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In the event I ever feel compelled to ask a girl I am dating for her opinion on aspects of me that relate to my attractiveness to women in general, I always take into account the balance of power in our relationship. If she perceives her value to be lower than mine, true or not, then I know not to expect an objective, unbiased opinion from her when discussing those things that might enhance my sexual marketability.

One such subject matter is fashion. In an age when women are abandoning their natural calling to nurturing, monogamous relationships with reliable providers for the player lifestyle of serial flings practiced by men, the modern man has learned to accept that an eye-catching sense of style is an increasingly important tool in his efforts to sell himself to women. But straight men are so far behind the fashion curveball that they have had to turn to the women in their lives for advice on how to dress seductively. They usually turn to girlfriends. This is a mistake.

No girlfriend has ever given me a straight answer on anything that wasn’t distorted in some way by her fear of losing me to another woman. If I’m shopping for new clothes with a girl who is really into me, she’ll do her best to frump me out in baggy button down shirts a size too large and in formless Hanes Beefy T’s.



From her perspective, this makes perfect sense. She is emotionally invested in me so the last thing she wants is for me to look good enough to other women to be a flight risk. It will only make her more insecure having to deal with the flirtations of boyfriend-stealers. If you have one of these girls in your life, don’t expect her to ever approve of that tight designer shirt tailored to accentuate your masculine ‘V’. Your best bet is to go shopping with girl buddies who secretly harbor an infatuation with you. They will act out their fantasies through the clothes they make you try on.

Your other option is to date girls who think they are higher value than you. This type of girl will actually work to make you look better because so much of her validation is wrapped up in how others judge her choice in boyfriend. The trade-off is that you’ll be dating a self-absorbed but at least you will look good.

Akinbahm:
In a simple sentence without turning Amala, what guarantee a successful marriage?

Don't get married.

That no one should quote me on any f monika here, it was actually because of this thread I didn’t indicate my gender lol but they figured me out lol

I don't get. Is it a taboo to quote a female monika on this thread or you some special snowflake that needs permission from him before exercising your freedom here. I'm lost.

Teddy96:
I finally found this post

Na here i die. .

Being a Redpiller will open your eye to see beyond what simp can't see



-Alpha

Kudos to the Op. . The founder of the hidden trvth

-MGTOW...

If you have anything bothering you, we got you.

Nyascobar1414:
Kings...
I gad a question...
What brought about the Idea of bride price in marriage?

During the pre colonial era, many tribes will make parent gift the husband some properties like lands, bikes and things that have monetary value before marrying their daughter, this is because they know what it takes to start a family. This lands are used for farming etc thats why you see family owning lands in regions that is not exactly their village, back then you hardly see cross marriages which was like taboo then, eg you hardly see Ife/Osun lady marrying Ogun/Ijebu man. Parent were strict probably because the general notion of Proximity+ Diversity= war

After the post colonial era, civilisation entered, religion entered which was the major turn around for marriages in Nigeria which brought about the introduction of Bride Price, which I'll say started the betalization of the Nigerian Man. We had the invasion of the first Christianity Anglicans then came the Catholic which supported the doctrine of bride Price.

This made men stray less, because before its easy for men to be polygamous. Think about it, to get rich just be polygamous. That means take lands from 3 different ladies family, cultivate and farm on them, and once this women birth your child, more workers for you then you venture to other business but now after post independence under the invasion of Christianity which most family adopted in the south all changed, you have to be well doing before you can venture into marriages. Mind you this foreign religion does not support polygamy

Back then gift are given to the husband, but now gift are given to the wives and not the husband. Now you see fathers gifting their daughter car and the husband doesn't have a car, what that tell you that many parents raise the smv of their child than the husband which begins the doom of their daughters marriages, a story for another day.

I think more research needs to be done in this area, I hope a student of social science in a Nigerian Tertiary institution does a research on this and grace us with the feedback


Update: These will be hard to proof because most materials must have been lost in time. It would have been possible if internet was available back then

Anyone with question about Game or what to do or what not should post them. I'll be responding to them.

