GrandFinale2021:
including your irresponsible father

Rule 2. Don't abuse, bully, deliberately insult/provoke, fight, or wish harm to Nairaland members OR THEIR TRIBES.

Myn.d44
Lala.sticlala
Se.u.n.
Domini.que
O.AM4J
Justw.ise

Rule 2 clearly violated and he deserves a lengthy ban so as to serve as a deterrent to others.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you deserve to have a vagina for a month for this statement

For real? LOL.

You said that the oldest rape victim you've seen was about 7yrs and the youngest nine months old, so were they also supposed to dress "appropriately" ?

The Muslim ladies that get raped despite their long flowing garments nko?

You even said it yourself that rape is more about power and wielding it against the person perceived to be weak.
So why would you reward a man with a vagina for basically blaming girls and women for being raped because of their "indecent dressing" ?
I'm utterly shocked by your comment, as someone that seems to be progressive and pro women's rights from observation.

Na real wa.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you deserve to have a vagina for a month for this statement

Or is this supposed to be sarcasm? I really hope it's sarcasm

Ur a complete and utter fool.... Men that rape a baby what’s their excuse? Was the baby dressed indecently or was the baby tempting them.... ur a dumb ass

chatinent:



Amen..to everyone only who knows how to dress in feminine modesty, respect and cover their bodies..that's only when pervs and rapists would learn to look for better jobs.


The guy should be electrocuted without trial.

I don’t need to go to the Arab world because I’m not Muslim.... Secondly I love in America and I dress how I want and no one has ever had an issue with how I dress.... Nigerian men are weak mentally and sexually that’s why u rape women. Try that shit here you will spend the rest of your life in jail

Jeromejnr:


Keep giving excuses.

When you go to an Arab nation, dress how you want because its your body.

Most of you are still living in Lala land.

Ur dumb. It’s only a weak foolish man that would make such a statement. Here in the US we dress how we want but don’t get raped. I’ve gone out at night wearing shorts but never been scared... I dress to please myself and not to please u

tradepunter:


You should be smarter than this... It's only a foolish Lady that would think her way of dressing have nothing to do with rape...

I work for a private security and risk management firm... Some cases we have dealt with for private clients especially in the area of rape is mind blowing

Only a foolish Lady would dress skimpy and move odd hours of the day in areas that can be said as questionable.

Dress the way you wanna be addressed it's as simple as that my dear..

awulio:
I don’t need to go to the Arab world because I’m not Muslim.... Secondly I love in America and I dress how I want and no one has ever had an issue with how I dress.... Nigerian men are weak mentally and sexually that’s why u rape women. Try that shit here you will spend the rest of your life in jail

Please dress half naked and let me carry you on the streets of Mexico in the night time since its your freedom.

We are talking of Nigeria here madam not America. Use your brain to address issues appropriately next time.

Alexaonfleek:
wow
I don't know how u do it mr Jerome
Preaching the word of God one Sunday and justifying rape the next Sunday

A very low IQ person with comprehensive issues init.
If that is what you call a justification, then you need to go to go for proper schooling. All these una Nigerian polytechnics no dey help you.

Your fucking asshole dumb ass... aren’t there girls in the island that wear shorts? Are they getting raped..... use ur brain dude but like most Nigerian men u have no brain. U only use ur dick to think

Jeromejnr:


Please dress half naked and let me carry you on the streets of Mexico in the night time since its your freedom.

We are talking of Nigeria here madam not America. Use your brain to address issues appropriately next time.

awulio:
Your fucking asshole dumb ass... aren’t there girls in the island that wear shorts? Are they getting raped..... use ur brain dude but like most Nigerian men u have no brain. U only use ur dick to think

Is it the same Island where I have been for some years now that I also hear rape cases in the night? Especially on the link bridge?

Use your brain madam. Many ladies these days are not intelligent at all. Only to follow social media herd mentality.

Come Island na, let's stroll to some places in the night.

I’m most likely smarter than you and more knowledgeable...... the only reason women get raped is bcuz weak mean like u can’t control yourselves. Some of u weak men even rape 95 year old grandmothers... I wouldn’t be surprised if ur a product of rape that’s why u defending rapists. Like father like son

Jeromejnr:


Is it the same Island where I have been for some years now that I also hear rape cases in the night? Especially on the link bridge?

Use your brain madam. Many ladies these days are not intelligent at all. Only to follow social media herd mentality.

Come Island na, let's stroll to some places in the night.

awulio:
I’m most likely smarter than you and more knowledgeable...... the only reason women get raped is bcuz weak mean like u can’t control yourselves. Some of u weak men even rape 95 year old grandmothers... I wouldn’t be surprised if ur a product of rape that’s why u defending rapists. Like father like son

Well, fortunately for you, I am too refined and tactful to throw Ad hominems. (Personal insults).

Secondly, good you agree many men are weak. Therefore madam, that is why you should apply sense. Cause you have no control over these people and their urges.

Your life is once. But there will always be stubborn females. You think you live in a Cinderella world abi?

Better wake up to reality, smell that coffee. Don't let Netflix deceive you.

I’m a lady I don’t throw around insults..... I dress the way I want and never had issues..... if your so weak then cut of ur dick. Because if a nigger tries to rape me I will happily cut of his dick before getting him arrested...

Jeromejnr:


Well, fortunately for you, I am too refined and tactful to throw Ad hominems. (Personal insults).

Secondly, good you agree many men are weak. Therefore madam, that is why you should apply sense. Cause you have no control over these people and their urges.

Your life is once. But there will always be stubborn females. You think you live in a Cinderella world abi?

