Toks2008:


There is nothing like husband snatching...what we have is husband sharing and it has been like that since the days of Abraham.

I just pity all these female toddlers who are still in their 20s with the lame mentality that they cant share their husband....laslas you will be displaced to live a lonely life.

Uncle, loneliness itself is subjective.

Chiminemine:
Imagine the kind of topic making fp these days

"Meet Segun Adebayo That Proposed To Toyin Lawani On Val's Day"

What the Fu*k should I do with this stupid thing.. is this news. Okay if I meet him what should I do?
The mods of this forum are sticking a finger in my a*s. Person will Post better better educative sh*t, they will not do the needful. But na nonsense and irrelevant things go dey make fp..

Na waaa ooh..

Is not as if our comments will make the idi*t change his mind...

Haha guy no vex abeg

Romanoff:
When you hear men are scum, na this one type them dey talk about.

The woman that also decided to be dating another woman's husband and even accepting a ring from him is scum.

Nigerian actresses collecting husband's like Thanos collecting Infinity stones on his gauntlet.

Radarada.

Evil women like Toyin are the reason some stupid men behave stupidly for some silly women to now say men are scum

RICHSATAN:
for a girl like toyin that thousands of guys are spaming with dm to ignore all and choose this guy, it means this guys dick game is top notch. omo guys, never play wit your dick ggame o. this is proof. gossipmillnaija said it but we where talking rubbish

Are you serious

Wtf is her mother snatched someone husband then you feel obligated to snatch her own husband, ain’t you just daft, the guy and wife should just milk you dry before your eye clear.

Africafooty:
Meet The Married Man That Proposed To Toyin Lawani On Val's Day



Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLV6W3ErvAE/?igshid=17ppohzuxsfyk



Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLWEsaUrwim/?igshid=5jxt8xrz20a8

What did Toyin Lawani do to merit 'fear women'?

Was she the bride in this case?

Chii59:

Did the blogger tell lies? Is he or is he not married? Has he divorced the first before proposing to the second?

He needs not divorce if there was court marriage.

Vagina people and stupidity na 5&6
This is y modii is saying Nigeria girls are useless

Later they will say women like money.
This one abandoned his wife and kids for money and connections

Toks2008:

He needs not divorce if there was court marriage.

If there was a court marriage, then he could be sued for bigamy.

Chii59:

Uncle, loneliness itself is subjective.

I have seen enough ladies who left their marriages cos their men cheated on them and OH YES they live a lonesome life and many are even depressed after they realize that the men they are meeting were just using them to catch cruise.

Chii59:

If there was a court marriage, then he could be sued for bigamy.

Definitely and this is why many men shy away from court marriage.

Toks2008:

Definitely and this is why many men shy away from court marriage.

They shy away from a lot of things.
Marriage
Responsibilities
Commitment
Divorce

The more reason women should insist on getting wedded at court. He wants to leave? Then let him give her a divorce notice.

Hassanmaye:

Are you serious

hell yeah

Toks2008:


I have seen enough ladies who left their marriages cos their men cheated on them and OH YES they live a lonesome life and many are even depressed after they realize that the men they are meeting were just using them to catch cruise.

Marriages are flawed, because humans are flawed. Saying women are lonely is a blanket statement, from a very biased angle.
Loneliness itself is subjective. Married people get lonely, single people get lonely, divorced people get lonely. You are only as lonely as you feel.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I have said it times without number, Celebrities marriage are not something one should admire at all. The best marriage to envisage for, is a marriage built on the jurisdiction of God's word, the rest are liable to fall..

Marriage/Relationship is gradually becoming a risk investment. Any one venturing it should be careful and ready for any possible out come, be it positive or negative especially when you venture into it without God's direction.

I have said it times without number, Celebrities marriage are not something one should admire at all.
Honestly bro.

Chii59:

Marriages are flawed, because humans are flawed. Saying women are lonely is a blanket statement, from a very biased angle.
Loneliness itself is subjective. Married people get lonely, single people get lonely, divorced people get lonely. You are only as lonely as you feel.

I just gave my contextual meaning.

Meanwhile another gurl poisoned her and committed suicide because he impregnated another gurl....

What a life

Celebrities will paint everywhere on their body just to look good, only to still end up snatching people's husband as if they would even last in the marriage. Just spoiling already made families for their short-term selfish interest. Toyin my f**ces!

Smdh

Toks2008:


There are different types of marriages.

If they do just traditional, the man can marry extra wives without issues.

If they had a customary marriage the man can also marry more wives.

The issue is with Court marriage or registry as some call it...the man needs to divorce the legally married one before marrying another woman.

Hahaha. . Now I see why the wife's family is always insisting on Church marriage (which is essentially a court marriage in the church). How come nobody explained this to me when I was getting married. Hahahaha . It's not like I plan to marry more wives or something. But it's funny I'm just figuring out why the bride's are always so particular abt the church wedding. It entails some kind of legality to marry one wife. My point is that why should there be no legality to marry multiple wives since traditional Africans did. Or we just copied and pasted the Queens law? Afterall everyone that has any sense should know the real wedding should be the traditional wedding. It appears that white wedding is also some kind of security against higihagas like this.

