Chii59:

Stop this unfounded bias. We're all very much entitled to our opinions.

What is the bias?

Don't you believe you can?
I wish you can really have a grip of your emotions.

Woro si woro���

wany:

And any man that can also accept the fact that a woman can not be with one gbola alone will know peace and live long. sad truth

Ofcourse... Only a foolish man will vouch for any lady or start looking for a decent lady cos he will only be deceiving himself.

WoundedLamb:


And the man won't be? You guys just open your mouth and start saying things you know nothing about.

First, they can't get married in the west until the man gets divorced by his wife. They can only cohabitate. If the wife of the man wants to take any action (like divorce filing and alimony), it's against the man and not the mistress. The western world is not as misogynistic as Africa.

A married woman sleeps with a lover, you all shout "fear women". Now, a married man is sleeping with a lover and you all are shouting "fear women". When do you ever fear men? Aren't ashamed of being illogical?

I just googled and though it's rarely done, there are 7 states in the U.S that allow you to sue the other person. So we should absolve this woman because of what? She knew he was still married. She even said when the wife was pregnant she was the one that encouraged him to go visit the wife that had just delivered. My point is that both of them are to be blamed for getting involved while he was still married but it seems like you're bent on only blaming the husband and exonerating the wife because she is currently single. Goodluck!

PS: Where did you see me type "fear women" And thinking about it, if the other woman can get sued in this case Toyin Lawani, wouldn't the original wife and most married women in general that face such issues benefit from this?

I know sey dat her yansh only married man go fit marry her because single boy no go fit dare

Optapidgin:
May God allow anybody snatch my sister husband...

Fear women

Abeg read wetin u write ohh, no go swear for ur sister

Imagine, Toyin lawani of all people.

gaius01:


True! Also,
@bolded when you hear women are wicked and heartless na this type them they talk about.. She has no regards for those little kids. Such a derelict person.

No put mouth for this matter until you get married o.
A woman will poison your mind ,poison you and still won’t let you go to save your self because she wants you to die within.
If you wan shout,she go flash the kids for your face so she can secure more time to finish you off.
Run from a woman and save your soul,the kids will be sorted out later.
You won’t understand.
But the guy sha live frying pan jump enter bakery fire..

12inchess:


I've seen women give this argument before but it's pretty lame. It's a woman that gets pregnant. Maybe if she can stick to birth control during her escapades. But as a man, I would refuse to cater for another man's child brought from outside by spouse. Before women could hide it. Now there is DNA test.

The other thing is that society frowns against this kind of behavior from women. It's considered as "ashy" behavior and many men won't like to stick with a woman that in your own words "takes gbola outside." However, it's different for women. Some are even willing to be a second and even third, fourth , fifth wife to one wealthy monarch or oba.

I'm just being real here.

Wake up bro,this is the melinia,toyin just got a ring,a woman men term as olosho.again wake bro

oh

You are not feeling fine at all

Romanoff:
When you hear men are scum, na this one type them dey talk about.

The woman that also decided to be dating another woman's husband and even accepting a ring from him is scum.

Nigerian actresses collecting husband's like Thanos collecting Infinity stones on his gauntlet.

Radarada.

Chii59:

There are more single mothers than single fathers. There, that's your answer.

for every single mom there’s a single dad. Unless he’s dead.

cococandy:
for every single mom there’s a single dad. Unless he’s dead.

You misunderstood my point.
Every child has/had a parent, yet not all people accept responsibilities. There are more single mums who have full custody of their kids, and are raising them up, than there are where single fathers are concerned.

Chii59:

You misunderstood my point.
Every child has/had a parent, yet not all people accept responsibilities. There are more single mums who have full custody of their kids, and are raising them up, than there are where single fathers are concerned.

So people can't marry two wivies in peace again . Has this woman been a good woman would he had gone out
Whatever that is not yours you can't force .
I know many women that bewitched their husband into marry them only to regret it after the man has come back to his senses.
I repeat whatever that is never yours you can't keep it for long .

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I have said it times without number, Celebrities marriage are not something one should admire at all. The best marriage to envisage for, is a marriage built on the jurisdiction of God's word, the rest are liable to fall..

Marriage/Relationship is gradually becoming a risk investment. Any one venturing it should be careful and ready for any possible out come, be it positive or negative especially when you venture into it without God's direction.

Never in your life judge anyone until you've been in their position.
When I was a devout Christian I've judged drinkers, liars, fornicators, etc until I found my self in positions that I couldn't but fall.

If you're enjoying God's grace, never assume it to be your own effort.

