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Have you tried to quit masturbation but can't?

It's because you are trying to stop something that your body has adapted to for years.

Think about it: You can't just wake up one day and say "i will not eat food again"

Your body has become used to food and you will miss it dearly if it is not available.

Your body has become used to masturbation and you will miss it dearly if you stop for a few days. This is why you keep going back to the habit after sometime.

What if you could wean your body off it?

What if you could progressively reduce the amount until you no longer hunger for it?

This is a new approach to breaking masturbation addiction.

I have created a clear roadmap on how to do this in my book here

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Everything about women is usually exaggerated including labour pain.

If a woman is stronger than you then, so be it but stop dragging us all into your cowardice.

BoredBerry:
For sex... Like I always say, your big manhoods are your only saving grace...

And most of you aren't even big... Just a racist stereotype...

But your small brains wouldn't know that...

we are big actually... Bigger than the biggest.

And no one seems to want y'all

Biglittlelois:
Why are you deflecting? You say Nigerian women depends on inheritance and divorce proceeds when everyone knows that is a blatant lie, it never happens here cos inheritance are always for men, Nigerian women work for their money cos they do not get any inheritance anywhere

Learn to comprehend what you spill next time.

it's the work for their own money I can't comprehend. Which money is that?

Biglittlelois:
All? Lol come back to Nigeria, where it almost never happen, Nigerian women work to achieve what they have, and come to this forum where you guys like to claim what you did not achieve, your stats applys to only white men and the western world, it is not for Africa men, you guys are the dregs of the world(sorry but not sorry) don't claim what you didn't work for.

seems like you are living in a parallel dimension or believe your own made up lies.

Nigerian women are the most dependent men

Biglittlelois:
You do know Oprah Winfrey exist right, even your President will feel intimidated when he sees her physically, talk more of you, your family, and generation.

I doubt buhari will worship Allah if he was a woman.

Talk more of Oprah Winfreys whose networth is not even up to quarter of Dangote's.

She'll be previledged if she ever get to shake buhari's hand in this life.

BoredBerry:
You bore me...

Again, without white men, black men's existence would be meaningless... White women have contributed far more than black men have...

All you've done is create a stupid thread to argue something everyone knows... I've given you the reason it happens... So what are we debating?

If you train your daughter to hustle, she would... Simple...

Same way the whites trained black men to stop worshipping waterfalls but reason...

If you train your daughter to be a wife and mother, that would be her only achievement... Don't complain then...

All you've done is give Feminists a battle to fight... So thank you...

I believe men are irrelevant, unless you love them... If not for poor upbringing and laziness, most women wouldn't need them...

Lolz.

There's nothing boring where ever I am.

This your argument is incoherent. Saying white men taught us to do away with worshipping god in any form is fallacious.

We've been training girls since 1960, they still can't get up to par with the boys.

Today we are creating special programs for them in schools and tech while leaving the boys to fend for themselves as they have always done.

If anything women are like the disabled human being compared to boys and that's why we keep giving them head start in everything.

BoredBerry:
Lol... Compared to white women... You're asswipe...

And God bless every Nigerian/African/Black woman embracing feminism...

lolz. Surely, Not the same white women that "go black and never go back again?"

Biglittlelois:
Which of this women are you talking about when it comes to inheritance and divorce proceedings? African/Nigerian women or those in the western world?

all

Olaoluwa112:
Story o story o.

Abeg getto

Shay dude no get house ni, na Nairaland he dey stay?
When you dey Bleep, na where Una dey meet, Nairaland?

the thing weak and reweak me o

Candidlady:
Iam one of your followers....


IWork with an organization that scouts for mad people...


And you fit the requirements


Later you go say you no carry woman kaya for head..


Paucitywriter

lolz.

Why do you people scout for mad people though?

Jeon:
lolz me and the girl ain't same..
and you laughing at her made her zeal to be dead.


no need to tell you...
my life my business..
as I said there will be competition between ourselves.


I'm building myself right now, that is why I avoid relationship so that I will not encounter seefinish from men like you that loved to put women under carpet...


Rest baby boy. I work with my talk

*Yawns

Everybody is something cool online

Goldbw122:
Ok, you won't get that in Nigeria.. so make your mind just rest...

you can't feel special in Nigeria.

Too many angry bosses here

Jeon:
they will be competition between me and him among our children to prove that the stereotypes about

the princess' dream.

I once asked my girl what does she want and she was like 'one day I'll like to be a boss, have my own business empire'

I laughed and she became shy and was like why are you laughing at me?

I say OK, what do you want to be boss of? What type of business will you want to grow into an empire?

She hasn't thought of it yet. And I then I started explaining things to her, how everything is a process.

In all honesty, you will marry a marry who will be better off financially than yourself. In what ways can you prove to be better than that man?

More so, what are you doing right now to set that step right?