Better wake up to reality, smell that coffee. Don't let Netflix deceive you.

awulio:
I’m a lady I don’t throw around insults..... I dress the way I want and never had issues..... if your so weak then cut of ur dick. Because if a nigger tries to rape me I will happily cut of his dick before getting him arrested...

Lol...oshey, dick cutter. It is well with you.

Medical solution is surest for this cure. Just knock off the testosterone hormone in his body and his libido dies. Shikena

This one need a very dirty slap!!!.

Catfishing:
You sound dumb....was ur grandmother a rape victim

Do you know how many boys have been raped/sexually abused by ur specie and yet kept quiet? You should stop playing the victim game jare

You should blame your fellow men for bullying and belittling their experiences because they are men. I was raped by four women, said it in presence of some men at the bar and they all bursted into laughter, the women were even the ones that sympathized to my plight

BadBitch:


For real? LOL.

You said that the oldest rape victim you've seen was about 7yrs and the youngest nine months old, so were they also supposed to dress "appropriately" ?

The Muslim ladies that get raped despite their long flowing garments nko?

You even said it yourself that rape is more about power and wielding it against the person perceived to be weak.
So why would you reward a man with a vagina for basically blaming girls and women for being raped because of their "indecent dressing" ?
I'm utterly shocked by your comment, as someone that seems to be progressive and pro women's rights from observation.

Na real wa.

Bitch please!!

Do not make assumptions about me.

Many people especially men are dismissive of rape due to the bystander effect. If it doesn't affect them or someone they know, they can talk ignorantly about it or it isn't their business.

So me telling him he deserves a vagina is a hypothetical situation that will cancel the impact of the bystander effect on this topic(it is sarcastic). If he has a vagina and is subject to the way some lewd men act, it will greatly color his perspective and change his outlook. I am not praying for him to be raped. Let him be in the shoes of 'the weaker sex'


These victims are in my line of work.


Btw, would you be interested to read more if i talk about this topic?. I plan to discuss it on nairaland.

OBALOLA55:
JUST LIKE I SAID EARLIER, YOUR OWN CASE IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. CATFISHING IS A MULTI BILLION NAIRA INDUSTRY IN NIGERIA, IF YOU THINK SAY I DEY LIE ASK ERICA NLEWEDIM MERCY EKE NENGI AND DESTINY ETIKO

Wait o...Did she catfhished you ni?Just curious.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Bitch please!!

Do not make assumptions about me.

Many people especially men are dismissive of rape due to the bystander effect. If it doesn't affect them or someone they know, they can talk ignorantly about it or it isn't their business.

So me telling him he deserves a vagina is a hypothetical situation that will cancel the impact of the bystander effect on this topic(it is sarcastic). If he has a vagina and is subject to the way some lewd men act, it will greatly color his perspective and change his outlook. I am not praying for him to be raped. Let him be in the shoes of 'the weaker sex'


These victims are in my line of work.


Btw, would you be interested to read more if i talk about this topic?. I plan to discuss it on nairaland.

I'm actually relieved seeing what you actually meant. It was a bit confusing to be honest, but I get what you meant totally now. Sorry I misunderstood your point.

I would sure love to read about that. We need more of serious conversations on here. Who knows, a potential rapist or two may turn a new leaf based on such articles.

Idiot of efulefu

WHY NOT?
AFTER DROWNING YOURSELF IN PORNOGRAPHY. AND YOU EXPECT TO BEAR GOOD FRUIT?

SOME OF THESE UNTAMMED BEHAVIORS ARE FROM UNCLEAN PERSONAL ATTITUDES AND ALSO SPIRITUAL INFLUENCES.

ASK HIM IF HE WAS INDULGED IN PORN!
THAT IS WHERE HIS VISION OF RAPE COMES FROM.
MIND WHAT YOU SEE AND WHEN YOU SEE WRONG THINGS, CORRECT THEM IN YOUR HEART BEFORE THEY NAIL YOU.

you should be bedicked with immediate effect!

OBALOLA55:
THEY SHOULD COVER THEMSELVES PROPERLY JUST LIKE AISHA YESUFU

You reason like a 12yr old no need arguing with you.... Until you are being raped by a gay fellow na dat time you go know life...

saphiere:
May God protect every female out there.

arindin oshi

The headline is supposed to read
‘I Feel Like Raping Any Girl That Comes My Way’ - 20 Year's Old Mad Man

Nonsense and Buhari

DrFunmisticGlow:
follow your own advice.

We know you are a rape apologist retracing his steps.

Speak for yourself.

Anniemae:
All those guys up there saying dress the way you want to be addressed..what's your problem?

Your sisters..female cousins could be victims one day..even tho you're fully dressed..you can still get raped..

All those girls that wear hijabs..fully covered up...don't they get raped?

A rapist is a damn rapist..all those little girls that were raped..what would you say about that

Y'all will just come online without your senses..

ROTFLMAO , what an interesting pick you made as your profile picture. I laughed immediately. But I'm sure you're not as meek as that girl in the pic. Hmmm , maybe our type will sting and bite and the slightest provocation. But funny pic though..

Argh, the comments here though.
It is the victim that is now being blamed and punished, not the culprit. Meaning things have changed, just not for the better!! Shame!!

Reading the reply to this thread by some men I am very ashamed at the class of some men we have. What kind of mindset is this. Men vs Women / Patriarchy fc vs Feminism no be for where rape dey abeg.
In the olden days our women dressed largely naked. Were they calling for rape? Let's not be intentionally dumb abeg.