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DATING ADVICE: LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR CRUSH.

Sometimes it is better if we let that crush remain a crush. That caring friend remain a friend, and that nice colleague remain a colleague. Than trying to take it a step higher and hurt each other in the process.

How many of your destiny helpers will you have feelings for before you realise that God has not put everyone in your life for you to date? I can only imagine how God feels when we come before Him asking for conviction to date someone He has put in our life to connect us to our purpose.

Sometimes it is wisdom to keep your feelings to yourself and enjoy the beautiful friendship you have taken time to build. Trust me the feelings will pass, it always does.

You are welcome to share your CRUCH experience with our community.

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Babe,
I see you naked everyday. We make mad love with the lights off some nights. But then, each time I watch you ministering on the altar I get swept off my feet with the anointing you usher into the atmosphere. So powerful, so strong that sometimes it leaves me in wonder; isn't this the same person that never wanted to let me go in our intimate moment last night? How is it that your presence carries an anointing that words cannot explain, each time you minister to the people, souls are touched, including mine... me that have seen you naked a thousand times.

I kiss your soft and gentle lips every day and it feels amazing. Then, each time you raise the fruits of those same lips to declare a thing it comes to fruition. I have seen it, I have experienced the fruits of your faith. I am a first hand witness to the power in the name of Jesus on your tongue. I am a first hand witness to the prophecies that comes out of your lips, those same lips that love to kiss for hours.

I have felt those tender hands all over me, when I'm cold, they keep me warm, wrapped in your loving arms, feels like the safest place I can ever be. With your fingers running through the back of my head straight down through my spine to my hips. Then, when I hold those same hands of yours to pray, I feel like everything we decree is possible. I feel chains breaking and the seas parting. I feel like it is the truest place I can ever be at, In the loving company of you, the Holy Spirit, and I.

I have eaten out of the bounty of your kitchen. My belly leaps for joy with a single taste of your delicious meals. You serve me breakfast in bed and dinner at the table. Then, you fill me up with the word that comes out of you, your Rhema is more than a 3 course meal.

I have, a thousand times, heard you moan when I put my body all over yours. I love it when you do that, each time. But then, that is nothing compared to hearing you moan In the spirit. Kayote Leba kabaye! When you switch into the tongues of the Spirit, for everytime, I feel the sweet presence of the THIRD person in the room even more.

Babe, I love how you are relevant everywhere. I love how you take control of your emotions. I love how you own and use the physical to your advantage, and, more than everything else, I love how you take command of the supernatural.
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100 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE DATING YOUR BESTFRIEND.

Uncle Romanus, if you are still feeling shy to ask the conductor for your change when you're in a bus with bae, then you are not best friends at all, you're just two familiar people doing relationship.

Some uncles cannot even price meat and fish in the market with pride when aunty is around. Uncle will just be feeling all shy, trying to look like a gentleman in front of her. If this is you sir, take it from me, there is a big gap in your friendship with her, a very big gap that pretending to be friends cannot fill.

Let me tell you a true story that happened with me and my Bestie Choco.

Okay so, I was supposed to pick her up to go shopping. I got there, tried to order an Uber, and the taxi was taking forever to get there. 5minutes became 15minutes, then 30 minutes. We couldn't wait anymore seeing that the traffic was crazy outside. So we decided to take a bike(okada). We walked to the bus stop, I stopped a bike and asked him to take us to the next bustop just to escape the traffic so we can order another Uber. That was how the bike man said N500 for two of us, hiiiaaaaan, that was obviously hyped because I was standing with the most beautiful woman in the world, but beauty did not concern me, oga the price was too much, I told him to go. Aunty was standing there looking at me. Next bike came, gave me an even higher fare, I told him to
Au revoir. Then another, same thing. Aunty got tired of standing, no exaggerations, we stood there for over 30minutes, not because we couldn't find a bike, but because I did not gree, nobody can use fine girl to cheat me.

Choco baby grew tired of me. If you people like say I'm stingy that's your concern, I was fighting for my human right. ��

Long story long, aunty vexed that I was pricing too much, but honestly the normal fare is just N150 to carry two persons, sheybi now you understand my Martin Luther King? �

Next bike came, Choco did not even ask for the price, she just jumped on the bike and said "Uncle, no vex, when you finish meet me for front." You needed to see the way I flew ontop of that bike, afterall na she go pay, cos me I'm not ready to pay N500 for nothing, when the bike is not taking us on excursion. ��

This was too extreme I know, but I was able to be that open because I was with someone who has seen me finish, at this point of our beautiful friendship I can say that pretending to each other is at owners risk.

Friendship is the biggest part of marriage, if you two must make it in this business, sorry I mean this marriage covenant, then you have to marry your friend. Not a familiar face, not a colleague in purpose, but a friend. A friend who you are comfortable around no matter where you are. A friend in whose presence you can conveniently bargain your change from the bike man unashamed. I know uncles who will stop a cab and agree on any fare without bargaining because they are with aunty, the gentleman in them will shoot out once our sister is around. Even when the taxi man is asking for more than usual, you'll still hear uncle say "let's go Baby, it's okay."

No, we are not going anywhere, oga if you no gree N150 then move, you are not the only taxi on the road. Sometimes even when he agrees to the fair you will still swallow spit and say "oga, N100 nko? Na just the next junction we dey go." Until the taxi man will swear for you and speed off. � Wait, if you don't have a girl who can prize things in the market uncle you are still single and fluctuating.

Aunty if you cannot fart in his face and apologize then its obvious you have trust issues. If you have not done messing competition before you're not real friends. Sometimes it's as simple as buying a sanitary pad in front of Uncle, some aunties are soo shy to even mention that they are on their period, let alone buy a pad when he is around. It has nothing to do with your spirituality Sir, Ma, that brother is not your best friend, simple.

There are so many ways to check the level of FRIENDSHIP in your relationship and marriage.

If you have not taken crazy selfies at the mall without feeling awkward with people looking at you like joli-just-com.

If the two of you cannot slap a soldier and run away.

If you cannot lap eachother in a bus. Some people are even too shy to eat together by the road side. Everyday you want to do chicken and chips N5000, when a balanced diet from Mama Sukura is only N500. You think you are doing me?

Have you two tried eating roasted corn on the road before?

Play loud music in the car and sing along?

Missed him so much that you call when you're out with your friends and put the phone on speaker for the whole squad to talk to him one by one?

Aunty, If you still have the mind and patience to edit your photos before sending them to boo, you need deliverance from chronic pretentism.

See guys, I'm just trying to make you find friendship in usual everyday things we can relate with. It's so important that we get this right.

Take this love exercise:

This month, get a pen and a paper and write down all the things you have done together as friends and match them against all the things you haven't done yet, then, GET YOURSELVES TO WORK ON IT, alright?.


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