₦airaland Forum

Lalas247:
match is on .. CNT read this right now

lols... you're a very funny person..
I understand your ways now..

you've been pretending ...

HeWrites:
What's the most expensive thing he ever bought for his Parents?

some nigerian guys eh...
They can't purchase something of 500k for their parents but they can purchase things of 5m for their girlfriends because of "hole"...

smh..

because of pussy...
well not my money...

luminouz:
Hustling ma nigga!!!
Hope u good!!

yes bro..

what is life without $$?
without $$ you're a dead man living..

hustle always

they must pay

shaybebaby:
From what I read on nairaland, even men are against it because they interpreted more rights and opportunities for women as less for them.

Let's not be biased. That you are male is great but you are also in the minority.

I'm even surprised many Nigerian men don't support feminism...
They want to continue controlling and dominating the woman with their alpha male nonsense...
nigerian men and their useless ego.. smh

feminism is the best thing that ever happened to manhood

TheUpsetGirl1:
Missjoy, prechbills and dondtsn stop disturbing my mentions

smh.. this girl wan use me play because of that fool

go get a job and stop spewing shits...

lols.. this boy is stupid

lols

Twoclans:
It means we are almost on the same page. So why are people against it?I don't understand. What exactly is wrong with what you wrote above?

Gender equality/feminism is something that needs to be embraced. And also more and more women should drop the long throat character and live within their means.

lol dearie.. only Nigerian ladies are against feminism

cool

MissJoy29:
You are right. But I'm coming from the perspective of why women make the outrageous demands & not really why men spend on ladies.
So you are right if we are viewing it from the-men-spending perspective.

Sometimes I don't pity these men when they get played like that. For obvious reasons. I only feel bad cos innocent people will be the ones to suffer from his descent into demoomn-hood.

nothing like innocent, ...

I wonder why some guys can't say "no" when some ladies make outrageous demands from them..

I don't just understand some Nigerian Nigeria...

donstan18:
When I'll start giving you the attention you'v being seeking, you'll deactivate

boy, grow up and go make some money.
we ain't and can never be on the same level.
like I told you some weeks ago, link up if you want to and stop spewing trash on my threads.
if I want to scam I know the people to scam not Nigerians.

shaybebaby:
Change is always difficult and when we speak about entire societies, it is always a slow gradual process.

The fact that we are having this conversation means the ideology is not going away anytime soon. It won't happen overnight, but gradually we will see changes the more women understand that it is more about the right to choose individually without facing barriers to enacting your choice.

Here, women are largely able to choose their roles within society. A lot of my friends are stay at home mothers with their spouses providing for the entire family. However they are not treated any less because the society recognises the important role they play in nurturing the future workforce of their nation.

I also have friends who are professional working mothers and again there is recognition and legislation to ensure they can balance their professional lives with their family lives eg right to request flexible working, state support to pay for childcare whilst working etc.

What I am saying nigerian women need to realise that feminism is saying you can be whatever YOU choose as long as its your choice. But do not accept limitations placed on your simply because you are female.

We ask that barriers limiting the roles women place in the society be removed, and support to be given to enable self actualisation of each and every woman.

it'll take time before Nigerian ladies start to embrace feminism...

majority of them are really lazy...
if equal financial responsibilities is removed from the ideology, 99% of Nigerian ladies will adopt feminism in a hefty

Twoclans:
I have commented on your two threads this morning I await your response

I've replied them.. you haven't respond

Twoclans:
Sweetie let's do this together ,below are my few general idea of what feminism is all about :
1,Equal education for the female child, people are advocating that the female child should also have the right to education.
2,The ability/equality to vote and be voted for.
3,People are also proposing that women should have right to political and managerial positions. Meaning when a woman is qualified she should not be denied just because she is a woman.

The above is what I understand generally, please oblige me with your own additions of what feminism is all about. I am beginning to think I have a flawed view of what feminism is.

to me feminism is all about equal social opportunities, equal political opportunities for both gender and equal financial responsibilities.

donstan18:
Something is wrong between that moniker, Theupsetgirl and some other monikers

We are yet to know the gender,

Maybe a scammer

broke boy can you keep quiet and stop saying trash?

MissJoy29:
Thank you. That's what I'm trying to say. If they know you won't spend, they won't demand like mad.

Sex starvation is one of the reasons. Not the only one.

Fools? Aren't you a man?

one of the major reason is the sex starved part.. they're so sex starved that they can't do without sex and if they don't give these hoes money they won't allow them have sex frequently...


