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"Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by PeaceIlya: 8:47am On Mar 16, 2021
Hi Guys!

"Do you have any advice for someone who is shy and uncomfortable when it comes to networking?"

Kindly share your advice in the comment section

Thank you
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by wisestman(m): 8:45am On Mar 17, 2021
The person should go and get this book asap. A little investment in reading will solve his big problem.

How to win friends and influence people

U can get a review on what that person will learn in this website

https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=8e2ad7d4bb45

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by yazga: 8:47am On Mar 17, 2021
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wisestman:
The person should go and get this book asap. A little investment in reading will solve his big problem.

How to win friends and influence people

U can get a review on what that person will learn in this website

https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=8e2ad7d4bb45
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by KOKOHANDS: 8:55am On Mar 17, 2021
If being shy creates discomfort the solution is to stop being shy to get comfortable.

And what can make a grown ass person shy if he/she is not involved in something that is socially and morally unacceptable by the generality of society?

Such a person must be suffering from a psychological, sociological or medical problem and needs to see a qualified and certified counsellor and physician.

That's the best such a person can do. See a trained counsellor or talk to a physician.

PeaceIlya:
Hi Guys!

"Do you have any advice for someone who is shy and uncomfortable when it comes to networking?"

Kindly share your advice in the comment section

Thank you

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 17, 2021
PeaceIlya:
Hi Guys!

"Do you have any advice for someone who is shy and uncomfortable when it comes to networking?"

Kindly share your advice in the comment section

Thank you

Introverts tend to be shy.... and if you define "uncomfortable" as being left out in conversations and networking, it's normal for introverts.
Attend gatherings, you can start with a place you're very comfortable with, like your church, walk up to someone(not just anyone buh one who you like his/her vibe) and say let's be friends, if u a girl start with girls if u a guy start with guys. At first it can be quite a herculean task, buh trust me, it's gonna help u build your confidence. Also, watch your words don't get cut up in the moment, think before you speak, if you don't, being with you will be toxic.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by PeaceIlya: 9:11am On Mar 25, 2021


Introverts tend to be shy.... and if you define "uncomfortable" as being left out in conversations and networking, it's normal for introverts.
Attend gatherings, you can start with a place you're very comfortable with, like your church, walk up to someone(not just anyone buh one who you like his/her vibe) and say let's be friends, if u a girl start with girls if u a guy start with guys. At first it can be quite a herculean task, buh trust me, it's gonna help u build your confidence. Also, watch your words don't get cut up in the moment, think before you speak, if you don't, being with you will be toxic.
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by fredwill1357(m): 10:46am On Mar 25, 2021
PeaceIlya:
Hi Guys!

"Do you have any advice for someone who is shy and uncomfortable when it comes to networking?"

Kindly share your advice in the comment section

Thank you
shyness is an attractive trait in females, why would you want to stop being shy?

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by PeaceIlya: 7:18pm On Mar 29, 2021
fredwill1357:
shyness is an attractive trait in females, why would you want to stop being shy?
lipsrsealed
fredwill1357:
shyness is an attractive trait in females, why would you want to stop being shy?
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by fredwill1357(m): 7:43pm On Mar 29, 2021
PeaceIlya:
lipsrsealed
na true nah, are you the one on your profile picture?

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Dwaynestefan: 1:08pm On Apr 13, 2021
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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by lkillbrokehoes: 1:08pm On Apr 13, 2021
You better desist from the disease called shyness, if you want to make it in life put shyness aside, some of the billionaires you see today, assuming they were shy they wouldn't have gotten to where they are today, shyness wouldn't take you anywhere, so work on yourself from today, good luck!

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by melaniaup: 1:08pm On Apr 13, 2021
Don't take things personal is a first step.. learn to speak out even though it might lead to quarrel but be ready to learn from the wrong of your words and see correction in others people opinion on certain issues

In topics being discuss that interest you . You can contribute as far as it's not a violent circle.

Learn to greet irrespective, your greet can be in form of compliments

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 13, 2021
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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by GboyegaD(m): 1:09pm On Apr 13, 2021
Join interest groups and start from there
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by salbis(m): 1:09pm On Apr 13, 2021
Perhaps shyness is a virtue.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Julianaa: 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
Who else is here to read comments?

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Mindlog: 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
Networking is not optional if you want to expand in life, it is a MUST.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by ecolime(m): 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
Hunger never wire you.

Start learning to socialise. You've gotta come out of your shell if wanna make it in life.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Nobody: 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
Make money
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Jh0wsef(m): 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
Lol
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by wman(m): 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2021
wisestman:
The person should go and get this book asap. A little investment in reading will solve his big problem.

How to win friends and influence people

U can get a review on what that person will learn in this website

https://www.forbes.com/sites/francesbridges/2018/02/07/10-ways-to-make-people-like-you-from-how-to-make-friends-and-influence-people/?sh=8e2ad7d4bb45

True.

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Napoleon Hill is the best book on the matter.

With it you can overcome your shyness, influence people and sell better to them.

You can get the ebook version from us for a token.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by LadyTiannah2: 1:12pm On Apr 13, 2021
Work on your self confidence or find a different type of work

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by wpadmin: 1:13pm On Apr 13, 2021
following
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Splendor4(m): 1:13pm On Apr 13, 2021
any advice...
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Ishilove: 1:14pm On Apr 13, 2021
Shy... Once upon a time...

The only way to beat shyness is to interact. It worked for me

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by honest1480(m): 1:15pm On Apr 13, 2021
The person should expose his/herself to most happening things in his environment.
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Born2conquer: 1:15pm On Apr 13, 2021
Self discovery matters and don’t force yourself to do what you don’t like.

I don’t like to network and I don’t even force it , what i did was that i built myself to be a force people can reckon with, so instead of me going after people... they’re they one coming to me.

Build yourself

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by akanbiaa(m): 1:16pm On Apr 13, 2021
PeaceIlya:
Hi Guys!

"Do you have any advice for someone who is shy and uncomfortable when it comes to networking?"

Kindly share your advice in the comment section

Thank you
When the networking is the only option left for the person to put food on their table and survive the shyness and discomfort will vanish else hunger will gradually kill the person.

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Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Bampeh: 1:16pm On Apr 13, 2021
Re: "Do You Have Any Advice For Someone Who Is Shy And Uncomfortable" by Nobody: 1:17pm On Apr 13, 2021
Read self help books. Start with "Subtle art of not giving a f***" by Mark Manson.

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