No be to de talk talk

Jeon:
for

Feminist to the mud "successful women" to flat breast..

lolz. Seems I got a new follower after all

Trust me, ion hate women, I just hate the net of lies they are weaving around us.

BoredBerry:
Exactly!

That's why you're arguing in favour of them being dependent!

These women... Without men they would still survive...

Same way Black men found a way to survive with Whites...

If you train your daughter to be responsible for herself, she would...

It's not a gender thing... It's gender roles and stereotypes...

blacks are surviving. Not living.

I mean look at africa, 60 years after independence and we are still looking up to the white we chase away for hand outs and bail outs.

We are surviving. Not living.

So let me rephrase that previous sentence very well, without men, most women would be surviving not living. They would be breathing but their existence would have felf meaningless.

@boredberry it's funny how you wouldn't talk to me at a time

Jeon:
being with a man as a husband no mean say na the man dy provide for them..

I have many and saw [past ]seeing [present and future tense to continue ]that are under the roof of a man yet they still cater from themselves like the man is not existing ..
small examples are
our akara women or mama put ..
come to Edo state and see how women hustle like men while men can be found in barpalour gossiping..
same thing in maiduguri where I resided [ you will see the men siting down under the tree with mat doing nothing but gossiping ]

I hate when we are talking about the big picture and you girls start talking about your personal experiences.

Look at the big picture. Out there, most women are dependent on their men. Most.

It's like standing at the beach and picking only one grain of sand and you feel you know all the other grain of sand. The numbers are over you dear

BoredBerry:
Don't be ridiculous!

No one works for free...

In the West... Blacks and Latinos are paid less than Whites... Is it their fault?

In South Africa, Blacks are paid less also... And the Black women suffer more... Earning little for doing the same job that Whites and Black men do.

so that convinces you that the care giving industry if paid will generate as many rich women as men today?

If paid, care giving wouldn't be a skill and even if it's a skill, the entry requirements will be so low that anyone can get in as often as they want.

This will saturate the market so much that women will not only compete with themselves but also with unskilled men.

Once again, men will take over because they have nothing to fall on and so will be more persistent.

And if we are to pay women for household jobs will she in all honesty generate as much as a male programmer or forex trader or engineer working at the same rate?

The areas women tend to excel at always have very low requirements and not profitable.

Men will rather move move mountains with nothing but forks and spoons to be paid more, women will rather wait to marry such men.

Don't blame the men

Jeon:
Even though they acquired the skills, can they use it? especially those who married demon in human form as a husband..
I knew many women that got sucked by their husbands..
mama gift
mama Michael
mama fib.
Priscilla
Florence
Linda [my cousin sister ]
macilia
semira
mama lucky
mama eken
to many to mention... all are graduates.
don't underrate women because of some of the useless small small girls that allows some of you miserable men to have access to their pushy..

woman belongs to the kitchen coming from ur built with tail infront.. and still have the gut to made the above statement @bolded

I can't name all the countless women that are able to survive today because a man gave them the previledge of being their husband.

Nonexisting:
Talk to veterans like us and learn. I love big breast but once I suspect I'm dealing with fallen heroes, then I will not let the dogs out. Whatever I do to them must be in the confinement of a strong push up brazier. Even when I want to suck the nipples, I simply bring only the nipples out and after that, I put them back and continue handling them inside the bra. I do this because one look at any defect in a vaginarian's body such as flat breast, hairs on armpit or bushy hairs in vagina area, I lose erection like politicians lose elections.

no be juju be dis?

CandyOps:
Fallen boobs doesn't mean too much mileage.
Could be weight gain

Big boobs don't mean it's fallen. I'm taking from experience. I've seen hookers with firm boobs. So ?

I don't really know about this but it wasn't pleasant at all.

God airpus o

Jeon:
"What is clear is that this unpaid work is fueling a sexist economic system that takes from the many[women ]and puts money in the pockets of the few,"[men and some women that rebel against men ]


a myth from your view not mine..




there is...
why opening up this page this morning?
because you felt intimidated and need a support from you fellows that never get rest off from any issues associated with women.

Wealth inequality is also a story of gender inequality.
Looking at a list of the richest people in the world
Taken together, the wealth of the richest 22 men in the world equal all of the wealth of the women in Africa The imbalance of wealth between men and women is at least partially due to the unpaid care work (taking care of children, elders and the ill) and domestic work that women are often responsible for.
The total value to the economy of women's unpaid care work is at least $10.8 trillion per year.
In the United States, women spend 37% more time doing unpaid care work than men,
That equals 2.1 extra hours per day of unpaid care work for women. Over a year, that means women are working more than 95 extra 8-hour-days for no pay. This time spent doing care work limit's women's career choices, income and personal development


now I see why AoifeNightFall came up with her last topic on bills and domestic work equality.

the problem lies not with men but women that fail to acquire the skills needed for paid work.

BoredBerry:
The numbers are completely irrelevant... That's why I'm shocked... This entire thread is stupid...

Are you in the list?

Is your father?

