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Kessythegeek: see rove lol...i will just tell ma gf to go and..do some facelift and peanut sized enlargement..

That means you don't truly love her

[quote author=T3 @_@ Amo]I think it is bad. True love is accepting the person regardless of his/her faults and not changing the person into something he/she is not. Rather go for the person that has what you are looking for instead.[/quote]I understand you, but in this day and age, it's hard to find someone with ALL the qualities I seek and my boyfriend is pretty close so if it's just a few changes, I see nothing bad

Kessythegeek: lmao serious?

Yes na

190:

Why the emoticon

My boyfriend is now growing a full beard to make me happy
Success!
Taking things slow, next up d enhancement

I vote for

Dygeasy
Obinnau
Cfcfan



Good luck guys!!!

[size=72pt]VOTE!!!! VOTE!!! VOTE!!
VOTE DYGEASY [/size]

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...I bet u turn heads when u walk pass Mechanics, bus conductors & Brick layers...but anyways ..Ama lover not a fighter and my aim is to help yor feminie swaaaga.... truss me... by the time am done wit u...u wil find a husssband by earlier next week! (true story) [/quote]K

Youngzedd: You're already wasting posting space.

Never try to quote me again.

Women can never rule 9ja till enternity. Let that sink into your memory if you have any.

You wanna rule 9ja, hehe I laugh in Latin. Dear go and look for the meaning of the word "Impossible " in your dictionary or Google it out.

Shi1t!

Ghetto dream, you will soon wake up.

So sorry if I wronged you in any way dear. Am just trying to be sincere.

I mean no harm sweetie lolz.
But your choice of words are horrible, try to amend it a bit, your a female and it's not Good for your health .

Your reply doesn't show a sign of a leader, you can't withstand criticism which is too bad.

Good night.

K

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...Sweery..yor commmunication skillz is to aggresive towards men & u can nevar find a hussband like that....truss me...that gentleman waz only tryin t help u...Ladies should always talk slowly! [/quote]Now you listen to me, my future husband would not make senseless threads and senseless comments for me to be aggressive towards. I think your attitude towards women needs to change because you may just end up alone with 60 cats

[quote author=network.recharg]Princess, ur anger is getting too much here (NL). MODs pls watch her arrogance. I am myself the NETWORK[/quote]Where have I displayed 'my arrogance' apart from on this pointless thread, please go and find something useful to do with your life jo.

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]....^^^^ another village girl ... sweeeery u neeed counseling (no ofoeinse) [/quote]No offence taken, would you be my councillor?

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...sweeery..calm down..are u Light skin or halfcast?? [/quote]I am blackcast oloshi!

Youngzedd: GHETTO DREAM.

I love Dagrin.

Some people just like to waste posting space, if you don't have anything better to do, abeg go take ur head nack wall. Rubbish !

[quote author=network.recharg]Just give us SEX. From d way u respond to critics. U will distroy us in two months, if given power.

We love u gals but not to give u power. Just give me love. Dats ur duty, God knows! With your responses to critics, you will distroy nigar in two months pitied into power. When ur husband will be called first sir. Against first. Who cares! We nigerians don't need such woman. Just give us SEX. 0X0[/quote]All I understood from your post was that you wanted sex, I don't know if it was even English you communicated in for the rest because I didn't understand a word, better go for deliverance in church, you need help!

[quote author=val_dee]I want to help you place an advert in search of your missing sense of humour.

Your post on this thread clearly shows you 've lost your sense of humour.[/quote]Whatever floats your boat, if you call this humour then darling I think u need the advert more than myself

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...OOOO yessss u are!!...u are loookin for a man & thats y u on nairaland..DONT LIE!!


...anyways, my job is to help and I will help u find a man... good man..truss me. ..r u light skin? [/quote]Maybe I was looking but I'm not looking at this particular instant in time. What does my skin color have to do with the price of fish?!

DnigerianPrince: Exactly! Look at it from the point you just made, If you give in today or at a later time, only 2 options, he either leaves or stay.

Depending on how you view sex, to me it's more than just sleeping with someone. I'm looking at it from the worse case scenario and i advise my sister to do same.

If you don't give in and it turns out that he leaves. Fine, you can gladly move on because that's definitely not the person you want in your life. Then again, it depends on how you see sex, if it's just a pleasure of the moment thing to you and you don't care about anything else, give in now.

Best case scenario, If you don't give in and he stays with you still, then he most likely sees beyond being with you just for sex only. I don't ask for sex from a girl if i want her for something more than casual dating, that's just me. Most of my guy friends are like that too.