Champneys:


You are a shallow prat!
Shut the fu..ck up, grow up or get lost!!

Idiot what wrong have i done to you?

Chii59:

They shy away from a lot of things.
Marriage
Responsibilities
Commitment
Divorce

The more reason women should insist on getting wedded at court. He wants to leave? Then let him give her a divorce notice.

Even court marriage won't keep your husband. Well it's some kind of security but the truth is that you can't keep anyone that doesn't want to be kept.

12inchess:


Hahaha. . Now I see why the wife's family is always insisting on Church marriage (which is essentially a court marriage in the church). How come nobody explained this to me when I was getting married. Hahahaha . It's not like I plan to marry more wives or something. But it's funny I'm just figuring out why the bride's are always so particular abt the church wedding. It entails some kind of legality to marry one wife. My point is that why should there be no legality to marry multiple wives since traditional Africans did. Or we just copied and pasted the Queens law? Afterall everyone that has any sense should know the real wedding should be the traditional wedding. It appears that white wedding is also some kind of security against higihagas like this.

You are on point.

It is our follow follow mentality that has brought us to this level we are.

Our type of marriage is 100% traditional. No where In the bible was church wedding mentioned but our slavish mentality made us tow that path.

See I am not a fan of polygamy, it is stressful, complicated and even dangerous but be it as it may, it remains a better option for men who just want to be with another lady.

What we see from outside is not what it is. Many men are suffering in their marriages and crying in silence but as soon as they decide to marry another lady, those who have no clue of their story will be quick to condemn.

Polygamy is not a sin, no where does the bible call it one. The idea of one man one women was brought by the white man who are now aldo forcing homosexuality down our throats.

The duty of a woman is to get married, raise a GODLY generation and have access to nice sex whenever she wants. Her duty is never about monitoring who her husband sees or how many ladies he chooses to be with...there are better things in lfe for a woman to pursue than the lame me and my husband mentality. As long as the man is easonable enough to play safe, a lady who does not stress her husband over his desire to be with another woman usually becomes the main woman in the life of the man...He chose her above others anyways so why can't she just maintain her place and avoid worrying her head over the other women.

12inchess:
Even court marriage won't keep your husband. Well it's some kind of security but the truth is that you can't keep anyone that doesn't want to be kept.

No she believes she can...she has the power.

ikeseeholdings1:
Toyin never cares about the man`s wife happiness...who cares about the Guy happiness?. No one knows what the Guy was going through in his marriage,had something happened to the Guy now and the truth about his marriage was revealed,everyone will be shouting God. i have come to realize one thing in this life,live your daily life like there will be no tomorrow,do what makes you happy and don't care about people,s opinion.
When i got married to My wife,i made a vow never to have something to do with a married woman,but after 13years of My marriage,i discovered that My wife has been sleeping with married men. What do you want me to do now?

wow strong allegations, can you please open a thread about this, how did you know ? Maybe Nairalanders can advise you better. Also, let me please know when you decide to do that

12inchess:
Even court marriage won't keep your husband. Well it's some kind of security but the truth is that you can't keep anyone that doesn't want to be kept.

Read to understand. I never stated that court marriage can keep anyone. It is a form of security. Some men shy away from court marriages because they know that they cant just up and leave anytime they want.

Toks2008:


Bro at my age I have seen things and I have experienced things. I shake my head and cry inside when I see posts from people who have no single clue of what real romance is all about.. people who are still dreamers, those who have positioned themselves for dangerous heartbreak with their very naïve mind-set and no matter what you say, experience always remain the best teacher.

With what I have seen in this life as regards romance., I just advise people not to have any high expectation at all...INFACT JUST PREPARE YOURSELF FOR UNPLEASANT SURPRISES.

Bro i feel your pain. See these ladies cheat more and they are more brutal in their ways. Just get a lady to raise a family with and dont have any expectation of getting a decent lady else.

Love your wife all the same cos most of them are in the same boat o. There is hardly any sexually decent ladies out there.

surely surely I will say you paint a quite gory picture of the world right now. You can't be fully right because you have conditioned everyone to behave the way you project and it isn't possible. I believe there are still some good ones out there. Your experience doesn't necessarily make it the norm

Shameless couple.

Lashist:

Idiot what wrong have i done to you?

Baba e idiot.
Iwo omo ale jatijati yi.
Eat a fu...cking di...ck!

Toks2008:


Guy there are stories hidden from the world. Nevertheless it is a man's prerogative to be with a lady or have more..it has nothing to do with disrespect.

See, there are no fresh guys out there perse for ladies who are in their mid or late 30s cos most guys in tha category are either divorced, widowers, baby daddies and so on and these ladies need to be with a man so what will they do?

Even a widower or divorcee will still prefer to go for younger ladies so just allow these ladies make their choice. There is nothing wrong in a lady wanting to be a second wife and dont bother about these hypocritical ladies wailing upandan cos if Dangote decides to make any of them baby mama this minute they will go to chirch to do thanks giving.

Just let people make their choices and live their lives.

looking at your comments here, it can be deduced that you have someone close to you who have snatched someone's husband or your ways aren't even right; serial cheater perhaps? And you are trying to look for justification for your ways. Well, what you opine do happen but as I said before, you aren't fully right. There is no justification