering internally, the typical " suffering and smiling". I was soaked up in motivational speeches on youtube, and I listen to "David Goggins" telling me that I'm a bitch, a weak ass male that has been so used to modern comfort that I run away from challenges.

He challenged his viewers to run, do sport and engage in high-intensity exercises to clear their mind, and that is something you have control over, unlike looking for a job for example. His argument was, "the world has failed you, will you fail yourself "? He didn't say it exactly like this, but that was what I got from watching his clips. I picked up running, it was hard. A km run felt like I ran from Lagos to Accra, my heartbeat pounding like a bell, I almost gave up. But I keep trying and trying, joined a sports group, downloaded a fitness app called "endomondo" to track my progress and keep telling myself that "I'll never fall myself, this is within my control, and if I stop, it justified while the world failed me, charity begins at home after all".

Little by little, my run became faster, in a shorter time, covering a longer distance, and I begin to enjoy it. Right now, there is no week I do not sport and try to beat my previous record. And the world may burn, but as far as I'm concern, I find peace doing sport and justifying my existence through that channel. I've run a half marathon, my fitness improves, my looks got better, and in my mind, I felt at peace. I proved to myself that it doesn't matter if the world rejected me, I won't reject myself. I'm telling you all these to pass a point, and it's not that you should start doing sport but to look for that thing that will justify the pain, and make your life great again.

Suicide, lost of hope, hedonism and nihilism are for the weak, and you're not that. You're strong. You're created in the image of God, and you should live up to that. The reason why you still haven't committed suicide is because suicide is hard. Deep inside your nervous system, you have an instinct for self-preservation, to be alive in an existential sense, and make sense of life. People that kill themselves don't come to social media to write, they just did it. The fact you've not done it means that your life is worth living, and you should make it even more purposeful.

So my dear friend, rebuke those negative thoughts and bless the world with your uniqueness, infuse it with your style, and make it better than you met it. It's hard, I know, but you can't run away from the hardship, but a case of choosing your poison. Would you rather live life complaining about hardship or live life working hard? One is progression, the other is regression, you should choose progress. Yes, you can, but you first need to change how you think. I believe in you, do you believe in yourself?

Watch the wildlife. It is filled with lots of life secrets. A lion may kill the mother of an infant impala, but the baby impala would keep living to survive and reproduce. Life dealt a bad coin to the animal from the start, but it triumph nevertheless. Only humans, so-called higher beings commit suicide, not animals that we consider weak. Isn't that teachable? Your ancestors have passed through harsher climate before you. They endured farming, wars, malnutrition, illiteracy, child labour and all sort of diseases, but even at the peak of it, they did what was within their ability to survive and thrive. If they could trade with the comfort of the 21st century which you enjoy for granted, I'm sure they would do that. So brother, look at your situation from a bird eye view.

You will be alright if you do the right thing. Complaining and feeling sorry for yourself won't change your circumstances, at best, you'll get pity, and you don't want to be that guy everyone feels sorry for. I have to write this much just to let you know that someone somewhere cares, I've been there. A place of hopelessness. But like Winston Churchill once said, " if you're going through hell, keep going". Last last,will be alright. All the best to you.

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