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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by JOACHINpedro: 7:26am On Feb 23, 2021
BigYash:
Yes,of course . Everybody can't be wise to understand that marriage where there is zero commitment is not marriage. Some guys are pussy niggas,when they are with the opposite sex,they can't think properly. Go to front page and see what a lady did to one husband to be Borrowed money for her and now she blocked his ass. That bitch was quick to show her color, other bitches wait till after marriage.
That story is as fake as female celebrity's boobs.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BigYash: 7:32am On Feb 23, 2021
JOACHINpedro:

That story is as fake as female celebrity's boobs.
Even in real life worst situations happens. Probably you were out of the country when DNA wahala came up. I think to you that is fake too. If that test was accessible to every family, you will see how wives betrayed their so called husbands.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:56am On Feb 23, 2021
cococandy:
Another day another lamentation thread by an NL dood


U this stubborn daughter of human being. grin


Happy birthday.... ✌
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by JOACHINpedro: 8:02am On Feb 23, 2021
BigYash:
Even in real life worst situations happens. Probably you were out of the country when DNA wahala came up. I think to you that is fake too. If that test was accessible to every family, you will see how wives betrayed their so called husbands.

No doubt but it's not a one-gender issue.
Promiscuity occurs in both genders. I personally as a Christian know I can't be loyal to one girl if I should take relationship serious (maybe because I'm still young), hence I try to avoid any sexual/Finance-inducing relationships because me go cheat like tomorrow no dy.
But does it mean there are no responsible people out there?, Of course there are! And most are enjoying their good homes outside Social media hence you don't get to hear about them. You only hear the ones media portrays to sell their market grin
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 8:04am On Feb 23, 2021
Elsueno:
My brother, wife material no dey woh, infact I promised my sister 200k if she could get me a virtuous lady, infact I wasn't looking for even the most beautiful, just average, I told her I will give her extra 150k if the lady happens to be a virgin....

It's being almost 7 months now...... nothing, grin grin

Hahan,I agree they are hard to find,but saying there are no longer wife material isn't true..
They are still out there,I understand what I am saying though...
And about finding virgin, so-so..do you know some men are leaving the virgins because they do not agree to their PRE-MARITAL SEX offer (even in a case when the girl isn't asking them for any kinda financial help or whatever)?..why are they doing that?. because they(most) are so concerned about sex, chopping and cleaning their mouth,and all that..
Some even start thinking the girl is lying and start feeding her with fake words that if truly she is a virgin,she should allow him to confirm first..
Just like most guys here do comment "test before buying" or whatever. It's so bad..
I still have a lot more to type about this issue

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 8:09am On Feb 23, 2021
iamcee:


But do you know when you find the right one,one who is understanding,a faithful one...you would have no issue.
You would not experience unhappiness if you get married to the right and good ones.
Do not be discouraged about getting married.What you have to do right now is just to be in search of the good ones and stop trying to join those who sees no purpose in marriage.
"There are no good women,good women doesn't exist anymore",and some people are still lucky to get married/have the good ones.
So,what are you waiting for?
NO ONE SAYS BECAUSE IT'S NOT EASY TO EARN MONEY, HE/SHE WOULDN'T WORK FOR IT.
but Note :the unfaithful ones,one who is much interested in pre-marital sex,the irresponsible ones might not get or have the faithful and responsible ones

Whatever the case maybe, Any lady who doesn't have "Real Value" most especially In "Financial Aspect" Isn't getting any ring from me.......
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by MarthaGlobal: 8:18am On Feb 23, 2021
Mention just 2 things Men gain from marriage.. Just 2... I am waiting. Lafff...
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Theoarhics: 8:29am On Feb 23, 2021
Buhari and women wahala
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by cococandy(f): 8:30am On Feb 23, 2021
MrNipplesLover:



U this stubborn daughter of human being. grin


Happy birthday.... ✌
thank you cheesy

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Rosy1234(m): 8:41am On Feb 23, 2021
what do you expect when both men and women enjoy playing each other
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Benzemma(m): 8:48am On Feb 23, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
I can't speak for everybody, but for my own side, money is actually the problem preventing me from marrying. Except I have something doing that is capable of taking care of, my wife and my children, I will not think of marriage. Cos is it is senseless to marry when you are not financially okay.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 23, 2021
MarthaGlobal:
Mention just 2 things Men gain from marriage.. Just 2... I am waiting. Lafff...

True companionship that is conditional
Mentally stable nd psychologically balanced kids

I can't be with one woman tho,that's just my problem
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mentored: 9:37am On Feb 23, 2021
chatinent:
My grandfather used to say: nwanyị mara mma bu nganga nke nna ya.

The day they left the traditional title of being called maidens to becoming registered as slay-queen, everything deteriorated. Yes, gbogbo nkan ti bajẹ.