Now until you understand the situation with the husband you can't judge him he probably has been trying to find for his fam but hit a logjam.
Until you u derstand they Toying Lawani has given her all in her precious relationship only for it to fail then you cabt expect her to stay single. She probably never knew the guy was married until she had fallen head over heels for him.

Love is the one thing that defies scientific understanding.
If truly they're in love then who can judge. Cos Love is from God.

That said, while I don't believe in extra-marital affair, I am in no position to judge.
After all David himself who was God's firend and beloved engaged in extra-marital affairs.
David's case is even worse fos he actually orchestrated the murder of 5he husband yet God calls him his friend..

There's a difference between human righteousness and God's righteousness. When you understand this, you'll hardly judge others.

12inchess:

I just googled and though it's rarely done, there are 7 states in the U.S that allow you to sue the other person. So we should absolve this woman because of what? She knew he was still married. She even said when the wife was pregnant she was the one that encouraged him to go visit the wife that had just delivered. My point is that both of them are to be blamed for getting involved while he was still married but it seems like you're bent on only blaming the husband and exonerating the wife because she is currently single. Goodluck!

PS: Where did you see me type "fear women" And thinking about it, if the other woman can get sued in this case Toyin Lawani, wouldn't the original wife and most married women in general that face such issues benefit from this?

Please, next time Google before engaging to save us the stress.

You rant is what you get when you jump into conversations without taking time to know the origin. Where did I say the woman shouldn't be held accountable? The first post clearly criticized both parties for thier actions but the guy I quoted decided to turn into another women bashing conversation. My response to was to highlight the man's portion of the blame which he conveniently closed his eyes to. And here you are asking if the woman should be left off the hook. Please, spare this roundabout argument y'all do onhere.

Myer:


Never in your life judge anyone until you've been in their position.
When I was a devout Christian I've judged drinkers, liars, fornicators, etc until I found my self in positions that I couldn't but fall.

If you're enjoying God's grace, never assume it to be your own effort.

Now until you understand the situation with the husband you can't judge him he probably has been trying to find for his fam but hit a logjam.
Until you u derstand they Toying Lawani has given her all in her precious relationship only for it to fail then you cabt expect her to stay single. She probably never knew the guy was married until she had fallen head over heels for him.

Love is the one thing that defies scientific understanding.
If truly they're in love then who can judge. Cos Love is from God.

That said, while I don't believe in extra-marital affair, I am in no position to judge.
After all David himself who was God's firend and beloved engaged in extra-marital affairs.
David's case is even worse fos he actually orchestrated the murder of 5he husband yet God calls him his friend..

There's a difference between human righteousness and God's righteousness. When you understand this, you'll hardly judge others.

Thank you for the light! Ah appreciate!

WoundedLamb:


And the man won't be? You guys just open your mouth and start saying things you know nothing about.

First, they can't get married in the west until the man gets divorced by his wife. They can only cohabitate. If the wife of the man wants to take any action (like divorce filing and alimony), it's against the man and not the mistress. The western world is not as misogynistic as Africa.

A married woman sleeps with a lover, you all shout "fear women". Now, a married man is sleeping with a lover and you all are shouting "fear women". When do you ever fear men? Aren't ashamed of being illogical?

woundedlamb pls take it easy, the way u are defending this toyin lawani person its like u are related to her....its not misogynistic to criticize a lady....in dis case toyin was complicit

ElijahIme1992:
woundedlamb pls take it easy, the way u are defending this toyin lawani person its like u are related to her....its not misogynistic to criticize a lady....in dis case toyin was complicit

So was the man and that'sexactly the point. I've never seen this lady on my screen (this just is by chance and not to reduce her achievements) but you can't tell me it's not misogynistic to call the woman and say nothing about the man. The first user that started my line of conversation called both of them out for their actions which, to me, is the ideal thing to do. But these guys want to make it another women bashing agenda and I'm trying to make them see how ridiculous that is given the situation. A married woman sleeps with lovers, fear women. A married man sleeps with lovers, still fear women. The question is, when do we fear men?

pretydiva:
How can he leave this beautiful lady to engage a public toilet . Indeed some men don't know what they want, they only reason with their dick

Premium tears loading for this guy. Smh

it for money ..men love women they dont have to take care of especially this new generation of boys called men

kidap:
Fear God then Fear Women then Fear Devil.


Toyin Lawani knew the guy is married, she only cared about her happiness not the other woman.


Chai

She knew the guy was married what of the man? Was he forced to date the woman? Is he not a man? Is he a baby that cant think for himself