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Many men ridicule and disconnect themselves from the feminist movement. But I think it's time they start comprehending and associating themselves with it.
“Full definition of feminism:

1: the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes.”

Now that sounds like a very positive thing, a thing that everyone should rally for, doesn’t it? But for some reason guys (speaking generally here) like to throw that term around as an insult. If a woman is ranting about the struggles of womanhood she’s just an “irrational feminist,” and it even turns into an insult towards sexual orientation where men throw around insults about people being a “feminist lesbian”(as if either of those things are a bad thing to be). This has turned into a word that should make people feel ashamed, rather than empowered. This is a disgusting thing, and it’s turned into just a thing feminists have to deal with, that their title is to be seen as a joke to guys.

Men don’t like this term because on social media they are offended when hashtags such as #MasculinitySoFragile poke fun at men, but they act as if women haven’t been at the end of jokes for the entirety of their lives so far. Referring back to the definition, feminism means “equality of the sexes,” so if you want to make a women-in-the-kitchen joke, a woman can definitely make a joke about a man’s precious masculinity. I think that’s also where the problem stems from: men don’t think about, or truly understand what this movement is about, it’s just an inconvenience to them. They throw around the term “Social Justice Warrior” or “SJW” around, but why is that such a bad thing when they just want everyone to have the same opportunities? The same reason you would be judged by your friends for liking a nice romantic comedy movie is the same reason that women get judged for deciding that they want to get their hands dirty and become a mechanic: social inequality. Men don’t really acknowledge, or even really know, that this movement they ridicule is actually in their best interest as well as women.

I cannot think of one reason why a man should not identify with and be behind feminism. In a constantly judging world, wouldn’t it be nice to not have to worry about your masculinity or how tough you are? Wouldn’t it be awesome to be able to enjoy the music, movies, and even hygienic products you like without the world telling you that you’re not as “manly” as the dude in the gym shoveling in protein and watching action movies with his bros? These scenarios are possible with feminism. Do not misconstrue this as me selling you feminism like product on a shelf, just understand that it’s actually common sense.

Feminism is the best thing that have ever happened to mankind.

Timekeeper:
President Bubu has said his own, but this time, I will be showing the list of lazy Nairalanders. I have been keeping tabs of lazy youths on this site, Majority are in romanceland and dating zone... Check the list to see if your name is there
, kindly contact me. It's urgent

QueenSuccubus (dangerously lazy ) always criticizing broke guys
Blackhawk03 (extremely lazy)
Zana7
peteremu
galaciousbabe
Bibi294
sexybbstar (very lazy )
rebirthforgoody
predmine20 (fairly lazy)
RadicallyBlunt (radically lazy)
falconey
Dpussyhunter (see his moniker, lazy )
DeadRat (lazy rat)
Lifeofpolice1 (pot belly dey collect 20 Naira )
Nickijoy (lazy brat)
Maryclaire1 ( romantically lazy)
faithfull18 (lazy in a faithful way)
Beke2020
delectablegyal
Mynd44
Fynestboi
izaray
RoyalBlak007 (Blackhawk03 lazy twin)
Rokia2
egopersonified
IAMSASHY
tosyne2much
Divay22
Dasherz
stupidity
Rangojack
SoapQueen
Thegeneralqueen
elyna
highpriestess (generalqueen lazy twin)
Makydebbie (damn lazy Ghanaian )
BooTina
agbonkamen
vivie01
Danty37
TheTrueApostle
TheUpsetGirl1
Airforce1 (always updating his girlfriend status everytime, safe delivery for your wife in Jesus name )
Toks2008
Imapearl
handsomeguy4kyf
Rocktation
farano
pornhub


MissRaine69 (too lazy)


More list is coming ooo. Lemme just stop here for now......

just wait for mynd44 to see this post...

mumu

PUSSYHOE:
Ladies you are commodities and guys are the buyers, you must meet the buyer's taste and standard besides a small dick can still hit the spot and give you orgasm with right techniques but nobody wants to Bleep a loose pussy. It just not pleasurable.

