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HellO Prettydani..
Well,I really need to commend you for your sincere expression of what happened and been Your first Post, it deserves attention and it shows you can as well be in tune with the reality of my Observation.
Now understand that Man is a Logical being.
He invited his friend to his House when you were around NB Not in your absence or you overheard, did you give that a thought? it was a way of telling her directly that He's already in relationship with You & that You are a such a simple ,kind hearted lady to meet. Conclusively, He's proud to showcase You. He told her to come on the basis that You can make her Up..? & Your NO says a lot about the arrangement.
> YOUR RESPONCE
'You know I'm not feeling well, I don't even know how to make myself up for the party that evening"
You were not feeling too well but you got the strength to fix something to eat at the Kitchen..? Making someOne up does not take much strength....Don't you think She would have been of help to make You up too. You broke the Chain by Saying NO.
> He even called your frienD to take her to a make-up artist around to make up for your embarrassment. ........He got angry and was like after embarrassing him and refusing to make up his friend that I should leave him alone~ Do you know that alone can reduce his morale at the said Company.
> He called your friend to show He's more mature handling issue. What if he has stepped out to take lady to a make-up artist himself? You will be more Jealous & angered.
>
> So You took Your bag and Left. Again, that was an error, what of the party you came for? You mean weeks of Planning & discussion of the said event will just go like that after all you have been through togethe[/b]r .He kept wondering that you didn’t even realized your embarrassement to him.
>[b] You left and you were not at peace with yourself, that was your conscience trying to save the day for you,the only way to establish that peace was to say YOU are SORRY and that would have solved the equation, but You went back asking Questions. Do you want to leave me..? & Yu expect him to say No..? If you leave, he should not call you again & he affirmed that. Though might be emotionally painful but you sowed a bitter seed with that statement, he got to his sense that you don’t even need him anymore, he doesn't want to get tempted to call You again & acted based On your Statement.
[b[b]]You got angry and even broke your phone.[/b] [/b]Wao! If that was a plate in your hand, you might as well break it. Am Sorry to say You do have anger issues.

Woman is an EMOTIONAL BEING , from his reactions you thought it was because of the lady..? Nope, it was based on the reasons above. NB it’s very hard for a man as a logical being to communicate in details.
He told You that he wasn't interested that [b]You have anger issues and you need to fix yourself [/b]that he can't deal with me....
He really do have you in mind but he has a fear he cannot cope with his observation of anger in you.. Am glad you are a Christian, do you know what that can do to a home from biblical perspective..?.  First step- How do you get to fix yourself…. What measures have you been taken...?Get BooKs, Messages, with Prayer, Forgive Others, Learning to be a Companion + 4 Simple tips of courtesy like SORRY.  The second step will surely bring you together more happily

You such a wonderful and sincere lady, you deserve a second Chance..

Thanks for your advice.
First of all, I told him quietly that I couldn't, I was sick for crying out loud. Me coming over Sef wasn't easy. Just that I didn't want him to feel left out. Secondly it was a couples thing, why invite another lady that I don't even know.
Thirdly, he refused to talk to me again cos I told him I couldn't make the girl up ( I'm not even a makeup artist).
I tried talking to him but he was snubbing me. You don't expect me to go out with someone that wasn't even talking to me.
Fourthly , I came back to at least make peace with him and see if I did something else that was getting him angry. All the while he was snubbing me. Not even giving me a listening ear.

Finally, everyone has their limits to which they can tolerate things. I've never in my life gotten angry to the point of breaking things. Besides breaking the phone wasn't intentional.

He was the one that was angry with me in the first place.

Thanks alot for the advice. I appreciate. God bless you all

Daniel2289:


I read your post quiet well. But Let's look at the other side of the coin. DO YOU REALLY HAVE ANGER ISSUES

Be that as it may, What your boyfriend did was really bad. He knew ur predicament, and still hurt u emotionally. U said over a month, He has not called. This shows that he has lost interest in u.

One thing u must know is this.... You can't talk or beg a person into staying with u if they don't want to stay. Life must go on, and u have to move on with your life. There are Billions of fishes in the sea. And there is always someone better..... GOOD LUCK.

thanks. I won't say I have anger issues because we've never had an issue like this. We weren't even quarrelling. So I don't know why he would say that

Troublemaker007:


The way some guys treat women is an embarrassment to we guys. On behalf of all the good boyfriends out there, please accept our sympathy. Your Bf dey front dey wait you and not that kid you call a boyfriend

thank you so much. �

Thanks guys. I appreciate. I'm also working on myself. I don't believe I have anger issues but I shouldn't be expecting a finished product while I'm a work in progress

GraGra247:
@ prettydani just understand that the egg head you call your boyfriend does not deserve you.

If your story is true, you did nothing wrong whatsoever. It'll be very heart wrenching but man up and move on.

The biggest mistake you'll make is going back to the senseless buffoon. Trust me he'll do something far worse. That's how wicked men make innocent ladies to commit suicide.

thank you so much.

Hi guys. This is my first post here and I want to be as sincere as possible...

