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Hi everyone
We've been married for 10 years and he has stopped kissing me. Our sex life is so boring because he always go straight to the point. Am a Christian but I also want good sex and kiss. I have told him several times that sex without kissing is so boring and he wouldn't just listen. I asked him several times if he don't like my breathe and he said my breath is ok. Before we got married, we always have fantastic sex which was one of the thing that attracted me more to him. But everything changed after the wedding. I thought of cheating but ............ am just tired of life
Please pardon my mistakes because am not thinking straight again

Kissing is foreign to african culture straight to the point more africanize meanwhile stop this telemundo photocoping culture, U don see American chop bitter kola? it's because it's not in their culture

The guy above is joking right

Your husband has stopped loving you.

He's no longer making love to you, he's just having sex with you.

mariahAngel:
Your husband has stopped loving you.

He's no longer making love to you, he's just having sex with you.

Agreed.

That's no good. Kissing is an intimate experience involving chemistry and emotional attachment. If he's not kissing you during lovemaking, then these aren't present. Idk how you've been managing that for 10-years, or when did it start?

then do the kissing yourself.

Hmmm...
If he has a pastor, call his pastor to talk to him.

doloveexist:
Hi everyone
We've been married for 10 years and he has stopped kissing me. Our sex life is so boring because he always go straight to the point. Am a Christian but I also want good sex and kiss. I have told him several times that sex without kissing is so boring and he wouldn't just listen. I asked him several times if he don't like my breathe and he said my breath is ok. Before we got married, we always have fantastic sex which was one of the thing that attracted me more to him. But everything changed after the wedding. I thought of cheating but ............ am just tired of life
Please pardon my mistakes because am not thinking straight again

When was the last time you took his díck in your hand, massaged it well, and sucked it with plenty saliva?

aroundtheearth:
That's no good. Kissing is an intimate experience involving chemistry and emotional attachment. If he's not kissing you during lovemaking, then these aren't present. Idk how you've been managing that for 10-years, or when did it start?

it stopped after the second year of our marriage

general111:
Hmmm...
If he has a pastor, call his pastor to talk to him.

LadySarah:
then do the kissing yourself.

Have tried that several times but he will hold his breath and it won't last more than some seconds that he will remove his mouth. One thing am sure of is my mouth don't smell, I tried kissing other men(just two of them) just to know if my mouth smells (no sex with them just kiss alone) and they love kissing me. They even kissed me for long till I told them its ok. Am not a dirty person at all. I have asked him several times if my mouth smells so I can go to dentist and fix the problem and he said my breath is ok

crackhaus:
When was the last time you took his díck in your hand, massaged it well, and sucked it with plenty saliva?

Several times. I don't like sucking dick but I was doing it to please him. I even watch videos just to know how to suck his dick very well

general111:
Hmmm...
If he has a pastor, call his pastor to talk to him.

Honestly I have done all this. He will promise them he will change but he's still thesame

doloveexist:
Several times. I don't like sucking dick but I was doing it to please him. I even watch videos just to know how to suck his dick very well

Lol...

You're catching cruise here

crackhaus:
Lol...

You're catching cruise here

cruise? am always doing everything to please him. On Valentine day i bought him a gift and he didnt buy me anything. He did not even do anything with me that day. Am dying silently. i envy single ladies and wish i was still single. i dont feel loved and i dont want to cheat. maybe ending it all will be the solution. let me just leave this earth and go to where i will rest forever

doloveexist:
it stopped after the second year of our marriage

Wow! It's either the love wasn't there before your marriage or he married you for reasons other than love.

Smh

general111:
Hmmm...
If he has a pastor, call his pastor to talk to him.

And what will tell the Pastor?

doloveexist:
cruise? am always doing everything to please him. On Valentine day i bought him a gift and he didnt buy me anything. He did not even do anything with me that day. Am dying silently. i envy single ladies and wish i was still single. i dont feel loved and i dont want to cheat. maybe ending it all will be the solution. let me just leave this earth and go to where i will rest forever

It shouldn't get to that na!

Have you asked him if he hates kissing in general? Not everyone enjoys swallowing another person's saliva you know?

As for his thing you sucked? Yuck!

So I have always believed in a lie? I was told that women dont love sex!

doloveexist:
cruise? am always doing everything to please him. On Valentine day i bought him a gift and he didnt buy me anything. He did not even do anything with me that day. Am dying silently. i envy single ladies and wish i was still single. i dont feel loved and i dont want to cheat. maybe ending it all will be the solution. let me just leave this earth and go to where i will rest forever

Please give it a rest, so because your husband doesn't want to kiss or sex you, you want to commit sucide or what? what will become of your loved ones? do you know how they will feel?? please my dear sister erase that thought, stop begging him to kiss or sex you, just be neat, dress well, be HAPPY.. everything will fall into place..

Why don't you talk to him about your fantasies and you guys look for way out around it

Funny thread.

doloveexist:
Honestly I have done all this. He will promise them he will change but he's still thesame

then walk away

doloveexist:
cruise? am always doing everything to please him. On Valentine day i bought him a gift and he didnt buy me anything. He did not even do anything with me that day. Am dying silently. i envy single ladies and wish i was still single. i dont feel loved and i dont want to cheat. maybe ending it all will be the solution. let me just leave this earth and go to where i will rest forever

I think a bottle of sniper is still less than 1k.

Maybe, he's philemaphobic.

It's either your oral hygiene dropped or you're a bad kisser.

Also check to be sure your lips have not become hard or chapped because no man can resist a soft and succulent lips.

Scrub your lips to soften them and apply blue seal Vaseline to make them supple. attack his neck gently with it when you're together. He'll resume the kissing again.

mariahAngel:
It shouldn't get to that na!

Have you asked him if he hates kissing in general? Not everyone enjoys swallowing another person's saliva you know?

As for his thing you sucked? Yuck!

You can't gag on a dick?

usj:
So I have always believed in a lie? I was told that women dont love sex!

Women LOVE sex. A whole lot. Don't be deceived. Except the sexually mutilated ones, though.

There's a Facebook group I can tell you to check out (even though it's strictly women), you'd see comments of single and married women voicing out their sexual fantasies and asking for advice to "up" their sex game for their man.

don't stop talking until there is a change, communication is key(No nagging pls). if you both were doing it before, then why the change? let him give you answers and then you can take it from there.
While he is trying to go straight, you should try to initiate the process if he wouldn't.
I wouldn't encourage you to cheat, because once you start, it will be very difficult to stop. Also, its not all that end well as some are not that lucky.

sex B4 marriage is fun as always


sex after marriage (especially 3yrs upwards) na duty.


manage the sex, leave the kissing. Cos soon, the sex go vanish o.