If you give in and he stays, you're in luck but that doesn't happen very often that a guy asks for sex after the first week and still sees himself with you for a long term relationship. If i meet a girl and i see potential in her, sex is always the last thing on my mind for at least aa while during the dating process, the fun and excitement of knowing her outweighs the sexual feeling.

The last is the worst and this is what you should pay attention to. If you give in now and he leaves, how will you feel? How does giving up your body to every guy you meet after a week sounds like? Just because you believed in your mind he is the one. What makes you different from the prostitutes when you do that? If you're cool with giving up sex willingly, then this last one should mean nothing to you.

Ok thanks very much for your advice, I won't give in, hopefully he still stays

DnigerianPrince: Exactly! Look at it from the point you just made, If you give in today or at a later time, only 2 options, he either leaves or stay.

Depending on how you view sex, to me it's more than just sleeping with someone. I'm looking at it from the worse case scenario and i advise my sister to do same.

If you don't give in and it turns out that he leaves. Fine, you can gladly move on because that's definitely not the person you want in your life. Then again, it depends on how you see sex, if it's just a pleasure of the moment thing to you and you don't care about anything else, give in now.

Best case scenario, If you don't give in and he stays with you still, then he most likely sees beyond being with you just for sex only. I don't ask for sex from a girl if i want her for something more than casual dating, that's just me. Most of my guy friends are like that too.

If you give in and he stays, you're in luck but that doesn't happen very often that a guy asks for sex after the first week and still sees himself with you for a long term relationship. If i meet a girl and i see potential in her, sex is always the last thing on my mind for at least aa while during the dating process, the fun and excitement of knowing her outweighs the sexual feeling.

The last is the worst and this is what you should pay attention to. If you give in now and he leaves, how will you feel? How does giving up your body to every guy you meet after a week sounds like? Just because you believed in your mind he is the one. What makes you different from the prostitutes when you do that? If you're cool with giving up sex willingly, then this last one should mean nothing to you.

Ok thanks very much for your advice, I won't give in, hopefully he still says

[quote author=-Mr Cork-] ^^^^ typical angry black woman... honey..be nice and I will find u a man..truss me!! [/quote]Im not angry, I'm not typical and I'm not looking for a man. Get yo facts right! Your thread is just pointless face it

spikes C: sweety, are u sure you're 24...you sound 13 to me

How can I not know my age

DnigerianPrince: If he's already pressuring you for sex only after a week, then that's a red flag. Trust me, 99.9% of the time, he's only gonna hit it and run after a while, if not immediately. If that's what you want as well, then go for it otherwise...

You really think so? But someone said it doesn't matter when so If I wait for a few months, how do I know he won't still run?

Why is this thread still in existence? Pure undiluted rubbish!!!

DnigerianPrince: Huh

@princessmel,
I have given you my honest opinion and others have as well. At the end of the day, the decision you make is yours as well as the consequences of it.

Yes, I have read your opinion and everyone else's too. Thanks people. The only problem i have is that he is subtley pressurising me and i don't want to lose him over such

Funny how some of you making fun of side chicks are actually side chicks yourselves and you may or may not even know it, lets not even speak of the side guys *yimu*

U wan make person use you for juju to make money? Abi is it the other way round?
This life don spoil o

DnigerianPrince: I'll say a week is too soon, give it some time. Depending on what you want from the relationship with him, long term or short term. I don't know how old you are but from your post, you're probably very young(i might be wrong) BUT, at certain age, a lot of guy you meet will look like the ONE until you move closer and realize he isn't that one you've been seeking. However, if you keep letting them have their way one week after meeting, think of howe many guys you'd have slept with in your search for the ONE. That said, you no fit hold body till marriage? If you can't, go out on dates for a while first, or at least spend time with him without sex, Don't just give in to every Tom, Dic.k (literally) and Harry. Remember to use a condom when you finally let him in.

I honestly think he's the one, I see myself marrying him. And I'm not that young, I'm 24. Thanks for your advice tho

I met this guy a week ago, he seems like all I've been looking for in a man. My question is when can I let him go all the way, is now too soon?
Thanks in advance

fairari022: Dey chop ur groundnut , I dey chop my kuli kuli

Dey chop your kuli kuli, I dey chop my plantain chips

SniperInADiaper: Why all the old topics popping up tonight?

Bald guys are HOTT

Someone must be digging them up
Exactly, look at tu face! So damn hot

mobuch: How did this one escape from yaba left?
So many weirdos on nairaland.

Takes one weirdo to know his brother

Swaggot00: poverty..

Haha u be original mumu o, so rich person no fit chop garri again?