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Kobojunkie: You are trying to [b]FORCE [/b]your child to accept him because YOU have accepted new boyfriend/fiance? You want to [b]FORCE [/b]everyone to do things in your own time? What if this new boyfriend/fiance of yours up and leaves in a couple of months? What will you do? [b]FORCE [/b]your child to call your next fiance Daddy too?

I'm nt forcein her to do any thing cuz she already lovesz and accept mii fiance and he dha same wiff her...soo I'm nt forcein anybodi to do nunn...and I jusz dnt bring guysz around mii kid soo if we we're to break up and nt get married no I won't have her kall dha guy daddi too cusz dha nxt guy won't even b around her...it took him almost a yr of usz b'n together for him to even see mii and meet mii kid n person

gst101: me ma no understand her english too o.
Op, i do not think you should pressure her to do it. It willl be a bit difficult for her psychologically.

Calling your step mother 'mother' is easier in a polygamous home where the mothers do not stay in different houses. This is becos, you were born into the system with that atmosphere already.

I grew up in a polygamous home the type i mentioned above and we all call our mothers 'mama'. We specify only when its necessary. So its that easy for us! But for a child who did not grow up in the atmosphere i painted, it will be a bit difficult to accept the new lover

Mii thing isz she already acceptsz mmii fiance love asz well...her father isz n a new relationship and had ababy wiff disz girl...and there nt engaged or married and he allowsz her to call hisz new baby mother her step mother....I feel lyke dey shud of tlked to meh about it for dey made dhat decision and dhatsz wut I wanna do tlk to mii dauughter father about it so he kan b comfortable wiff our daughter calling mii fiance her stepfather....

Sisi_Kill: Now thatsz wazzzup!!

She from America, y'all!

She don't speak no stinking Nigerian English!!

Dhatsz rite frm america nt nigerian and dey tlkin bout y I kant type proper english wen dey kant even speak proper english...dnt kum for meh....I dnt understand half dha shyt dey type and I'm nt cum'n for dem...lol

dayokanu: why is it hard to write understandable English instead of this rubbish shorthand

Itsz nt hard bt disz isz how I type/txt and lyke I jusz tld dha last one if yuh dnt understand wut I'm typein dhen dnt clicc on mii shyt....I dnt understand half dha shyt errybodi pit on here abi odayo and shyt lyke dhat so for future recordsz stop cum'n for meh if I ain't cum'n for yuh...and dnt clicc on mii shyt if yuh dnt understand mii american shyt...thank yuh

ifyalways: Abi oh Dayo.
I wouldn't have clicked on the thread had I known she used this BS typing style.
Mii, dha,asz , is that the new vibe?

Dhen dnt clicc on nunn of mii shytsz...I kant understand nunn of dha shyt half yuh ppl pit on here...dnt kno we're nunn of u ppl are frm bt I'm frm america and disz isz how we type && txt...so if yuh dnt lyke mii shyt dnt clicc on it...thank yuh && hve a gud day...

Wen shud a child start callin der parents girl/boyfriend// fiance der step parents?? And shud dha parent wit dha girlfriend or boyfriend or if engaged tlk to dha otha parent abt the situation...
Ex: I'm engaged and I want mii daughter to call and to look at mii fiance asz her step father...and I want to tlk to mii bbyfather abt it...how shud I cum @ him wit it...

Thanksz soo mucc for dha congratsz...&& ure totally rite dhatsz how I feel...mii daughtersz father dose thingsz like dhat wen we first split he had erry female he messed wit around mii kid and now he livesz wit one and had a bby wit her and mii kid kallsz her step mom and I kind of feel sum type of way for the fact of dey nt married hasz no plansz on gettin marry...and I dnt want him to jusz move on to dha nxt hot pocket and she b kallin sum one else her step motha asz well...

Point blank I feel like dey shud of spoke to meh abt her kallin her her step motha...
Ima make anotha post abt dhat

feel like yuh shudnt bring a new girl/guy around ure child until yuh are sure yuh are gunna b n a commited relationship wiff disz guy/girl...I feel like yuh shudnt sho ure child dhatsz its ok to jusz have tom dicc and harry or tina katrina & susie kumin in & out of der livesz dey will grow up & member those thingsz we need to memba dhat our kiddsz are protagaese ov usz dey want to grow up & b jusz like usz...yesz we will alwaysz want dem to b betta den usz bt in der eyesz we are alwaysz perfect & dhatsz who dey want to b like wen dey get big... I didn't bring mii fiance around mii bby girl for damn ner a yr ...she kno disz is mommy fiance and we are goin to get married and he will b her step father....

chipmunkey: Seems you don`t like your job...

Itsz nt dha fact dhat I dnt like it itsz gud money in wut I do & sum nites itsz actually fun...like I said I dnt really do barsz I mainly do partiesz bt dealin wit driunk foolsz bii dha end of dha nite goin n2 dha mornin I jsz dnt want to b bother'd

Waking up of thoughtsz of happienss den reality hitsz n....dha struggle of b'n a single mom n a strained relaionship tryin to move forward wit n mii future bt kant wen dha crabsz at dha bottom of dha bucket keep pullin meh baq swn wit dem....mii life isz no movie bt dha script dhat god gave meh in mii life isz a hell of a one....jusz tryin nt to think of all dha negative keep focous on dha possitive....bt I once heard a sayin...ITS HARD TO STAY SUCCA FREE In A WORLD FULL OF LODDI POPS,,,bt I will try mii best to jusz b dha best nt jusz for meh bt for mii bby girl and mii new relationships...kant bring dha old n wit dha new....

Good day Niaralander
Pretty gurl moe

I feel like the right age is wen u are old enough to understand wut love is so that u will know that u love really truely love the person u are claiming u want to marry...I'm a 27 yr old female with a 4yr old daughter and I'm engaged to be married...its nt to my daughter father bt at one point we thought we was ready for that step too bt we was soo young and it didn't work out...bt now that I'm older and I know the real meaning of being in love I know this is the guy I want to marry