SweetHearted:
I first observed this when I was in a mixed gender school.

From SS1 up,I observed that I only feel attracted to the female senior prefect who was in SS3, although it was impossible for me to approach her since I was only in SS1.

In SS2 also, I felt the same way to the new female SP of SS3.

In my SS3, immediately they gave one girl in my class the senior prefect,I suddenly found her to be more attractive than all other girls.

She suddenly became my crush.

I couldn't stop thinking about her.

I observed that the attraction was because she occupied an exalted position.


This continued when I was a teacher in secondary school.

Among the girls who were now my students, the female senior prefect became the most attractive in my sight.

Although I couldn't condescend to have an immoral relationship with her, since I was her teacher.

By and large,I have observed that I rarely think about women, except she is occupying an exalted position like a proprietress of a school,a bank manager,a minister/commissioner,a senator, house of representative member, and any leadership position at all.

When once she is my head in any way, like the head of my department/unit, in any organization or establishment,I always finds her sexually very attractive.

Like the head of my department when I was a private school teacher. I was secretly in love with her.

In fact, immediately a lady becomes my leader in any way, she suddenly becomes more attractive in my eyes.

If I were asked to choose any lady for marriage and anyone I choose would agree,I would surely choose a female leader.

Please what do you think about this.

No insults please.

Insult is reciprocal.

fati2001:


all I have now is "K".

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I believe provided no crime is committed and no one is getting hurt, everyone's sexual fantasies is valid. Only a few things delineate the beauty of human diversity as much as sexuality. Don't let anyone tell you there's something wrong with being a sub. It doesn't mean you follow the woman's instructions in your daily life. It simply means you're attracted to authority and you'd definitely like the lady to take control in the pleasure business. Go for what you want, it doesn't make you less a man... though the masculinity of African men is so fragile that everything becomes a threat.

_{Hope the senior prefect is in good hands though.}

Preciousallure:
You are submissive, or just like challenges

Oluromantic:
That's why I always say compatibility is very key in relationship. Here is a case where a man is acting tender and submissive falling in love with a domineering woman and many other men don't like such women. An unwise woman who has been disliked or hated by men who don't like such, may commit suicide thinking men generally like submissive women only, instead of her to pray to find a man who would love to be subjective to leading women like her. Such is life compatibility is very important!

Oluromantic:
That's why I always say compatibility is very key in relationship. Here is a case where a man is acting tender and submissive falling in love with a domineering woman and many other men don't like such women. An unwise woman who has been disliked or hated by men who don't like such, may commit suicide thinking men generally like submissive women only, instead of her to pray to find a man who would love to be subjective to leading women like her. Such is life compatibility is very important!

Preciousallure:
As a man, I get attracted naturally and automatically to feminine submissive women-nurses, students etc just as women get attracted naturally and automatically to masculine dominant men-policemen, politicians, CEOs etc. I get attracted to dominant, feminist women but with a desire to make them submit to my masculinity and dominance. My skill level is unnaturally high so I can do



Here comes the trillion-rial question. When you feel attracted, is it to submit to her awesomeness or dominate her lovingly to submission? Your answer will make things a lot clearer.

Blackmoran:
you have been feminized and you have no outa of masculinity in you! just like someone said above you are too submissive which is a feminine and a woman nature.

Preciousallure:
I can't really say why I am doing this but I feel the need.



1. You are a man, don't hate women. I avoid the hard-core redpill or so threads here cos they spit some savage misogyny. Maybe only women related to them are useless anyway. I have never been heartbroken by a woman cos I was very expert from a young age so I see women as beautiful but funny people, especially with their outlandish demands I love women cos they love me As long as you aren't gay, you are good to go.

2. Women, especially feminists want to submit to a man they accept is superior, simple. Not enough masculinity to make them gentle and that's why they are running riot in the West to the extent their men are fleeing to Asia for soft women Chances are she won't be attracted to you in return cos you aren't strong enough for her. Such women usually require a dominance more dominant than their dominance Not arrogance, but just some unshakeable confidence she can let out her suppressed feminity. You may try sha, but I personally advise you come across with a masculine vibe.

3. Relationships where the woman is in charge last longer and less dramatic than the opposite. I think you have a feminine vibe not bad, but if you want to keep targeting the so-called 'leaders' then you may need some masculinity.

Your romantic experiences with any of them?

SweetHearted:


You said submission is woman nature.

But I tell you the truth: You don't really know women.

That is why men would continue to have trouble with women.

Because you are looking for a lady that would submit to you, she herself may be looking for a man who would submit to her.

That is where the problem sometimes starts.

I tell you the truth:It is better to remove the idea of women being submissive to men from your mind because you would not be able to contain the resistance she would give you if you are trying to subjugate her.

One of the most bitter friction between men and women is because men are trying to lord it over women, falsely believing that they are superior to women.

But you ask yourself:On what basis do men believe that they are superior?

Women hate this mentality and it is the reason most women are against men in the present world.

That is why if a woman is higher than me,I would submit to her and show her all humility.

Some men would want to resist her and it sometimes results in a huge problem.

We must give respect to whom respect is due and stop claiming superiority.

Blackmoran:
no matter how a woman is egoistic and controlling, she will still be submissive to one particular guy who will dominate her,. don't be deceived by the boss look she put out outside the world, when she get home she is a total human being... no woman is happy to date a guy they control, and such women who find themselves in such position look outside of the relationship for a more alpha character therefore cheating on the miserable poor simpy guy...

SweetHearted:


You said submission is woman nature.

But I tell you the truth: You don't really know women.

That is why men would continue to have trouble with women.

Because you are looking for a lady that would submit to you, she herself may be looking for a man who would submit to her.

That is where the problem sometimes starts.

I tell you the truth:It is better to remove the idea of women being submissive to men from your mind because you would not be able to contain the resistance she would give you if you are trying to subjugate her.

One of the most bitter friction between men and women is because men are trying to lord it over women, falsely believing that they are superior to women.

But you ask yourself:On what basis do men believe that they are superior?

Women hate this mentality and it is the reason most women are against men in the present world.

That is why if a woman is higher than me,I would submit to her and show her all humility.

Some men would want to resist her and it sometimes results in a huge problem.

We must give respect to whom respect is due and stop claiming superiority.

SweetHearted:


I have also seen woman who is totally submissive to a dominant husband but who is in love with a submissive male outside.

She even loves him more than the husband.

So the thing is both sided.

SweetHearted:


I have also seen woman who is totally submissive to a dominant husband but who is in love with a submissive male outside.

She even loves him more than the husband.

So the thing is both sided.