But make sure you make the story very anonymous because we have spies among us, never can tell. This thread is popular than you think

LifestyleTonite:
But it's still stupid to opt for a used vehicle simply because a brand new one will one day get spoilt.

Hypergamy or not, I'll chose the hypergamous virgin over the used hypergamous one.

Definitely, only that we cant leverage on that alone.

aidameoryou:
I love you my brother for this.
Where you at, let's talk sense.

Many people here are just on the bandwagon of alpha's and redpillers and it stinks.

Can't reason, can't analyze, but is an alpha
I refuse to be a NON REASONING ALPHA MALE, I SIMPLY REFUSE.

VIRGINITY is never a guarantee to a successful marriage.
And marrying a non virgin doesn't make one a beta.

They took their knowledge only by the book with no field test. They are unplugged but they haven't used their knowledge into winning fresh poons or to get fresh leads. Whats the point of all the knowledge without getting the lays ?

I bet most of them talk all this philosophy to their girlfriend hoping logical reasoning is the way to a woman labia, I bet most of them dont even neg their sexual interest.

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Iyaebe:
No wonder you are quoting me, there’s a rule made by martinez39s here find out and maybe you’ll follow the lead

I like the challenge, whats it ?

PstDapo:
[s][/s]


Follow the data

Forget the data. Virgins will pair bond faster but if her hypergamous nature meets another guy much better than you she will forget you in nano seconds.

Apart from Fatties that thinks they are hot, there is nothing irrational than a hamster spinning.

If you pair bond with a lady through your said virgin and she meets a James Bond alpha archetype, it doesn't matter again she will bond with james bond and needs a bigger alpha to make her spin

I understand what you read or where you coming from, Im talking about field test, coming from a loyal Chateau Heartiste long reader

Iyaebe:
I actually learnt from here. It’s all good and to my advantage.

Nice, I'm new here but i have been Unpluuged like 20 years now. Watch me school the young lads on the thread

You guys have been talking about virgins and non virgins. Well let me put the debate to dust. I want to buttress some hard point first which I'll want you to keep on your left palm for this post sake

NB: All women are the same..... A man and women are different specie debunking what some wack evolutionalist made us believe..... Man and woman think differently....

Guys, play this picture in your head.

"You see 2 ladies in a beach having a nice time, almost dressed naked with bikini and panties, one of them took some oil that looks like a sunscreen, she started rubbing it on the others skin, she went further and started rubbing it on her breast, massaged close to her nipple a bit, then went further to more estrogenous zones close to her labia to rob the sunscreen, after she finished, they both giggle and pecked"

Hey perverts, sound hot right, this looks like what a sister can do for each other right? Even the femcunt and manboobs among us will agree to the fact that its normal for ladies to do sort of thing

But lets come home, can you imagine a guy doing that for a fellow brother. I can see the rage in your eyes now, dont lash out on me, sound gross.

There you have it, we are of different species.

Now to tossing the VIRGIN and NON VIRGIN debate, never ever underestimate a ladies hypergamous nature. Just because you lashed a virgin girl and married her doesn't mean if he meets a man that got a Full Alpha mojo like George Clooney who has the looks, status, money and the popularity (leaders of men and women with right amount of preselection) that she wont forget you a nano seconds.

Ladies lack sense of judgement, they are species of feeling and they lack logical reasoning, thats when she start thinking with her gina and her hamster will start spinning and she will start rationalizing 100 ways she should be with George Clooney.

Don't be surprised when your little snowflake comes back home telling you shes pregnant and after the delivery you find out the seed that popped out of her gina is white and you come back on this thread to ask how possible is an African woman and Full blacked dude like you birth a white looking daughter.

