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| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Chiminemine(m): 8:39am On Feb 18, 2021 |
I would advice you to calm down.. since the dude has apologized. You don't need to escalate the situation by going to beat him up at his own house, that will only turn the table on you. You don't know who the guy in question is. Going to beat him up after his apologies, might make him want to revenge, and you don't know what type of person he is. It's best you don't even let him know you are her brother for now. Just keep monitoring the situation for now |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Ghettologist(m): 8:39am On Feb 18, 2021 |
I wish I can speak to you directly, there's a lot your sister is not telling you. why she no want make them warn the guy ? she dey pity the guy ? i don't understand. so if she's not on her period she for Bleep the guy, then it's no longer rape. Fear Women, Even your own sister. All am saying is ask your sister, going to the guys house and all that bullshit talks, no be today e start. It can be rape and it can be a different story entirely. Women Lie a lot. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Regex: 8:40am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all Don't call your friends to go beat him up just as RisenPhoenix1 advised. You sister should be wise enough to know not to visit men at a very lonely place and perhaps their home. She has to take her lessons. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 8:40am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Nairaland in-house rapists, how do you motherfuckers enjoy forcing a girl to sex?
How do you bitch-ass idiots enjoy sex without the consent of the victim?
I need explanations, please.
Thank you. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Ghettologist(m): 8:41am On Feb 18, 2021 |
I wish I can speak to you directly, there's a lot your sister is not telling you. why she no want make them warn the guy ? she dey pity the guy ? i don't understand. so if she's not on her period she for Bleep the guy, then it's no longer rape. Fear Women, Even your own sister. All am saying is ask your sister, going to the guys house and all that bullshit talks, no be today e start. It can be rape and it can be a different story entirely. Women Lie a lot. Be 100% sure before you react. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Offpoint1: 8:41am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Thanks but you didn't give me an opinion as fighting him isn't worth it Kill him  |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Sterope(f): 8:41am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Your sister still need a lecture. Apology seems to be her weak point. Why should his apology matter? If he had succeeded, she would still encourage you to let him be. RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Yxxx: 8:41am On Feb 18, 2021 |
I have a problem with your sister, she seems weak in the mind. Your sister needs to improve on making poor decisions.
Report him to the police so the truth Will unfold .
Your sister never talk Wetin happen. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Pidginwhisper: 8:42am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all Go back to that House with cutlass shout out his name in public and make sure his neighbors are out the go ahead and give him stern warning that you will mince him up next time he try the nonsense again. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by faceland: 8:42am On Feb 18, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:
If you confront the guy or beat am you've shown him mercy. He probably would have done it to someone and gotten away with it. And he probably will still do it to someone else.
Nowadays I can't stress myself. Report to the police and sue his ass to court. Let him be dragging with the law. When hand touch am he go learn lesson.
Don't confront him oooo. Make you no go use vex nack am better blow. I won't want to read about you on front page tomorrow. Igbere news no go cover you o You don't know how common this thing is... Even your driver might be occasionally touching your kids... I would advise NOT doing anything out of emotions or wasting money telling police and court (except you are a prominent person and want to use police like thugs)... If you plan well, you would hit him so hard he would think the world is ending. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by lekonso: 8:42am On Feb 18, 2021 |
If you keep quiet and refuse to do something about it, the guy can still make another stronger attempt next time and succeed. It is better let the guy know that a third party is aware and that would put a stop to another attempt. What if the guy drugs her next time and have his way, so do something about it. Apologizing does not mean he could not make another attempt. Let me tell tell you something, nobody likes to fail when you attempt a desire, you still want to try again, may be you can succeed next time. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Jeromejnr(m): 8:43am On Feb 18, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Impressive. The guy has apologized and should be allowed. I am sure OP also had this mentality till it got to his sister’s turn.
A good number of Nigerian men are so eeeeewww! As a guy I agree with you. I am disgustingly appalled by the low quality thinking of the average Nigerian here. So because its not their sister, the OP should "die" the matter? Jeez. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Rubbiish(m): 8:43am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Thanks a lot, I just cannot imagine what would have happened if she was raped, I didn't tell my mum because a lot would have happened immediately. But I report so at least he can write an undertaken never to do it again Discuss with all your family members so they can be aware, u won't always be around all the time. All these things wey dem hide hide dey do no always dey end well. Discuss with your parents and siblings before u make any move. Do not listen to your sis telling u not to tell anyone, she never get sense! If anything should go wrong in the near future as a result of this, it will fall on your head. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by toprealman: 8:44am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Depends on how rugged you are. Take your crew and your sis, pay him an early morning visit,, shake his m small and make sure he understands the score!
If you are all barks and no bite, please let it slide. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by faceland: 8:45am On Feb 18, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Attempted rape, just like attempted murder is a crime. What did Nigerian women do to deserve such slow-thinking men? True but, proving that "ATTEMPTED" (especially in this case) is just a waste of time. That guy is innocent by the law until proven guilty. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by frozen70(f): 8:45am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all Forget about his apologies Make it a case and he will never try such on another girl He must have been doing so with other girls and haven't been caught before 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by carsuperman: 8:45am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all there is a reason God has used your sister to beg you. Anything can happen and then it leads to something worse. Sit this on down and ask your sister to watch how she moves to guys homes |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by pocohantas(f): 8:46am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Jeromejnr:
As a guy I agree with you.
I am disgustingly appalled by the low quality thinking of the average Nigerian here.
So because its not their sister, the OP should "die" the matter?