I'm a man.. but I can't even remember the last time I spent cash for a lady?? except during my marriage introduction... if you want me to spend, then you must spend too

Oyindidi:
I'm happy for her. I pray God to help and lead her through this new journey

your lady finally got some cash

E-boo twoclans are you busy?? I can see you're viewing the thread..

luminouz:
Lmaooooo!!!
U this guy!!!

where have you been?

Faceless101:
It finally happened with a mixture of excitement and embarrassments. The embarrassment made the longing activities cumulated into an awful and horrible experience. It ended without penetration! The reason why I titled this thread with sex stems from the fact that sexual activities go beyond mere penetration of dick into the virginal. I had sex with other organs, but my dick was not fully activated. She played with it though.
It is not that I’m shy and unconfident that could prevent one from having sex at an early age in life.


The complexity of nature prevented sex in combination with the structure of my upbringing. Don’t think about religion. Religion wasn’t a dominant contributory factor. I’m not a nerd. I’m an introvert-extrovert. I have countless opportunity to have sex, but the possibility was missed either deliberately or intentionally.


To cut the story short, I finally had sex yesterday. Immediately had my sight on her already wet virginal, my dick went downward. I did every possible thing to restore the hardness. It did not bulge or rise for penetration. I sucked her boobs; she massaged my penis, I fingered her, did pre-intimacy and work toward perfection base on the tips I have read and videos I have watched (how to Bleep like a pro as virgin). The experience ended miserably and horribly. I did not tell her that I’m a virgin, and she is not a virgin. She is 25 years. She is mature and experience. I believe that she must have suspected the tendency of my virginity, but she did not say anything embarrassingly to me. Her countenance did.
The reason for this write-up is hinged on the expectations to receive advice from the gurus in the house. I have read that nervousness can cause erection problem. I was not nervous, and the level of my confidence was high. Till now, I haven’t experienced a full erection. I don’t masturbate. Did it once in runner-up to the first sexual experience, but did not work.
Please, I advise me!


cc. Lalasticlala

what is wrong if you remain a virgin till marriage??


why do you want to have sex??
is sex your priority in life?

highpriestess:
hmmm,that's way too much.
I'm not a feminist,but I support any positive changes they bring to the table.

feminism is the best thing that ever happened to womanhood.. you need to be happy

shaybebaby:
Anecdotal evidence isn't enough however this isn't an academic forum so it's all good.

But I will agree that religion is a major culprit amongst other things like systemic oppression, poverty and lack of education. When I include education, I am not referring to formal education solely.

most Nigerian ladies don't like anything connected to feminism , ..I don't know what they're scared for ,after all they're going to benefit from the ideology ....truth be told, Nigerian women aren't ready for gender equality

CSTR1003:
I don't like the romance section.

Take the topic to culture

romance section is the right place... there are many primitive beings that need to be liberated here...

BTW culture is dull

shaybebaby:
Are you sacconducting a poll or asserting a fact?

Better be the former cos you can't post unsubstantiated info without back it up (where is the research behind it?)

you aren't even living in Nigeria... let any lady come and deny/denounce my claim..

every sensible person here knows that I just said the truth.

shaybebaby:
Are you conducting a poll or asserting a fact?

Better be the former cos you can't post unsubstantiated info without back it up (where is the research behind it?)

lol.. my interactions with Nigerian ladies and their posts on social media says that.

in fact majority of churches in Nigeria are always preaching against gender equality... reason I'm beginning to hate some pastors

Shedrack777:
guy you are trying to say God is also a disgrace to mankind which is blasphemy. God did create man and woman to be equal from the very beginning, that's why he called them weaker vessels. if you said women should be equal with man, you're also indirectly saying men should be equal to God.

this thread isn't meant for overzealous people..

God never called anybody weaker vessels.
men and women are equal anybody who think otherwise must be living in 535BC.

highpriestess:
Why do you say so?

that's the fact...

any lady who doesn't support feminism is a disgrace to humanity...

pocohantas:
LOL. What's your real handle?
You are so good at getting romancelanders worked up.
You must be very familiar with the environment...

this is my real handle..

Lalas247:
you are alone on this o.
you don't have to support their views but some points made by those who do are valid n respected.

I.e both must work. and have stable income. I support that 100%
shalom....

can't believe this is coming from a lady... tears

julimax:
And why are you so pained more than the people feminism will benefit??

U wan change sex?

lol.. feminism is of benefit to both genders.