The millions of Nigerian men?

Compared to the world's male population, how many men are on the list? That's why it doesn't matter...

You don't need to have a hundred thousand naira in your bank account to be financially independent... You need to have a mindset... ONLY! Training helps and that's why most women are unlucky because they lack it...

How much do you have?

There are wealthier women on this forum... But you wouldn't starve because you're your OWN responsibility... That's been drummed into your ears since you were a kid... Me too!

you seem to like saying a lot and saying nothing at the same time.

Boggles my mind.

If we come to my father's category, he beats at least 80% of the women in that category.

If we come to my category, chances are I'll be better than 80% of the women in that category.

That's the implication of that statistics. Not merely billionaires but in all categories of wealth, a man will be better than 80% of women in that same category

So people have been talking about flat or slippers breast and it always seems like a myth to me.

For one, I've never gone to bed with a girl with fallen melons before.

Most of my girls are young anyways, mostly 22-24.

Yesterday was different though. Na like this e happen.

So there's this girl I met recently (I tend to toast girls a lot nowadays to improve my game) during a night class.

I saw her reading and she looked cute, fair and a nice figure. So I had plans to approach her.

Didn't want to do it in the class, so immediately she left, I followed her, just say one or two things of the usual and got her phone number.

Called her a couple of times and she was doing shakara (normal normal).

So, last week I went to school at night and brought her home (never a fan of going on a date. Ion understand why I need to discuss over a meal). Sit her on my lap and was touching and stuff.

Moment, I removed her bra and my her touched her boobs, I was quite disappointed and thought right there and then that "they don use this one tire o" and if I'm to do anything with her, I must use protection.

No one deserves a pair of fallen melons. Instead of being soft, the thing come de squishy like say na sponge I de squeeze. I'm not sure I'll ever pick any girl with big boobs again especially those that their boobs are bigger than their asses.

Sha nothing come happen. She go come back after skul resume but from the picture of the breast, I'm just wondering about the condition of the hole in the middle.

Jeon:
death to the insecurity men that feels intimidated by successful women.

.

seems you are not getting the point: there are no successful women anywhere before men will be intimated by such mythical women.

It's like saying men are scared of dragons but the clown saying this knows that dragons don't exist but still continue to argue on.

Successful women if anything is a myth. How do you describe a gender as successful when 80% of that success come from men?

You get? No successful women to get men intimidated.

BoredBerry:
So you support the Op's argument that a woman can't be financially independent?

According to you... It's impossible...

I don't get it!

Hoe you open your foul mouth to complain this minute that women are entitled... Then open it a minute later to agree with an idiot that women can't live without a man because they are incapable (a result of their gender) of hustling...

women can.

Theoretically speaking, there's nothing in the way of women that can prevent them from being whatever they want to be, including being self sufficient

But most women will not and in reality, cannot because they don't have the tenacity to do so.

When you get things handed over to you easily and with little expectations to be anything, the ceiling becomes your highest point.

On the contrary men are motivated to succeed because they have to. They have no second alternative, that's why they will most likely work their ass off to succeed.

So, biologically we all can be successful. But biology is just not enough.

Look around you, most guys are learning programming, forex, cryptocurrency etc on their own even after earning a degree, how many ladies are motivated to do the same?

Very few if any exist.

Even though everyone knows that such skills are the next big things in the world. But most ladies are doing nothing about it.

Why are the boys learning such skills in drove? Because they have patriarchal previledges?

50 years from now men will still dominate the world because they are quick to develop themselves while you girls will continue screaming ojoro

BoredBerry:
You're just being stupid (pardon me)...

You're arguing that a woman can't be self-sufficient?

How many men in Nigeria are millionaires?

Yet, as a man... Do you depend on women to feed? To pay your fees? Your rent? And other bills? No!

So why must a woman fall in the 'Ten richest persons' list before she's independent of a man?

It takes only a mindset...

Because of culture, women have relied on men... No more!

Compare your upbringing with that of a woman... She's literally groomed to be a wife and mother... Not a provider unlike you...

blame the numbers not me.

Just so you know, what this stat is saying, go to the billionaire levels, men are above

Go to the Millionaire level, men are still above.

Jeon:
your being a liability and a bitch that knew nothing apart from pumping offspring no mean say their mothers is same..

I wouldn't describe a woman like this, but way to go girl

Jeon:
who married woman for fame and fortunes..

Aaron Taylor-Johnso
Nick Cannon [I saw his headlines saying he still love Mariah and want her back ]
Ashton Kutcher
Lola Mrs p
Joseph ameh
and the rest commoners..

you can at least count the number of men in this category.

But all women marry men that are richer than themselves, well except for the ones you listed here and ASAP Rocky and Rihanna.

Jeon:
parents +family +father

no dey whine my nipple.

We all know that saying wealth through parents is just being polite. The fathers achieve the success almost alone and the support they got is knowing that the mother at home will b*tch or probably bail on them if they don't work harder