For the Too Long, Didn't read folks on the thread (tl;dr)
One minutes of alpha trumps five years of beta

PstDapo:
Women are heartless and ruthless when it comes to fulfilling their mating strategy of alpha bleeps and beta bucks, they enjoy their prime years of 18-24 as if there is no tommorow, I don't see why men shouldn't enjoy in his prime years worst still to settle down with such women as he's peaking his potentials

A lady can give you three things. Her prime years, fertility and youth. And you can't blame them, they have a very short window which they must leverage what their beauty at that time can afford and thats why they are highly solipsistic at that time.

If you are guy thats priming you can leverage it to your advantage.

1. Only date young ladies that are priming

2. Priming ladies are not ready to settle down so you pump and dump. One way or the other if her hypergamous nature capture a better guy than you she will do the dumping

3. The easiest way to break up with a priming lady is to tell her you want to marry her, even if she loves you genuinely society will lie to her shes too young especially from parent, friends, church

3b. After they have gathered body count and getting old and they cant pair bond again, society tell them to marry thats why you see ladies of late 20s and early 30s finally settling down for beta who they wont give attention during their prime years.

Date young ladies and dont mention commitment to them and you will have the heaviest bangs of your life. Date the older ones with endless promise of commitment, like a catnip they will keep coming back for more hoping you will fulfill your promise

Dont judge me, if ladies can be ruthless with their hypergamous nature, you should be ruthless with your commitment too.

Update: every relationship have a life span, getting married is just increasing the time it will take to expire

PstDapo:
Lolz
Women have abundance on steroids and would maximize it to its fullest when they are their prime years, the cash out without remorse and don't give a Bleep about the present moment and it's implications on their future, she is a multi millionaire enjoying her best years and some Simps will struggle to get to the top all to commit to this hoe because of his bluepilled ignorance

She's Kenyan and that money is huge converted to Naira

Iyaebe:
I swear on my life that I thick all his boxes but does he thick mine? I can’t be with a nairaland version of redpiller, too rigid and wicked.

There is the guy that is redpill and has game and there is the guy thats unplugged with no game. You cant separate redpill and game, if you do, you have a dude thats badshit crazy about what he just discovered.

You sound like a redpilled lady, all we have is femcunt, redhead, feminist, fatties these days

For most guys porn has been a part of his life since his first adorable little ejaculation. It’s been a good friend, right there all along, assisting in quickie self-services, long drawn-out Saturday afternoon sessions, and walk-by chubbies at the office (pre-firewall days). It’s helped to raise our standards of what we expect in bed from the women we date (another reason why women are getting sluttier.) Recently, I found myself reminiscing about my first exposure to porn.


It was at my grandparents’ house. I was exploring the basement when I came across a copy of The Joy of Sex in an old beige filing cabinet. What a find! The rush of excitement was instantaneous. The pencil sketch drawings were thin gruel compared to today’s high res video on demand, but I was 14 and just saying the word “bosom” was enough to give me blue balls. I pored over every single picture. Eventually I got around to reading the words.

I don’t know what was skeevier — getting off to porn with my grandparent’s watching Jeopardy in the next room, or finding porn in their home, a place I used to think was holier than a confessional. I’m pretty sure the book smelled like old people. That didn’t stop me.


From then on I was a perverted pirate on a porn treasure hunt, always looking for my next fix. Like women, the chase was almost as much fun as the viewing. With each score I ratcheted up my demands for stronger, purer stuff.

My next big find was my parent’s underwear drawer. Big honking VHS tapes with colorful scenes all over the sleeve. I later learned that most of my friends found their parents’ porn in the underwear drawer as well. I wondered if our parents got together on bridge night to discuss the best places to hide the porn from the kids. In their infinite wisdom they decided under the granny panties. Come on, that’s the first place a kid is gonna look knowing that’s exactly where his dopey parents will think he won’t look. It wasn’t long before I found the vibrators and devices I still can’t identify to this day.

Porn is so ubiquitous now that the thrill of the chase is gone. Kids these days have no idea what it was like back when we had to walk 5 miles through the rain, uphill both ways, dodging suicide bombers, to get to number 2 pencil sketches of vaj. Today it’s log on, rub one out, get back to whatever you were doing. There’s no anticipation. It’s not Christmas morning anymore, it’s a typical Tuesday afternoon.

