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Google search top problems faithful men have in marriage, number one would be a sexless marriage.

Sexless marriages are very rampant today.

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Just go holiday



I HOPE I MADE SENSE

That Means I Will Need Concubines To Avoid Stories From Za Oza Room When I Marry

Mokason288:
You don min it

You doubt it?

why won't they, children wahala, house issues etc can kill sex drive

Baby Mama Issa Goal.

culf:
why won't they, children wahala, house issues etc can kill sex drive

Wrong!...men also do house chores, take care of the kids, and hold down stressful jobs.

The real reason is most women in their early 20's have sex for fun, curiosity or to explore their sexuality. When the get married, they have sex majorly to bear children, of cause they enjoy it too. The problem gets worse when they are done having kids. Then sex becomes a chore.

Compare that with women who after marriage and a decade or two have passed and they cant have kids, if they are still looking to conceive naturally, their sex life will be regular but a bit frustrating, but regular all the same. When kids come though, expect it to nose dive to almost none at all.

What is the remedy?

JaneYave:
What is the remedy?

Hopefully you are a female?

First the wrong remedy. A man gets a side chick or marries a second wife. A woman gets a side nigga or allows her man cheat in peace.

Second the right remedy. A marriage should be primarily about the happiness of a man and a woman. Every other thing is secondary, children, inlaws, society, money etc. If husbands and wives prioritize each other in a marriage issues like sexless marriage wont come up.

all these people should stop putting women on pedestal, men also get bored having sex with the same person

this one think marriage is all about having sex.

Sometimes Over familiarity can make a marriage boring.

Also, i believe in marriage, it will get to a time where sex does not mean anything, at that point only friendship matters

needanswer:
Wrong!...men also do house chores, take care of the kids, and hold down stressful jobs.

The real reason is most women in their early 20's have sex for fun, curiosity or to explore their sexuality. When the get married, they have sex majorly to bear children, of cause they enjoy it too. The problem gets worse when they are done having kids. Then sex becomes a chore.

Compare that with women who after marriage and a decade or two have passed and they cant have kids, if they are still looking to conceive naturally, their sex life will be regular but a bit frustrating, but regular all the same. When kids come though, expect it to nose dive to almost none at all.

sex is suppose to be enjoyed no matter the circumstances.

thebosstrevor1:
all these people should stop putting women on pedestal, men also get bored having sex with the same person

this one think marriage is all about having sex.

Sometimes Over familiarity can make a marriage boring.

Also, i believe in marriage, it will get to a time where sex does not mean anything, at that point only friendship matters

just get a friend and dont marry, friendship afterall is the goal. I have close friends I tell most things, I am sure most do.

Living with anyone long enough will make you acquainted with them, that's the familiarity. If you get bored with your friends becomes you have known them too long maybe you should check how you relate with them. It should be "old but gold" and not "old and worn".

Sex is very very important in marriage, that is why no matter the age of a man or a woman who are married, if they are ever caught cheating it could lead to the end of that marriage. Baba of 70 years can still leave his wife of 60 if he caught her in bed with another man, same as the woman. Just because they have been having sex for a long time doesn't make it meaningless to them anymore or inconsequential. The other term for sex is LOVE MAKING. Marriage is about love and sex is one of the ways to convey that love.

Its not true, but they are never bored to sleep with their neighbours, young boys and old time besties?

9japride:
Its not true, but they are never bored to sleep with their neighbours, young boys and old time besties?

You just said it's TRUE indirectly. Read what you wrote again.

needanswer:
You just said it's TRUE indirectly. Read what you wrote again.

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Though I was referring to a sexless marriage situation. Where they deny their husbands sex but give it to outsiders. Maybe I can say its true because of constantly changing sexmates.

needanswer:
Hopefully you are a female?

First the wrong remedy. A man gets a side chick or marries a second wife. A woman gets a side nigga or allows her man cheat in peace.

Second the right remedy. A marriage should be primarily about the happiness of a man and a woman. Every other thing is secondary, children, inlaws, society, money etc. If husbands and wives prioritize each other in a marriage issues like sexless marriage wont come up.

The second is more sensible

9japride:
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Though I was referring to a sexless marriage situation. Where they deny their husbands sex but give it to outsiders. Maybe I can say its true because of constantly changing sexmates.

Exactly.

JaneYave:
The second is more sensible

You are also sensible too

and I thought women have sex for love n only men do get bored..

needanswer:
You are also sensible too

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