Sometime in December last year, I was sick, having series of chest pain. So my boyfriend of over a year called me and told me about a party in his company and they were told to come with their spouses, girlfriends, fiances. Although we've been talking about it, so I came over to his house irrespective of how I was feeling. Just so he wouldn't feel left out in the party. So I took my drugs and was trying to rest a bit on the bed. The next thing he said was "my friend is coming and I want you to make her up. " note : I'm not even a makeup artist. So I was like " I can't. You know I'm not feeling well, I don't even know how to make myself up for the party that evening" he got angry and refused to talk to me. I was surprised. I ignored him initially then went to the kitchen to fix something to eat. Then I overheard him on the phone talking to a friend of mine that he would send her a number that she should take the girl to a makeup artist around and do her makeup. So I came out from the kitchen and was like " baby let me join na, you know I'm not feeling well "... He got angry and was like after embarrassing him and refusing to make up his friend that I should leave him alone.

I tried talking to him he just stood up and went to the bathroom. So I took my bag and left. When I got to the junction, I wasnt at peace with myself. I needed to know if it's cos of makeup that he's so angry or I did something else without knowing. So I went back and he'd locked the gate. I knocked for a while before he opened the door. So I told him we needed to talk, I was trying to talk to him but he was snubbing me and moving around the house. I was like do you want me to leave, he said yes that would be better. I told him if I leave, he shouldn't call me again, He said that's not a problem and deleted my number in my presence. I got angry and even broke my phone. I told him so because of another lady you want to throw away all that we've been through. With tears in my eyes... He didn't care. Just wanted me to leave ... I left his house in tears and he never called me back. I got home hurt, couldn't sleep was thinking, my mum asked why I didn't go for the party again I told her It was cancelled. That night I took sleeping pills regardless of the fact that I was on other medications...

It knocked me out and I found myself in the hospital the next morning. My mom called my supposed boyfriend, he came there and after that he never called, texted to know if I've been there or discharged...

It's been over a month and he hasn't called. My mum invited him over for Christmas he didn't come.
I tried talking to him yesterday and told me that he wasn't interested that I have anger issues I need to fix my self that he can't deal with me....

I need advice here. Cos I'm finding it difficult to move on. Cos even my pastors and family are aware of our relationship.

Hi guys. This is my first post here and I want to be as sincere as possible...

Sometime in December last year, I was sick, having series of chest pain. So my boyfriend of over a year called me and told me about a party in his company and they were told to come with their spouses, girlfriends, fiances. Although we've been talking about it, so I came over to his house irrespective of how I was feeling. Just so he wouldn't feel left out in the party. So I took my drugs and was trying to rest a bit on the bed. The next thing he said was "my friend is coming and I want you to make her up. " note : I'm not even a makeup artist. So I was like " I can't. You know I'm not feeling well, I don't even know how to make myself up for the party that evening" he got angry and refused to talk to me. I was surprised. I ignored him initially then went to the kitchen to fix something to eat. Then I overheard him on the phone talking to a friend of mine that he would send her a number that she should take the girl to a makeup artist around and do her makeup. So I came out from the kitchen and was like " baby let me join na, you know I'm not feeling well "... He got angry and was like after embarrassing him and refusing to make up his friend that I should leave him alone.

I tried talking to him he just stood up and went to the bathroom. So I took my bag and left. When I got to the junction, I wasnt at peace with myself. I needed to know if it's cos of makeup that he's so angry or I did something else without knowing. So I went back and he'd locked the gate. I knocked for a while before he opened the door. So I told him we needed to talk, I was trying to talk to him but he was snubbing me and moving around the house. I was like do you want me to leave, he said yes that would be better. I told him if I leave, he shouldn't call me again, He said that's not a problem and deleted my number in my presence. I got angry and even broke my phone. I told him so because of another lady you want to throw away all that we've been through. With tears in my eyes... He didn't care. Just wanted me to leave ... I left his house in tears and he never called me back. I got home hurt, couldn't sleep was thinking, my mum asked why I didn't go for the party again I told her It was cancelled. That night I took sleeping pills regardless of the fact that I was on other medications...

It knocked me out and I found myself in the hospital the next morning. My mom called my supposed boyfriend, he came there and after that he never called, texted to know if I've been there or discharged...

It's been over a month and he hasn't called. My mum invited him over for Christmas he didn't come.
I tried talking to him yesterday and told me that he wasn't interested that I have anger issues I need to fix my self that he can't deal with me....

I need advice here. Cos I'm finding it difficult to move on. Cos even my pastors and family are aware of our relationship.

Stupid fool... Bragging about rape. You just look like an ape. My your kind rot in the pit of hell. What a waste of sperm nkita

it's not even attractive....

get well soon dear

koolet:
they don't even know you

I didn't ask for your opinion..

what about food and water??.

oyibo people too dey do

they are really cute... but I don't like guys that make their hair.
congrats anyway

and one man was busy taking selfie instead of the main thing. Smh.

please where is the 50 different Ankara prints that she rocked...

I and my household including my loved ones will not and can never be a victim or Victims of circumstances
.....

we shall all live to see 2018.

like if you believe that too..

I and my household including my loved ones will not and can never be a victim of circumstances
.....

we shall all live to see 2018.

like if you believe that too..

God bless your home.......