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shapey you are just so lucky to have all this varied advise all to save your marrage.but you too should not have forgotten our culture now! you should know that the closest person to a man is the 'mother'.
Just like your mom advise lock yourselves inside  and continue to beg,if he refuse to yield make trouble with him and any other thing just to draw even a slight smile from him.i can bet you that ends it.But never let him return to Nigeria without settling the matter.
to all you ladies the two worst things you can do that will annoy your man the most is to in any way do anything in the negative toward the mother and catching you in bed with another man.we are not OYINBOs' we are Africans who value our 'women'

hey viv you got guys going wide here , lots of phoneline;emails.don't contact them because your email is on the profile.only serious guy to me is ADICK

Rotimy sugar mummy's may not necessarily be of ones mother age mate but whoever is buoyant and matured enough to cope with someone younger.

At 5 months she is not so heavy not to have sex though some women don't like sex as much as they potend and on the other hand it could be that you don't let your wife really enjoy sex whilst she's not pregnant therefore may think that you have nothing to offer now that she's pregnant but pain. but since you actually want sex then the logic is spend time with her and let her rest more often and talk soothingly to her while cuddling her gently and be sure that there is no distraction whatsoever.get her in the mood no sex the first time,try again the following day get her in the mood another time and suck her breast much as you can since it is yours and joke about sharing with your incoming baby.more so the Holy Bible admonishes men to suck the breast of his wife.no sex again but do take your bath on each occasion I can bet that the next time you approach she will be more than willing.
If the problem is that she does not enjoy sex then the best positions are:---  doggy style;entering from behind lying on her side or face to face in sitting position or let her ride you.
Advise for her
The spoon position can be very cozy and intimate. In this case you should lie on your side curled in a C, with your partner facing your back and curled around you. He then enters your vagina from behind while both of you are lying on your sides.

Side by side: Another good choice for late pregnancy, this position will control thrust and keep weight off your belly. You and your husband lie side by side, facing each other. He slips his leg over yours (your leg can be either straight and to the side or bent at the knee) and enters you from an angle. In a variation of this, you lie on your back and he on his side. Put your leg that's closest to him over his legs. He can enter you from the back and side, and still have his face next to yours.

Woman on top: This can be a satisfying position during late pregnancy, allowing you to control pacing and be more comfortable. Make sure, however, that he doesn't enter you too deeply.

Edge of the bed: Try lying down face-up on the edge of the bed, with your legs spread and the soles of your feet on the floor. Your partner can stand or bend over you. This position, however, does allow him to thrust more deeply, so you'll have to tell him how gentle and slow you want him to be.

I had sex till the 8th month of my wife's pregnancy.
I hope this helps.

look there is nothing bad in a man backing his baby but it is silly of you to have brought it up'sorry about that' you women just think you love the children most but it's complete lie.the man love his children too and will do all to provide for them. back to topic i personally back my boy any time he wants to be too troublesome for the mother and the boy enjoys it,because it's not a regular occurence.so nothing is bad but don't suggest it.

Look woman. i have read through your first post , the advices and especially your responce and I've come to realise that you indeed love your man. my candid opinion is do not look for a male companion this will lead to sex.and it will not stop. this is how it will start. meet him bring up your husband attitude, do doesn't crucify him,will pity your condition, follow out on many occasion, will ask you out on festive occasion knowing your hussy LL not be available,take you to party, pampers you, will start with cuddling,advance to lite kisses,occasional deep kisses,close with conducive environment for sex.and there it is.gbam! can longer stop.
please don't look for one i know what am saying,am married and have friends male and female alike.