In the distant past when men had nothing but glimpses of ankle to masturbate to, actual sex must have been an earthshaking experience. It must have been the kind of thing that men died for… and created civilization for.

Nyascobar1414:
He will learn!

Okay, for Instance in AFRICA, Where bride price is a prerequisite for marriage.. How would a sane man, redpilled aware man, go pay half a million as bride price,250tubers of yam,2 cows and upto 20 male goats... All this for a left over product that has been banged in exchange for 2k, some Indomie and Egg...
I mean I'm always perplexed by the way some niggas settle for less... Females dont settle for less, I see no reason a man should commit to someones leftover...

The formality of African marriages makes men lose value once they want to commit. Imagine you and your spouse go out to see a Pastor as marriage formality and the Pastor is asking you in front of the wife that "hope you wont divorce her if she cheats?"

With the way marriage institution is only a fool will commit and take a look at Columbian and Mexicans, they cohabitate and probably grace it with a celebration after years of being together in an LTR arrangements and their relationship last. Cohabitation is much better than signing dotted lines

LifestyleTonite:
Don't be fooled. Do you think a handsome man just sits his behind doing nothing meaningful for himself? Perhaps, all attractive men are destitutes and homeless

The truth is, when an attractive man and a not attractive man are on the same level financially and materially, a large amount of women will always go for the attractive man. He always has an edge due to his genes.

In your next life, which of these two men will you like to be? Don't lie.

With training your muscles you can add 3 more point to your SMV no sh!tting and with improving your bank account and wallet with hardwork you can add extra 2 point to your SMV not leaving the fact that working out add extra year to your dying age.

If you are still a manboobs and not getting the extra lay its your fault. Gene is just icing on the cake for most guys

Couples place a lot of irrelevant demands on each other in a selfish effort to ensure the purity of their relationships. As soon as the demands start ratcheting up and the substance of the demands becomes less comprehensible you can bet that the complaints are coming from a place of insecurity. It is a sign of impending breakup to have to pay tribute to unreasonable requests just to keep the happiness flowing.

The fact that I keep naked pics of my exes on my computer provoked one of these insecure pout-fests from a girl I was seeing. She had “come across” them and wanted me to delete the pics to reassure her that I was not stuck in the past pining for a girl besides her. I rationally (as only a male can do) explained to her that the pics were keepsakes, like any other cherished memory, and deleting them would be like whiting-out passages from my autobiography and turning my back on what made me who I am today. They were no different than stored childhood photos or crayon drawings from 2nd grade art class. The part I left unsaid was that the naked pics would provide excellent masturbation material in my old age.

Just when she was at the frothy height of her indignation she got a call from her ex-boyfriend, with whom she was good friends, and I noticed the ringtone was a chirpy musical number I hadn’t heard on her phone before. I waited for the call to end then pulled out my cell and dialed her number.

*beep* *beep* *beep*

The default ringer!

“So you’re giving me a hard time about ex-gf pics while I don’t even merit a personalized ringer?! I get the default? Not even the halfway decent default either… my important calls get the most basic factory-installed beep. And your ex gets Vivaldi’s Four Seasons?”

“It costs money to get these ringers! Why should I spend money on a special ringer for you when you keep pervert pics of your exes? How do I know we’ll even be together in a month?”

chick logic.

“You didn’t know about my pics until today. But that extra-loving ringtone for your ex has been in your phone since you guys met, eh?”

Back and forth we went, building to a crescendo of angry wild boar sex. Most times the force of a woman’s emotions is enough to win her an argument despite the total lack of justification, but not this time. In reality, the ringer issue didn’t bother me in the least, but I knew that in a girl’s mental landscape an unfavorable ringer discrepancy was a clear act of relationship mutiny, so I played it for all it was worth. Pretending to be shocked and wounded, I filled her with guilt, until she dropped her demand and stalemate was reached. The naked pics stayed safe for my viewing pleasure.