Jeez. Very wicked set. Tomorrow this same girl would tell one of them, who would be her useless bf that she was nearly raped and these same idiots will say it is the usual story. justosee:
the men were raised by women.
No one take rape serious in this country because some women have made it a tool to punish men. Men were raised by men and women. Typical deflecting. You men are free to do whatever you want with the false accusers, no one is stopping you guys, but enough of the nonsense excuse. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by OKVALLY: 8:46am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Your sister is already having pity on him, he will entice her with bigger money.
She is going to fall. You need to ask her question very well. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Nobody: 8:47am On Feb 18, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Attempted rape, just like attempted murder is a crime. What did Nigerian women do to deserve such slow-thinking men? the men were raised by women. No one take rape serious in this country because some women have made it a tool to punish men. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by lordlugards: 8:48am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all He likes your sister there's no two way about it. Most Igbo shy young business guys behaves like that, their will be no need to call police or drag him to court, just invite for talk, let him know the implementations of his action in a matured way, he may end up your in-law. To me I don't suspect your sister, I only see two that admire themselves, |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by AerialMapper: 8:49am On Feb 18, 2021 |
One word ...Honeytrap
HE tried it once, he will try it again but this time make it a controlled environment.
He meets her at a pre-arranged location and best case scenario, he leaves without a knee cap..worst case, no penis!
Simple 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by olaolaking: 8:51am On Feb 18, 2021 |
faceland:
You clam down (just put it at the back of your mind that he would pay, and one day an opportunity would present itself). He should not even see you as a threat...
Since no crime happened, you can't do anything legally. Just ask her to be more careful. If they catch you for attempted rape, you go know say law get plus 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Ingleesh: 8:51am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Once a rapist, always a rapist..
He probably didn't continue because he found out she's on her period,
This guy didn't rape your sister doesn't mean he won't rape another girl
You have to either report him to the police so he won't have his way with someone else..
We all talk about fighting crimes and rapists here on NL
It has to start with us!
Report him, please..... 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Dpharisee: 8:51am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Thanks a lot, I just cannot imagine what would have happened if she was raped, I didn't tell my mum because a lot would have happened immediately. But I report so at least he can write an undertaken never to do it again Yes, report to the police, don't turn the matter against yourself by confronting him and in the process you can inflict harm in anger. If you want them to give him serious beating you can pay some police guys to do that in their station |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by faceland: 8:52am On Feb 18, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Very wicked set. Tomorrow this same girl would tell one of them, who would be her useless bf that she was nearly raped and these same idiots will say it is the usual story.
And who are you to tell what is a waste of time? Would you donate your anus or the vagina of any of your loved ones or proof? Since we have to wait till a successful rape to take up cases. Please whatever happened to you am not the one that did it to you... If this was me, I would forget about court ON THIS MATTER... and get closure on a different date. But you can go to police (may be a week or two after the ALLEGED incident) and out bribe each other and finally get the gist that he is innocent unit proven guilty. I don't know why everyone on Nairaland are always on fighting mode. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Help2020: 8:52am On Feb 18, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:
If you confront the guy or beat am you've shown him mercy. He probably would have done it to someone and gotten away with it. And he probably will still do it to someone else.
Nowadays I can't stress myself. Report to the police and sue his ass to court. Let him be dragging with the law. When hand touch am he go learn lesson.
Don't confront him oooo. Make you no go use vex nack am better blow. I won't want to read about you on front page tomorrow. Igbere news no go cover you o That's if they have an evidence to back it up. |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Lewisdinho(m): 8:53am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Don't call your friends to beat him up should in case he dies, you will be the one to carry the whole cross on your head. You don't know if he is sick or something and you want to beat him. Report him to the police. RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by omaclarry(m): 8:53am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all i have always been of the opinion that women are their own problem... som1 tried to rape you, yet you re begging on his behalf. this can only make me think it was a bizness gone wrong, maybe she was on her period but the guy didnt bliv so he tried to force her to be sure. cos i see no reason she is vouching for her asssailant. if he had succeeded, the act would hav continued till she develops stolkholms, and when she finally get tired and report we will b dia to ask "y u no talk since?" so ladies always report rape or attempted rape, u re not the 1 to be ashamed but the coward dat decides to steal sex from you by force 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by pocohantas(f): 8:55am On Feb 18, 2021 |
faceland:
Please whatever happened to you am not the one that did it to you... If this was me, I would forget about court ON THIS MATTER... and get closure on a different date.
But you can go to police (may be a week or two after the ALLEGED incident) and out bribe each other and finally get the gist that he is innocent unit proven guilty.
I don't know why everyone on Nairaland are always on fighting mode. You see how quickly the thought of having your butt drilled against your wish got you triggered? Yet you had the effrontery to say attempted rape is not a crime and taking it up is a waste of time. Still consider donating a hole for proof. Someone has to bell the cat hah? 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by Nobody: 8:56am On Feb 18, 2021 |
pocohantas:
Very wicked set. Tomorrow this same girl would tell one of them, who would be her useless bf that she was nearly raped and these same idiots will say it is the usual story.
And who are you to tell what is a waste of time? Would you donate your anus or the vagina of any of your loved ones for proof? Since we have to wait till a successful rape to take up cases.
Men were raised by men and women. Typical deflecting. You men are free to do whatever you want with the false accusers, no one is stopping you guys, but enough of the nonsense excuse. It is hard knowing the real victims. Women lie a lot about rape. Part of me don't feel any pity for allege rape victims because of the experience of someone close to me. |
