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ATTENTION

Yes, attention, women flourish on attention. call her daily, call her for no reason, call her just to hear her voice, text her, visit her, take her out.

Sit down and gist with her, play ludo or scrabble with her. Don't make her fight for your attention, otherwise, you'll make her feel unloved, she'll begin to doubt your love and you may end up losing her.

AFFECTION/INTIMACY

Study her and speak her love language. Let her see the affection even if she closed her eyes.
She craves your love,(except it's your money she's after).

Every woman want to be intimate with her spouse, except she doesn't love him or she has given up on the relationship or marriage.

Stop being unromantic, spend some quality intimate moments with your wife at home, just playing with her hair and cuddling.

YOUR LOVE VOCALIZED

If you are in a relationship or married, ask your wife or fiancee if she'll ever get tired of hearing "I love you" from you.

You know the answer already. They never get tired. Speak the love daily, let her hear it. Write it down as letters, let her read it.

PAMPERING

A woman wants to be spoilt, no matter her age, pet her. Be gentle with her, she's not a man.
Be patient with her (especially when mood begins to swing). cuddle and pet your wife like a little baby.

Spoil her with money, get her gifts, even as God blesses you.

HONESTY AND OPENNESS

Most men find it difficult to be honest and open with their feelings to their spouses, unknown to them, women crave this more

A woman wants to know her man, his fears, his weakness, his secrets and truth.

Trust her with them, she wants you to be naked to her and not ashamed, then she feels safe and free to reciprocate, trust him with her own secret and everything.

FINANCIAL SUPPORT

You were thinking I won't mention this? No way.
Even if she were to be a millionaire, your money means more to her than hers.

Every woman wants the financial support and backing of her man to feel loved, forget ndi, "feminist" oh.

COMMITMENT

Yes, women desire commitment.
If they love you, they want to marry you.
If they marry you, they want children. They always seek deeper connections.

They want you to keep to your words, commit to your promises. Be there for her, for the kids, do right for your family, be responsible.

LEADERSHIP

NO, she's not lost
No, she's not clueless or stupid.
She can as well lead herself. But when she decides to become your woman and accepts you being her head, she voluntarily allows you play that role, so step up spiritually and otherwise.

When you are constantly doing all these, her submission will come naturally.
She will happily follow your leadership, take corrections, easily forgive your short comings, respect you, honour you.

She will surrender everything about herself to you and do anything to make you happy.


Loving a woman isn't easy

Op u really tried.. Kudos

what good women deserve. sadly there are no good women anymore, they are dead or old.

debbydams:
Op u really tried.. Kudos

tanx hanty debby

jUeLiZ:
tanx hanty debby

Nice write up. I blv you already know that all dix tinx you mentioned is not easy in reality

Polynek:
Nice write up. I blv you already know that all dix tinx you mentioned is not easy in reality

thats why I ended by saying loving a woman is not easy.

jUeLiZ:
thats why I ended by saying loving a woman is not easy.

thanks 4 dat

All of these are precious to me.


What will a woman give me if I give her all these?

jUeLiZ:
thats why I ended by saying loving a woman is not easy.

Na so. Their brain dey touch.

All of these things. And do you even consider men at all?