I would’ve won in a court of love, anyhow. Ex-GF nudies are obviously less dubious than being a third-stringer on the ringer team.

Dollywood:
I did facefucked her tho. I was only impressed by her personality, she gives and doesn't ask for anything. I did facefucked her and did nasty things but I thought giving her that 2k was like a reward.

Too early man, too early. She needs to earn it.

One of my guys here told me she might use your money to subscribe calling some other dude via whatsapp or use your money to transport to meet another dude who she is ready to recieve his scooter in her gina right now, so funny but he ain't sh!tting

Update: track her ovulation period, next 12 to 14 days after she mentruated thereabout, tell her to come, ladies are attracted to guy they consider as alpha these times, during mentruation they like guys that shows beta quality, she might get attracted to you now showing your provisioning qualities

Dollywood:
Lmaoooooooo. I have a confession to make. Have I bleeped up? It goes like this..

I met this girl and we became friends, after a month of talking to each other everybody, I decided to like set up a meet up with her. This girl admittedly said she loves me, and she calls me everyday just to hear my voice. Tbh, this girl is very humble and doesn't like request or bill me in anyway. I do tell her that, girls that bill guys or something are a big turn off. (Yeah, I did chip that mentality in her head), and she even like said, "Boyfriend ain't suppose to be paying bills of any girl when he's not her father". That really impressed me to see a Nigerian girl with such mentality.
So we eventually meet up, and when we reached our destination, the bike man ain't got a change, so she willingly paid our bike money herself with her last card, I guess. So, we went inside and did our usual sexual blah blah stuff but we didn't have sex coz she on her period and she even showed me.
So, fast forward to when we're about to part ways, I noticed she ain't got like t-fare, yeah, coz she used her last change to pay for both out tfare so, I told her not to worry that I'll pay for it. Now, I stopped a bike, and she hopped in. So, I was kind of impressed by her personality, honesty and so on, that I handed her 2k and she even hesitated. But eventually I persuaded her to take it and she took it.
The next day she called and was like "if not that she doesn't wanna waste the bike man time she wouldn't have collected the money from me".


So, what do you guys think?

You should not be paying for anything to the girl you ain't banging, you have successfully shut are labia.

What you would have done to keep the alpha mojo going is to see her off a bit and change direction like you were going out to see some friends, if she ask tell her you were supposed to meet a lady friend who is close by (Preselection)

But a less beta way to go about it is to give the bike man the exact amount that was requested and not handing over the money to her. When she gets home when she calls, dont pick till next morning when you would call her back telling her you were so tired after you got back from who you went to see. If she press for what happened, say its complicated. She will be extra lubed next time she come over, sex guaranteed

You would notice after that experience she will have less gina tingles for you after you paid. its in their hindbrain. You fail a big shit test.

And corollary to she is on her period, you would have smooched her to the point she will be very on then tell her you would want your scooter in her ass. As you laid your story, if truly she digs your alpha mojo, she will take it in the ass or get facefvcked.

The last time a lady pulled that stunt. My scooter find his way to her mouth, I had no tissue paper at home, she offered herself an handkerchief in her bag to wipe after i jizzed in her face before she went to take her bath in my rest room.

Life Hack: Always have tissue handy, preferably one close to the bed.

LifestyleTonite:
I prefer a lady to have genuine desire for me as a human that for me to use money to attract her.

If you are attractive, ladies will make excuses and lie to themselves that you are not broke. And if you eventually get rich, the more the merrier for them.

But if you are average looking or ugly, they can you be with you for the money. If the money should grow wings, they will dump you instantly or treat you like trash. But for the handsome guy, they will cut him some slack and love him the way he is.

Looks is King.

If you doubt me, look at the three people in the photo below. Check what their eyes are watching.

May the God of biomechanics shower you with fresh pussies.

