in this case, activities should be shared. madam dey do her hair to safe the family money. so oga for helep with the crying baby if he wasn't mischeivious.

_{BTW, i don't really eat amala but i think the green plantain Amala taste soooooooooo nice unlike the one from Yam (yam amala).} so give the baby real food and he/she won't cry for a long time but sleep long

Why not. The baby is mine. I am the father. I will feel happy carrying my baby even. I will play with him whenever i have time. I will not only be helpng my wife doing this, i am attaching the child emotionally to me.

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@ Davidylan ure so right about couples being free with each other. Couples are supposed to talk to each other freely without the fear of one giving the other the 'eye'. Some people make a great deal out of nothing. I can't comprehend y the guy was ticked off when he was told to carry his (their) own baby at the back. He should've done that without being told. Its his baby for crying out loud. He was told to carry his baby and not a monkey .

@Soundmind, ure so right. Stuff like this is gunna create a bond btw u and the baby.

[table]To me it was no big deal, we were @ hme and I did not ask him to go out of the house with the baby on his back. I was just tryin to make his life easier so he can get on with wot he was doing. I shld hav just ignored both of them, but u know how it is as a mother. [/table]


To me mam, carrying the baby on his back is no big deal but our Nigeria men can't because their people will think you have turn them to mumu. When i was still a child, my father used to carried my younger sister on his back when mummy is doing the cooking.

He has every right to carry the baby since he is your husband and the producer of the baby. Because i don't think a woman can pregnant herself when she is not Virgin Mary.

Let your husband carry his baby jooo.

look there is nothing bad in a man backing his baby but it is silly of you to have brought it up'sorry about that' you women just think you love the children most but it's complete lie.the man love his children too and will do all to provide for them. back to topic i personally back my boy any time he wants to be too troublesome for the mother and the boy enjoys it,because it's not a regular occurence.so nothing is bad but don't suggest it.

Why can't I take care of my babe?
I change my baby pampars, change clothe, feed, take him out while the mother is busy do as the mother
what's the deal?

oziomatv:

Why can't I take care of my babe?
I change my baby pampars, change clothe, feed, take him out while the mother is busy do as the mother
what's the deal?

God bless u ooooooo!! I say God bless u loads!! May ur pocket never dry!! May u never see sorrow!! Amen!!!

efuah:

God bless u ooooooo!! I say God bless u loads!! May your pocket never dry!! May u never see sorrow!! Amen!!!

It's not a thing of braging.
Nigerian difinition of a husband is, all domestic works are for women.
domestic work never reduce anything to my dignity at home hence it makes me romantic to my lady.

oziomatv:

Why can't I take care of my babe?
I change my baby pampars, change clothe, feed, take him out while the mother is busy do as the mother
what's the deal?

GUYS THIS IS THE RIGHT ATTITUDE TO HAVE!!!!!!
I don't know you other ladies, but to me a man doing this as oziomatv said is the most attractive guy ever!!! _{No I am not hitting on/flirting with you ozio} Any guy who helps out like that gonna get big rewards later!

kattrina:

GUYS THIS IS THE RIGHT ATTITUDE TO HAVE!!!!!!
I don't know you other ladies, but to me a man doing this as oziomatv said is the most attractive guy ever!!! _{No I am not hitting on/flirting with you ozio} Any guy who helps out like that going to get big rewards later!

@kattrina
  kool girl, you're not flirting neither am I saying it to attract ladies.

The answer is a resounding NO!!. . .

what da. . . . .

@poster!! he is exhibiting the African man in him. don''t blame him.

Yes men should carry their baby on their back

here i am doing so with my prince

why wont he carry his baby on his back? He/she belongs to him after all.

dgreatrock:

Yes men should carry their baby on their back

here i am doing so with my prince

u are carrying him on ur shoulder, u for carry him for back with ur wiffy wrapper.


its not a biggie but DONT USE UR MOUTH TO TELL HIM. l know my own hubby will not take that TRASH!!

@mypeace,
you are right, he is on my shoulders. but the truth remains that i back my kids with wrapper and use baby carriers when we go out. it gives me joy to it.
besides, it makes my wife respect me more.

i actually learnt it from childhood.

i grew up in the village where it is not out of place to so do.
so when i left the village to warri-ph-lagos, i couldnt out grow it

Why not, the baby is mine and i am sure will be so much fun, carrying him/her on my back and having fun, not even just in the house, outside too, any man or woman that dont like it the way i carry my baby, they could go and jump the train.
However, wont tie with wrapper sha, will be the baby carrier.

Thanks beloved for saying the truth.

Thegreatrock, the boy cute pass u wella.
Good job there jare.

@fhemmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
before
if i fine pass am na im be say im no try

dgreatrock:

@fhemmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
before
if i fine pass am na im be say im no try

You are a real man

I am flattered
thanks

I do it a lot. It's sure the joy of fatherhood.

@jamace i am proud of you!!!

In as much as is the fact that it's the wife's job to carry the baby, I wouldn't really mind carrying my baby back home at my back. I mean, it's my baby, who's business it is?

sOME MEN WILL NOT DO THE RIGHT THING EVEN IF THEY KNOW ITS RIGHT,REASON THE WAY AND MANNER THEIR WIFE APPROACH THE ISSUE. THERE IS A WAY YOU EAT YOUR FOOD AND PEOPLE WILL CALL YOU THIEF. I CAN DO IT AND SEE NO BIG DEAL,BUT ITS BETTER THE ORDER (I KNOW WOMEN WILL CALL IT ADVICE) IS NOT FROM MY DARLIG WIFE