This era of girls understand dating to mean a sex sentence.


Many took to willful prostitution; hunger for money...money to do what? Buy lashes, perfumes...money for nothing!


It's very difficult to see that promising ada bekee again. Abubuwa yanzu sun juye.



Marriage is work

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:42am On Feb 23, 2021
cococandy:
thank you cheesy


cool cool
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:50am On Feb 23, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


I'm not bitter. I hate hypocritical men. That's all.

All those men that come online to castigate women as if they can't see what their fellow men are doing bring out the dark side of me. No offense.
When you are young good guy will be following you, you will be foaming jonzbon, na cultists and yahoo boys they drill na after 25years above, bad boys Don japa Abi, where are good guys?
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:01am On Feb 23, 2021
PastorFire:
So, what is wrong in my statement?. I can meet you today and marry you this Saturday. Life no hard na.. Oya, i will send my whatapp number to you.
I can't meet you today and marry you on Saturday, God won't permit such rush. Pele.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:06am On Feb 23, 2021
GofuckYourself:


But I can tell you all you need to know and beyond all doubt

I have seen your future grin

It's best you know

What is it you want to tell me that God won't reveal to me? oga go and take your medicine o. Leave my matter.

You have seen my future ko, you have seen my past ni. Wetin person no go hear for this Nairaland. Familiar spirit working in you can't tell you my future, they can't manage to tell you somethings about me cause they are familiar spirit, they have been around for long in families and know lots of things about them, but you can't prophecy my future or anybody's future, only a prophet can do that and you are not one.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:09am On Feb 23, 2021
Falcon84:


Sis, financial hardship has never stopped people from getting married and it won't stop prople from doing so in the future. The thing is after the fun and pagentr is over and growing financial responsibilities begin to pile. That's when people's eyes starts clearing.
I agree with you that's what it's
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:10am On Feb 23, 2021
Abudu2000:
Imagine one shameless 36 years old lady telling me she has policy hahaha policy indeed wey u even senior me
Haha wickedness
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:18am On Feb 23, 2021
Spectrum22:
Marriage is pain. Even money cannot guarantee a happy marriage.
Are you sure
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:19am On Feb 23, 2021
Toks2008:


When you get the cow milk for free there wont be any need to buy the cow.
Just try codedruns you go enjoy lol
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:25am On Feb 23, 2021
samonak:
If not for societal expectation and demand, I am of the opinion that marriage is overrated. The stress for marriage no be here. Most of my guys that married are suddenly developing premature grey hair or going bald.
Hahaaha
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HelpYourself(m): 10:26am On Feb 23, 2021
Nuttella:
What is it you want to tell me that God won't reveal to me? oga go and take your medicine o. Leave my matter.

You have seen my future ko, you have seen my past ni. Wetin person no go hear for this Nairaland. Familiar spirit working in you can't tell you my future, they can't manage to tell you somethings about me cause they are familiar spirit, they have been around for long in families and know lots of things about them, but you can't prophecy my future or anybody's future, only a prophet can do that and you are not one.

It's alright

Have a good day

Bye
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:28am On Feb 23, 2021
koning:
I settled down, now i feel choked . I want out. Women of today are horror stories.


My eyes don see too many female horror stories on the net. Especially in Africa.
Are you serious
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by nairalandankrah: 10:38am On Feb 23, 2021
Nnecky:

With People like u in this country with your type of mindset, marriage will be difficult to achieve
shocked..I believe in partnership.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by nick50(m): 11:04am On Feb 23, 2021
Our economy too bad, since una force buhari give us everything spoil, he come close southern borders, increased VAT n fuel price ..abeg na person wey see food chop Na I'm dey marry especially Nigerian women wen be say na liability dem be

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by dollytino4real(f): 11:17am On Feb 23, 2021
because of greed, selfishness, and pride
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BabylonCruise(m): 11:49am On Feb 23, 2021
fati2001:



NIGERIANS MEN ARE USELESS...
WE HAVE PROVE OF EM EVERYWHERE.
How is your Father.....Just Asking
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Feb 23, 2021
It all boils down to finance, how can you keep a woman if you vee go no means to sustain her, she will leave you at the end.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Blackdisciple(m): 12:43pm On Feb 23, 2021
Sure because men later realised that women don't marry because of love rather women marry for the change from Miss to Mrs thats all but the men marry for love and to settle down.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:47pm On Feb 23, 2021
ibkonekt:

who the hell is this worthless wh0re of babylon, listen women

This is all I need to know not to listen to all that gibberish you wrote.

Only illmannered, rude and arrogant people talk like you do.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:49pm On Feb 23, 2021
BabylonCruise:

How is your Father.....Just Asking

Shouldn't you ask something like this when that nincompoop called Mosdi posts his about Nigerian girls?

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