Women have a mental laundry list of traits they want in a man. Unlike men, it is not so simple for them to see an attractive guy from across the room for a sum total of 1.5 seconds and immediately want to have sex with him, no questions asked. They throw out hoops to jump through and head games to separate the worthy from the pretenders. As sexual gatekeepers, women rely on this complex social interplay to assess a man’s rank and deny or grant him admission to her body.

A crucial part of seduction is role reversal. You want to turn the tables on women and use their psyops against them. A man can magnify his desirability simply by having standards beyond face, boobs, and bum. It is intoxicating to a woman to be pursued by a man who will judge her for more than her looks. That means sticking to a mental list of qualifications women must meet if they want to enjoy the pleasure of your company. The trick is to pay it more than lip service; having standards means nothing if you don’t actually believe in them.

I know from experience and scientifically-valid astrological textbooks that certain character traits and behaviors are like signal flares of a drama-prone incompatible relationship. If a girl jumps on top of a bar to dance for an appreciative audience on our first dateI know she will be a poor choice for a girlfriend but a great ride for a torrid fling.

To any girl I meet: when I strike up a conversation with you this is what is going through the back of my head:

Don’t be that girl…

… who thinks diamonds are a better best friend than a dog

… who lost touch with her femininity

… who has given up on love

… who pretends she can play like a boy

… who flakes

… who knows what she wants a little too surely

… who is an attention LovePeddler

… who is practiced in the art of aloofness and indifference (that’s my job)

… who cannot handle teasing

… who has sexual hangups

… who cannot take a sincere compliment

… who has lost her joie de vivre

… who doesn’t understand that men and women complement, not compete with, each other

… who re-applies her make-up every 10 minutes

… with daddy issues

… who doesn’t at least reach for the check

… who likes being a trophy a little too much

… who reads between every line

… who curses and flips the bird a lot

… who uses too much trendy slang

… who will accept flirting from other men while we are out on a date

… who mugs for invisible cameras

… who is externally validated

This may seem like an exhaustive, impossibly unrealistic list, and for most girls maybe it is, but compared to the list of demands I occasionally read on craigslist from the sorts of women who’d be happier in love if they paid for it, I don’t think I’m asking for much right?

My next post will be brain nuke to the manboobs or femcunt among us. Unflattering truths

PstDapo:
,pls all men should wake up,i have been talking about this for a while now,men in the west have been feminized and pussified completely,it is gradually creeping in africa,i always complain about this,there is a conspiracy against men in todays society in nigeria,old men who have been manipulated by women and women themselves are cleverly manipulating society against young men,in other to hand over power to women in the future,they are cleverly subvertly doing this through government aid mainly from western governments,NGO's and sponsorship by successful women eg linda ikeji,they want to boost female power through exclusion of young men and boys,its a wicked conspiracy by women against us,old men as well as pussified estrogen filled younger guys are their tools.pls young guys lets wake up and bond together and help ourselves,the women have infiltrated mens groups and associations breaking the bond of men,while they form women only associations were they secretly plan their agenda,look at the nigerian defence academy were the pussy president allowed girls in,thereby watering down an association of brothers,pls men lets bind together and crush our enemies,women will know they cant compete with real men so they cleverly manipulate and pussify men,unfortunately men are falling for this,pls men lets wake up

so many men space are now been occupied by women. I work for a company, well known, as soon as a woman became the production manager, the great decline started, the company will be in ruin few years from now.

Beirut01:
What can make a man think this way

he's a man of no options. Once she gets all she wants from him, she will leave him out dry. What men don't realize is that women don't need your money to have genuine desire for you, infact money do the opposite, it works against their hypergamous nature.

Pukkalolo:
Guys, I just accidentally came across a nairaland post I wrote back then in 2017 ...My experience with women and my redpill insight has gone through the roof as at that time...

There are lots of wisdom flowing through the thread: check it out here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3757217/men-getting-weaker-women-getting

Corollary to your old post.

If men start holding women to be responsible for the consequences of their action maybe the Beta among us will have it fair.

Take the prime purpose from a man (sex drive), you will see the man acting alpha.