Men can not pay for a product (pride price) and maintenance ( carter for your needs) and meet a loose hole, it is unacceptable. whoevert you Bleep that loose your puna you better marry that person because nobody wants that.

The fact that the mods can't delete threads like this shows how useless they are..

EmmyDJourno:
I have a younger sister I'm 3years older than, when i was 18 she was 15 she was way bigger than I was

I was the butt of all jokes back then, I had to double up on the beans, but today things have normalised

Girls grow fast, she is even too big for 24, I have seen 19years old as big as this, but it is cause she started chopping prick early

100%

AnonymousIP:


The Girl No Even Fine ...

See Her Latest Pictures Here : https://aprokogirl.com/2835/davido-reacts-to-alleged-fight-at-his-concert-in-zimbabwe-with-s-a-actress-boity/

80% of the girls davido have/is dated/dating are ugly..

davido you're a fool if those reports are really valid... Chai, a lady manhandled you

cc lalasticlala... Dominique

hadjipapiey:
Where's the live TV




And has a police officer turned police fore



Op is high

he's an assistant commissioner of police..

MISEDUCATIONS:
give everyone a chance to love what they love. we are not attacking you for loving non-virgins. cool it bro.
live and let live.

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Ironlion1:
Don't be silly bro. It is.

such characters are rare in Nigerian ladies

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Lalas247:
Tim is a well known Dj and radio guy
So he loves black girls .. very skinny dude like 6 foot something not actually pleasing to the eye ... but most chics that date him are mostly groupies so they go for his status and money ..(VIP access , back stage access, celeb access) you know slay queen na

When I was 16 his raves ( parties) were very popular I even attended a few then .... the good ole days

No matter how skinny he is, he should've went for white ladies...
most Nigerian ladies take the dependency mentality along with them everywhere they go..

Lalas247:
I’m good thanks, just about to have some lunch ... so hungry
But finished work now so I can relax after my meal ..

Hope you’re good too

yeah.. chilling with my wife

marriage isn't easy

Lalas247:
It won’t be physical fight just mouth, threats and bragging is what he does best ...
But I have seen it before so not surprised ...

Anyway still going to use his song as first dance sha FIA

when did fighting(not beating) with a lady become a criminal offense?

jessca048:
every one with their own preference. but I will say this virginity should not be the only factor one looks out for when choosing a life partner

don't try to impress the primitive dawg...
only virgins should marry virgins..

as if no be men deflower those non virgin ladies... nonsense

Okoh1:
A million likes

if we have many people like us in Africa, Africa will be a better place...

Twoclans:
LoL

Sweetie be like me, I have a PhD in jump and pass when I see a thread that does not sit well with me because truth be told the OP is entitled to his opinion.

Let me drag you out of here

let's go sweetie
BBN thread?

wait.. Davido allowed the lady to manhandle him?? smh.. pussynigga

Twoclans you're just observing

Saff:
I see

What is life without $$$?

Ladyhippolyta88:
LOL its their life and choice.They should not just insult others and make their opinions look bad.

They won't hear that... they want to force their opinions on others and make we non virgins look bad.

Any virgin guy that think he can afford my car should show up
nonsense..
everybody have their own life to live.
Virginity isn't a pride of any kind to me.. neither does it guarantee success.

jessca048:
why should I be sad.am just shocked that people like Op still carry this kind of archaic mentality. I don't hate on virgins but their mentality that the world owe them a prize for being virgins.

African men need to be liberated intellectually..
most of them think we're still in 1801

Ladyhippolyta88:
Exactly if that is the essence of wearing the white gown then it is clearly not a common reason again.

some African men are just disgracing manhood..
sometimes I regret being an African..
primitive fellows like ubunja and donstan18 will be ranting about a myth

Saff:
working lol you?

I'm indirectly working

Lalas247:
Can’t remember .. maybe was busy with other things

no probs.. how're you doing?

agbonkamen:
if I lie make e no better for me.... Joke aside

lmao

Saff:
yup

no biggie.. ✌
what are you doing right now?