No guy hold better frame than a guy that has no working penile or a guy that has unlimited access to unlimited pussies.

We men are disposable sex and women are replaceable sex. Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive. Life ain't fair, in the society women are treated like a little snowflake but it doesn't take too long that a boy will realize he need to work twice as hard for things for just been a male.

That's why it's so hard for ladies after they hit the wall. Reality hit them hard, the attention they get when they were young is no longer there.

If you know what a post wall lady goes through probably you wanna thank God you are a man and cut her some slack. Her whole world crashing all at once

Women have short windows, that's why their solipsism is bat shit crazy at their prime

Be happy you a man

Jeremani:
I just randomly picked a number added it on Whatsapp, her about status was " Shiloh 2022 I more than a conqueror"

one stupid dude will be somewhere putting her on pedestal.

Herbworks:
There’s always that ex that is very angry with you and if given the opportunity can poison you. The reason is that it’s written in their manipulation book that when you give a man pussy the way he has never been fvcked he will do anything for her. So she comes to your house at every slight opportunity and wows your mind with amazing sex styles. But despite all these she discovers that she couldn’t take you. She kept asking herself how come you don’t pick her calls at first ring, how come you don’t call her like she’s holding your life, how come you don’t send her every money she demands, how come you don’t reply her messages like your life depends on it, and how come you still fvck other girls when she has given you the best sex to the best of her knowledge, how come you still dump her and refuse to put a ring on her finger despite everything she did to get you committed.

Whenever she sits she hates herself and doubt the manipulation tricks she has been taught. She gets depressed and sometimes she thought of committing suicide not cos she loves you but because she feels like a failure for not succeeding in making you give her your heart. How come her charms didn’t work on you? Why can’t you just keep your d*ck in your pant and stick with only her? In order to make herself feel better she starts spreading bad things about you, she starts telling people that you’re a misogynist/narcissist/ woman beater etc which was why she dumped your sorry ass even though deep down she knew you left her cos you got tired of fvcking her overslacked pvssy.

She starts spreading hates against guys like you; fair guys are too proud, dark cute guys are broke and too lazy, guys with big dvcks are broke cos they think a woman should worship them cos of their dvck size. But deep down they know that the reason for their hate is cause they couldn’t tame you, they just couldn’t make you commit, they just couldn’t control you and make you hate your friends and loved ones cos of them.

They can go as far as contacting your new girls and telling them nasty things about you but the more hate they spread, the more the girls draw closer cos an average girl is stubborn and always like to experience things themselves before they believe.

They wonder what makes you different from the other guys that are drooling over them, they wonder while you don’t spend on them like the other guys, they wonder why you still prefer to hangout with your guys than stay at home with her watching Netflix and fvcking in every position humanly possible.

ITS A GAME. The game is to make you commit to them while your game is to get as much pvssy without committing and the one who gives up easily loses. Despite her spreading hate about you, there’s always something she avoids which is to be in a room alone with a player like you cos she knows you have the key to her pvssy. A player always knows what to say or do to get into her pant.

The biggest enemy of a woman from 26 and above is a player. They avoid players like a plague cos they know that they can’t tame him or manipulate him to commit. So in their prime, they run after the players cos they always look presentable, lively, naughty, confident, and adventurous but when they’re done whoring around they avoid a player cos they know too well that no matter what they do, say, or the sex styles they present they can never make him commit.

So when they can’t get a player, they settle for the religious brothers that believes God will settle them with a good wife cos they’ve lived their lives well. So they noticed the beautiful girls that have been played by players and believe their God have answered their prayers. The religious brothers can’t seem to understand why a beautiful woman with all the amazing structures would agree to date them in the first place but what they don’t know is that a woman approaching menopause have less choice. That’s why pastors/alfas/Imams always marry beautiful women.

But what they don’t know is that they’re settling for the leftovers of players.

tl;dr
I believe you are talking about the alpha widow. Every girl have the guy they can't forget. The question is do you want to be that guy or the be the beta dude he wakes up to everyday and despises?